Ok, so, next time i ask this girl out and she asks, "as friends?" what should i say or do?
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Say "Forget it, then," and walk away from the Bitch. +5
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Don't listen to Mensan. The girl is asking this most likely because she needs to know if you're interested in her as more than friends. (duh, lol) So, if you have feelings for her as more than friends, this would be the perfect opportunity to tell her! So, I suggest coyly telling her, "What if we went out as more than friends?" Have you been getting signals from this girl that she likes you romantically?
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I would tell her "Sure"! The most meaningful and longest lasting relationships start as friends ... it's sure worth giving it a try!
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"No, not as friends, as a date" Don't get into the friend zone, you can't get out
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friends is better than nothing. As stupid as this will sound... this piece of advice in the 40-year-old virgin is quite true. You have to "plant the seed and let it grow into a plant". Be friends, make her laugh, and you never know what will happen soon enough.
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i would say sure i enjoy your friendship but, i would like to expand or relationship to be more than friends too. the best lovers are best friends too. put your cards on the table and be honest.
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Just say, 'yes, of course as friends.' And then take her out and show her a great time. Be confident. Be fun. If you spend time with her and she likes you as more than a friend, that you went out 'as friends,' won't matter at all.
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Dont fall into the friend trap
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well do you want to go out as friends or is it something more because if it is then tell her
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Be clear of your intentions.
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Be friends! It's the friendships that blossom into the the most amazing relationships.
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It seems to me that your first two dates (from reading the Comment to Mensan's answer) have been "as friends", right? So suggest to her with a smile that, "Maybe we can end this date with a kiss instead of a handshake if we're still friends at the end of it."
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say inless you want it as somthing else and the only hott girls are ones named anna lol not really but yea and help mee too
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Say no, she is probably just double guessing herself. She might not want to look foolish if she acts more serious then just friends on a date. So just reassure her that you want her to go out with you as more then friends.
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Stay away from the "friend zone"....tell her you like her and are interested in dating her. (not in those words, be smooth)
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thanks, im so happy!
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She obviously wants to know if you're asking her on a date. So...tell her if you are or aren't.
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"yea my great pleasure"
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omg wtf im so confused and crushed. i was talking to her tonight. she ordered a cheeseburger at work the other day and she is sort of a vegetarian. and i was talking to her tonight and i asked why she got it. she said, oh for cameron. i said oh, who is that? she said my bf. i said oh. she replied and said lol ya thats y i told u i just wanted 2 go with u as friends, i thought u knew... i was devastated... and i said oh. how long u been with him? she said oh not that long. i said so u still down for bowling friday and she said sure. i have no clue to say or do here i am so confused i thought we had something. please help.
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Answer her. Do you want to date or, or is she someone who's fun to hang out with. Don't try to script conversations -- just talk honestly with people.
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Do you think she likes you? If she seems to like you, tell her the truth and say "No, I'm asking you out" or whatever. But if she seems like she's not that into you, say "yes", and then take her out anyway. A lot of relationships start out as friends and then evolve into one. Chep. Good luck.
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Look her right in the eyes. Give her a wry smile, and say this. That's not what I had in mind. Wait for her response. See if that works for ya. If you can hold her hand, even better.
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Just say, "of course as friends". People are more likely to want something if they are not sure they can get it.
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If you can't be friends then you are just trying to get in her pants. If that's all you want, she's obviously not interested.
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Go dutch;)
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Shes wanting to know if you like her! be careful what she wants from you though. If you do want to go out as more than friends make sure she wants that too.
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Say exactly what you mean. Put the cards on the table and see what happens. You can't be dancing around trying to say the right thing. Just spit it out and see what happens.
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