• You need to set limits when you're in a relationship. Friends don't hangout at your place when you're in a relationship. And Dude is NOT your friend!!
    • Linda Joy
      What about his supposed 'friend'?
  • You had a girlfriend, a dog and future plans and you lived together. AND YET YOU HAD A GUY FRIEND COME OVER ALL THE TIME. You started it! What the heck were you thinking? Why weren't you and your lady out riding bikes, going to the movies, inviting couples over for BBQs, having game night with friends, cuddled on the couch watching movies together, jogging together, taking a picnic dinner to the park, blah blah blah. You ignored her, you ignored the relationship and you encouraged someone to be around constantly. Instead of taking responsibility for ignoring her you did nothing. You should have said you mean more to me than life and I don't want to be a jerkweed anymore by not working on our relationship so I'm only going to see my friend at McDonalds for coffee or the bar for a beer once a week. The rest of the time it's you and me babe. But your selfishness got you where you are. I don't feel sorry for you. You are responsible for your own predicament.
  • Bro I had my brother sleep with my first wife and then my very next girlfriend slept around on me. I knew in my heart that I was being done wrong in both relationships. I am now with my second wife for 13 years with none of those bad feelings. My advise to you is get away from both of those people. They are not your friends. You don’t have to make a big thing of separating from them but know that they aren’t looking out for you. They sound fake and you know they are also.
  • No one can help you unless you are willing to help yourself. You need to build up some self-confidence. This story should have ended when you found your friend sleeping next to your girlfriend and you ditched the two of them. A woman like that will never make you happy, and a "friend" like that will never be honest with you when you need it. The only person who can honestly make you happy is yourself. Be the person you always wanted to be, leave the toxic crap from the past behind, and once you are confident and following your own destiny, your intrapersonal relationships will improve. If someone tries to walk all over you in the future, shut them down right away. No one needs people like that in their lives.

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