I met a man recently, we spent a few hours together that I really enjoyed, and then out of the blue he asks 'when was the last time you made love?' How does one answer a question like that?
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Slap him! Just kidding. That certainly is an odd question to ask somebody that you don't know too well. Smile and exclaim that you don't know him well enough yet to answer such personal questions. Change the subject and hope he gets the hint that such questions are not appropriate yet. If he contines to ask personal questions that make you uncomfortable, perhaps it's time to move on.
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How does one answer a question like that? One doesn't. He was one of those idiots who thought he'd "put in the time", i.e. spent enough time with you so that he was entitled to have sex. His question was just a way of finding out if you were willing. I hope you weren't.
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I would respond, "Never. I prefer to SHARE my love than make it. Love is not like making a batch of cookies, you know." And while he's scratching his head, I would smile and excuse myself to the lady's room. Let it remain a mystery. It's none of his business.
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Well, if you like the person, I think that you should answer honestly, or just what you want him to know. If you don't like the person, I guess you should say that you are already in a relationiship so that the perosn doesn't get the wrong idea. If you havent' known the peron for very long, like your case, I would leave, You know?
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I would have played it right back to him, by asking "why would he ask me something like that"? stare at him and wait on his answer. If he did not express guilt, this motive was clear. Still be aware, he could be one of those con artist that knows what women want and need to hear/see. reversing the question should give him an idea of how you felt,if he actually cared. If I was a female and was asked that, I would have realized what he thought of me especially if we had recently became aquinted. Let me ask you? what do you think he was saying about you when he ask you this? ask yourself, what did you do to give him the courage to go there with you?, There are a few other things to consider. You dont want others to see you or be deceived by body language or converstations. You probably just showing how much you were enjoying this time with him, yet he could not get pass the meal before wanting the sweets. I am not faulting you, just giving something to think about the next time you are out on a date ect....
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i would ask him back "do you have any more useful Question aside from that? or it was juz your other head that is talking now?"
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If U like him then U'll answer to your sex need!Otherwise U can say 'No' Directly!!
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Ask him why he wants to know.
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Just say "tonight, But not with you." Then give a little chuckle.
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The last time I was in love...
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say yes, just to see what he would do. ~pooke
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I'm a guy and I can tell you he played you looking for tail. As a man I would never ask that!! Stay away from him!!!!!
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WELL? HOW DID YOU?
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depends are u attracted to him and do u want to have sex with him if u do answer honestly if u dont still answer honestly then just say u dont want to have sex
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honestly? Since 1985, why you want to change that for me? I want to know how did you answer it, tell tell tell.
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Well it was just last nite. I took on the Dallas Cowboys!
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You could have looked him right in the eye and said, "right before I met you-in fact I'm still dripping"-see how he took it!
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By looking at your watch and appearing to be doing some mental calculations...
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i'd be nervous if it was only a few hours of meeting someone.
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Pour his glass of ice water in his lap and walk away.
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truthfully, if you feel uncomfortable say that.
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Wow... Um I would have said I dont really remember, and then said, I need to leave and leave, and then change your number the next day.
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That's none of your business.
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first of all the question is wayyyy outa its time frame, you met the guy and liked spending time with him it seems like he musta thought you liked it too and jumped out the window with a comment like that.... i would say that either 1# he's a hornball or 2# he only has thoughts of doing you in the first place. so there should be no answr to that q I personally would just leave a dead space of air and act like he never said anything cause what will happen is that he will either get a clue that he just said the wrong thng or the perv will come out and he says it again and when tht happns RUNNNN!!!!
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I would ask, make love or have sex? Do you know the difference? Turn the question back to him girl!
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I would just be honest. I'm a pretty open person.
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"A lady does not speak of such things."
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ask, "that's a rather invasive question; why do you ask?"
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There is nothing wrong with asking a question? Absolutely nothing. Its up to you whether you want to answer it. He could've been coming from a point of view that he hasn't made love in a while and maybe sort of insecure about it. Just because a man asks a question regarding sex, doesn't mean that he wants to devour you. Some men need to talk about it. However, you could say "do you want fries with that" jokingly...its a nice way of saying...I'm not going to answer that. :)
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If you were in a porno, then youd have to say, "Right now" *takes off pants*
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I'm guessing the guy thought there was something between you...there probably was, but you're too prudish and insecure to wonder what might be once you've slept together...
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You should tell him, "before i came here to meet you" just to see his reaction.
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with the truth
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I would simply say "I'm not ready to answer that question at this point" or "why do you ask?"
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My answer would be something along the lines of : I can't see any reason for a complete stranger to need that kind of information.
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I would have told him it's none of his business. Then try to change the subject before he completely ruins the date.
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I would probably ask "why does it matter?". He will probably say "no" so you don't have to speak on the subject after that. I don't like speaking about people in my past with someone in my present especially a question like on a first date. He may be insecure or just wants to know if you are currently in something or recently getting out of something.
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It's none of his business. You don't owe him an answer.
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Tell him "Who the hell are you Sigmund Freud?"
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Lowe your eyes and say,"I think I just did"
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too bad you were having a good time. the guy was being a jerk and asked a very inappropriate question.
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tell him that "you don't really want to know"
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I would ask him WHY he said that? Then I would tell him that considering we were having such an nice conversation that seemed quite out of the blue. Tell him it is way too early to be consdering thoughts in that vein and it's kind of weird. That's what I would say. He put you off balance, get him off balance where that off balance belongs.
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if he's otherwise been a great date, i might say something like, "let's talk about this again sometime". if he's strange, i'd ask, "when's the last time you masturbated to a photo of jay leno, lassie, or lady carmella?"
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You look him in the eye and say, "A lady never shares all her secrets." Then, if you need to...walk away. Sounds to me like he invested some time and thought he'd test the waters. I don't know you or the man and I am not sure what you are both after so my advice ends here haha
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