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No, that's not normal. You should be able to talk to one another like how you talk to any other civilised human being.
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It is not something normal, and if she is not stopping after you've discussed it with her, it may be time to let someone else help her sort it out. Because it won't stop on it's own.
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1. It means that she does not respect you. Why? Impossible to say over the 'net. It could be that she has got bored with you, she is control freak, you offended her in some way or she found someone else she likes better. As I said, impossible to say here. 2. No, it is not normal , at least for couples in a healthy relationship. 3. Yes, you should be concerned about it. What does she say when you ask her not to do it?
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This means that she is about to start or in her menstrual cycle, ovulating and experiencing her period (flow of menstral blood). This is a common condition called PMS and is the answer to why your gf acts like a bitch. Hope that helps!
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She could be "hormonal". . .but that's really NOT excusing her! I think people should ALWAYS speak "respectfully" to one another; assuming they have maturity! I've learned that yelling. . .DOESN'T WORK and it's emmasculating! No need for it! If you love someone, you WANT to please them. I try to ALWAYS give people the "benefit of the doubt", 'cause once something comes out of my mouth, there's NO TAKING IT BACK NO MATTER HOW SORRY I AM!!!!
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Lost of respect, could mean love no longer exists too.
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In a healthy relationship, the couple doesn't yell at each other but otherwise they talk things out no matter what the disscussion is about. (bad or good)Yelling is no way to solve any problems in any way and believe it or not it will only make things worse. So no, it is not normal that she is yelling and it sounds like she has lost some respect for you and your relationship with her. When she doesn't like something you do or say and she begins to yell, ask her politely not to yell and ask her what you are doing wrong that she doesn't agree with. Ask her what you can do to change or improve on the situation (if you are comfortable and willing to do so), and tell her how you feel about it. Also ask her to tell you how she feels. (Expressing feeling is a big key in a healthy relationship.) Also if you begin to yell then she will most likely just yell more, so try your hardest to avoid yellling and talk in a normal tone voice. In my honest opinion I think if she doesn't want to talk things out with you and she continues yelling all the time then it just wasn't meant to be. The right one will respect you greatly in every way and will feel bad when they raise their voice at you. Ask her how she feels and tell her how you feel. It can really change things.
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I agree with the other answers, but I wanted to add: Have you met her family or seen her home situation? Because some families are like this as a matter of course, all the time. The parents yell at the kids, the parents yell at each other, the kids yell at each other, and on and on and on. It may be that she thinks this is the normal way to interact and not realize how jarring it is for you. I would suggest you talk to her about this sometime when you're NOT arguing about anything, sometime when you're both relaxed and being couple-y. Just ask her if she feels like she yells at you a lot, because it seems to you like she's yelling at you all the time and it's kind of upsetting. Emphasize how this feels for you, don't accuse her of anything. Try to make it a productive discussion and avoid getting defensive on either side. The point is for you to show her how it looks from the other side, and maybe she doesn't realize how often this is happening or how it makes you feel. It could be also that she is going through something on her end that you're not aware of, that is making her upset, and talking about it will help. If this doesn't work, if she just doesn't care about this or can't have an adult discussion like that, then you have a problem.
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Apparently she is not giving you, RESPECT .... IF she REALLY cared for you; she would talk to you in a civilized manner ... I'd tell her ..Just ONE more time ... that she needs to watch her big mouth .... IF she continued to yell .... I'd kick her azz to the curb and find someone who would treat me BETTER .
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