Last night me and my girlfriend were makingout and I thought she was ready to do more but she wasnt and slapped me in the face when I got curious hands. What should i do?
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nikenik22
ANSWERS: 15
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Take the slap like a man ! hahahaha just kidding she should not have slapped you, she should have nicely directed your hand in a opposite direction. On another note she will eventually let you go down south for the gold just give her time and to feel comfortable with it.
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slap her back! jk hmm yeah she should've just grabbed your hand
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she should have politely declined your advances by saying please dont or stop....she absolutely had no right to slap you. i would explain that she needs to be more clear about what is appropriate for you to do with her and you need to tell her that slapping you is not an appropriate reaction to unwanted advances. i think you both should have a talk about limits of the relationship before the next make up fest.
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ask her what makes her feel comfortable and what she likes.
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apologize
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Apologize.
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Apologize and tell her from now on you'll respect her.
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If a woman touched a guy and he slapped her, it would be thought of as abuse and severely criticized. I wonder now why some of the answers are telling you ONLY to apologize, or even worse, to slap her back. It is a double standard. I agree that you had no right to do what you did. It would not hurt for you to apologize as what you did was out of line. I also want to stress, though, that she had no right to hit you. Violence is NEVER a way of dealing with relationship problems. I would tell her that the relationship was over. You need to run before the abuse gets worse. Should you decide to stay, however, I would make it clear that she is never to hit you again. If she does, tell her you will be gone. She had no right to do what she did, either. If you disregard violence, then it will continue to be an alternative for solving conflict. Such alternatives can only lead to heartache and even severe personal injury. I would leave, but if you stay, then you need to sit down and talk to each other. See if you can come up with a better way of solving conflict. Good luck!
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Tell your curious hands they'll have to wait until they aquire a passport ,from your girlfriend, before they go exploring in another cuntry.LOL:D
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Next time, let your face get curious. OMG I can't believe I said that. sorry. it was supposed to be funny
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Slap her back and tell her you don't like rough sex.
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I think where you went wrong is that you assumed that because you were making out she was ready for more, you should never assume, I have been with my s/o for 10 years and I would never assume anything unless we have both discussed it. I think that you should tell her that you are sorry for the misunderstanding and hope that she accepts this, hope it works out.
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You should assume that she just wasn't ready for your curious hands just yet. Wait a while, enjoy where your relationship is right now. When you are ready to try again, you can break the ice by making a joke out of 'the slap.' That way she'll be expecting it, and can let you know if she is ready or not.
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from now on let her make the first move.
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You ask her before you start fooling around. "Tell me how far I can go so you dont have to get violent with me." Tell her until she can make that determination there will be no suck face happening.
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