ANSWERS: 22
  • You should each keep your own identity; not because you're confused but because you are two separate people.
  • Only if you both share the exact same opinions on everything.
  • You are individuals not one person and unless you wish to have another person give opinions which are not yours in your name . You should keep seperate accounts. I agree it would be confusing and people could start saying you are inconsistant and feel your opinions were not valid.
  • I think she doesn't respect your right to privacy. I would be highly pissed if my partner used my account and I would never dream of touching his.
  • Time to change your password and uncheck the remember my password check box. Sometimes couples need to "Be One" seperately
  • Not only does it confuse you, but it will confuse the people with whom you come into contact. One day you'll act one way, the next day, you'll act like someone else. I vote for two separate accounts.
  • You are two people in real life, why wouldn't you be two separate people online too? I say use your own accounts, your own user names, and your own avatars. Don't confuse us any more than necessary :)
  • Keeping two different accounts is important, because many times you are going to feel differently about different things, and people won't know which of the two to attribute and opinion to.
  • Prance around in her underwear in her room next time she comes home then say "I thought you said we should be one!"
  • I think if you want a private account you should use a private account if you dont care then why are you asking this question?
  • Being one and pretending to be someone else isn't being one. Being one means in thought and goals and purpose, not in body and typing. Make your account jut for you and let her use her account. Write the same add-on name so people know you are 'together' but don't share accounts.
  • You gotta keep em seperated.
  • You're right.
  • No two people are one.
  • change your password and don't forget to logout
  • You are different people, have differents oppinions and should use you own accounts. Change your password and don't tell her what it is :)
  • Unless you two are connected together in some way, you should each have your own account. You are correct, but you need to take some resposibility and make sure you log out. That way, she would need to sign in. If she knows you password, change it.
  • explain to her that even if you have a relationship, you still need your own personal stuff and privacy and answerbag are giving your opinions, you dont have the same opinion even if you love each other and yeah its confusing especially if she (incase) offended someone here, the blame will be on you. change your password and dont give it to her, coz no matter if you log out she can still log it in :P
  • Just be sure to sign a prenuptial if you decide to get married so that if you divorce you will know ahead of time who keeps "anony" an who keeps "mossss". Does she use your toothbrush too? I mean... your mouth is one, right? :P
  • Keep it separate. It will be more confusing for users. Plus, if she has her account, why the heck does she need to use yours? With her plan, are you allowed to go on her account? The only reason I could see somebody trying to convince you to do this is your girlfriend may hold back saying some things on her account, but might ruin your "reputation" by saying those things on your account. As for the two of you "being one", your not married, so your not "one" together yet. And even then I don't think this falls under that category.
  • You two are one? Ask her if you are siamese twins? Of course you should have your own personalities, identities etc. Not clones of each other, ugh. My S/O has many very different opinions to me and although I love him to bits I would be mortified if someone mistook things he sometimes writes as coming from my mind. Jeez does she really want you two to end up like Turk and Carla in the final episode of Scrubs - Turla? Freaky!
  • hmmm....Are you trying to cover something up???

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