Both

See who's is bigger. I guess.

Go on Jerry Springer & Wup'em

I would be pretty happy, because now I would finially have a story that I could start with "so I dated this hermaphradite once, right..."

Cut it off.

Na, it would be over for sure. It must be an akward situation for someone you love to be a man, when you thought they were a woman... However- whatever factors you thought existed in your relationship would be killed, based on that big of a lie... Sorry i took the serious angle.. :)

Find myself a very good therapist.

I believe the PC term is Intersexed, I also believe that being intersexed is a physical condition about which this person can do very little besides radical surgery and has prolly been taunted and abused for most all their lives. Its prolly something that took a lot of guts to tell you, and rejection, although prolly a life time occurrence,not to mention the verbal abuse and taunting and the confusion and identity issues,will only reinforce this persons belief that the rest of us are just selfish jerks who lack insight and the ability to see past the physical for who this person really is. instead of making a joke of this persons condition, why not look deep inside yourself and grow as a person and get to know this individual?

I wouldn't mind. Do they prefer to be identified as a man or a woman? Are they a true hermaphrodite (both parts) or are we talking a hermaphrodite who just has a really big clitoris/small penis? Do you love them? I seriously would not mind - I'd be more intrigued than anything else.

I would never date someone for a few months without having had sex with them. 3 weeks, max, and that's if we're only seeing each other once or twice a week during that time. It would be silly to risk forming an emotional connection to someone over months, only to find out that they were sexually incompatible with me - either because the sex was bad / awkward, they weren't into the same things as I was, their sex drive is unacceptably lower or higher than mine, or... they were not exactly what I was expecting... down there. But let's say I found out someone I was dating, on the third date, was a hermaphrodite (because we were about to have sex, or because they told me). Well, if I found out by SEEING it, because they just assumed it would be okay, I would yell at them, asking them why on Earth they thought it would be a good idea NOT to tell me first, sort of as a warning, or something. If they told me, I probably would be polite about it, and say that they were great, and perhaps we could be friends, but nothing sexual could happen between us, and hence, nothing romantic. I'd feel the same way about a pre-op transsexual. I'm a straight guy, and I'm not interested in having any penis be involved in my sex besides mine. Not that there's anything wrong with it if someone else feels differently. I know one thing - it would make a great story!

Claw my eyes out

eh, I think women would have less of a problem with this than men. Men (straight men)tend to not want another penis involved.

I wouldn't continue the relationship, most likely. It's not the fact that the person is a hermaphrodite, but that the person couldn't be honest at all (though I don't think I'd be interested in a hermaphrodite, but only God really knows if I would or not.)

Leave them for not being honest from the beginning.

I would not happen. If I dated someone for a few months the secret would have come out in some way. And, depending on the particular situation, I would stay or go. Can't make that decision without having it happen.

well I guess it would prove that you hadnt been intimate with the person prior to finding this out at any rate, I dont think I would be too keen ..........

Being a physician in genetic engineering I would not freak out, I would try to help the person be what he/she wants to be. I would forget the dating part and spend my time trying to help. Ethics above all. Cheers.

me ,if i cared enough about the person i wouldn't care.i think it could prove to be a very interesting relationship.but everyone has their own opinion.myself i'm a straight male but the extra benefit is a part of her and i'm not going to let her go just because of that.its not whats on the outside cover that counts its whats on the inside.i'm sure you are in a what some people would call a tough situation and i'm sure she is to not knowing how your going to handle it.so my advise is to play it by ear and see how you both get along.look at it this way she is willing to be with you without looking at you to be different,she could say she would rather be with someone like herself but that don't seem to be the case.if you care enough about her you will put everything else aside and look at her as a female human being because thats what she is.whats inbetween the legs is secondary,its whats in the heart that matters the most.good luck and i hope things work out for you and your girlfriend....signed pete