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  • You get first hand knowledge of Unrequited Love Unrequited love is love that is not reciprocated, even though reciprocation is usually deeply desired. This can lead to feelings such as depression, anxiety, and mood swings such as swift changes between depression and euphoria. The expression is usually used in a negative sense, but even today there are many people who unknowingly live in or even purposely strive for a frame of mind perhaps best described by that of minnesingers and troubadours in general.
  • You pout in sadness...unless you make a move of course.
  • Dear Love Someone,---- I have been in that situation, and I found through heartship - By trying to make someone love you, will only push - what, could be a friendship down the drain!! Then the more we try - the faster they fly !!! Try not to ponder on him , just take a step back -- and be his/her friend. I hope this helped some?? Bless you -- Pattijo
  • This is a relationship that will never produce prosperous fruit(love)at least as long as it is a one way lay. This is like shopping and returning it without a receipt and leaving with out a refund. This relationship will be an obstacle course that will get harder and you will become physically exhausted. This is not a good way to develop strength, too much of a risk it can go either way stengthen you or weaken your.
  • This is a situation that everyone in the world is thrusted in at some point in time or another, and it's just awful. When you're faced with unrequited love the only thing you can do is pray to whoever you pray to and hope that you can successfully woo the object of your affections.
  • move on, you will find better than him...
  • When I was "a kid" (16 - 20) I pushed it and got what I thought I wanted so badly. Unfortunately, what I got wasn't what I thought it would be...an so I made a LOT of dumb, hurtful mistakes. In retrospect...I would say to myself...STOP TRYING TO MANIPULATE SOMEONE ELSE...AND DEMEAN YOURSELF AND MOVE ON BABY! There is LIFE after disappointment and sometimes not being loved is NOT because you are not good enough or worthy enough...it sometimes is NOT about YOU at all. Get out, meet new friends, be open to the good things that are out there and try to avoid the bad! Never settle for less than the best.
  • I watch from a distance, see if he's really happy with someone else, and if he is... let him go. Yeah, it's very, very, godawful hard to do. I know, cause that's exactly what I'm trying to do now. T_T
  • it's hard when you are betrayed from within. You must be true to yourself. when you know it is time to give up, let it go!. If you fail you'll betray yourself and you'll continue to accept selfish relationships.
  • You move on and find someone worthy of your love.
  • Let them go and take really good care of you. Seek the love of family and friends to help you heal as you process this love loss. I have found that all of them hurt, some more than others. The love and support that I recieved really helped to mend my broken heart.
  • I am in this exact situation and it hurts me to the core. There is nothing you can do about it, you cannot force love. I give it out unconditionally and receive little to none in return. You should ideally just get out of the situation. I however cannot because I am deeply in love and deeply screwed.
  • The heart is the most resilient muscle (emotionally speaking). People survive so much worse than this, learn from those that have gone before you! I am a die-hard romantic. I fall in love over and over! That's why I love being single almost as much as I love being married to Hubby :) Take a time-out to take care of yourself and then let yourself feel something for someone who appreciates you. Last, I have said this here before, but I gotta say it again: "If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with". ~ Crosby, Stills and Nash.
  • You hurt. You struggle. You move on the best you can. You can also learn how CAPABLE of loving you are. How deeply you can feel love. How much you need and want love. Those are HUGE discoveries to make in the human experience.
  • move on and find someone else.
  • You get rather emotional and unhappy, usually.
  • This is always tough and never easy to answer. Nothing in the world that is free is as valuable as love presented to another person. All you can do is show your very best and if that person does not reciprocate then you have done all you can do. It is up to you when you feel you should move on but don't waste something as valuable as your love when it will not be returned. Consider the fact that you are a wonderful person for wanting to share love in the first place and many, many a good person out there would gladly share it with you and need it too. You will do great!
  • The only thing you can do is move on. try to sever all contact, for your own sake. In time, although it seems impossible to you now, you will be able to forgive/forget and learn from it :O).. try to see things more positivley, maybe you were meant to have this experience, in order for you to meet your real 'true love'.. There really is somebody out there for us all.. :O)
  • You try to win them over but don't force it. I did it once and I had the guy for a few months but he didnt feel the same so I guess I never had him at all. You need to try to move on if he doesnt love you back, tho I know that takes time. Its better to be with someone who loves you and cherishes you in the same way as you do!
  • We're often told to never give up trying to get what we want. But there's a thin line between obsession / stalking and having found "the one" true love for you. Don't make the police have to tell you the difference! Know your value, and simply never give up on yourself! Whenever we feel an attraction towards someone, it's never good to have to push them to return our feelings. We've probably all done stupid things in so-called relationships. It was probably because we were insecure with ourselves, didn't know our wants or limits, or how to feel about love. We settled for less, giving twice as much, thinking it would eventually work out alright. It never does! Best we can hope for is the strength to move on, before we've become a complete fool or arrested! In a real partnership, one might give more than the other sometimes. In the end though, it all works out balanced, healthy, and right for each of them. However, when one partner doesn't care, they rule the relationship, because the one who cares will do anything and everything to make it work out. They become a fool for what they believe is love. Don't ever let this be you!
  • You still love them, but give them space. If it's a non romantic relationship- then they might come around in time if you don't give up, same for a romantic relationship. Do not forget to give them space. Sometimes that means not even seeing them for awhile. Don't be too clingy.
  • Write some poetry or a sappy country western song. Turn the experience into a work of art, then move on. Nothing is more painful than watering a tree that bears no fruit. But it's something we will all experience in our lifetime.
  • Simple - you move on. Harsh as it may sound, that's all you can do, it's only fair on yourself & the other person.
  • You move on. Theres no point waiting for that person to love you back as much as you love them. Find someone else that you dont even have to consider asking this question about
  • I don't know. But if you ever find the answer let me know. Right now I feel like my whole world is falling down around me and it makes me feel like I am fighting for air. Everyone says to move on, but how? What do you do? What is the first step? And where do you get the strength to take it?
  • Move on. Once you absolutely make the decision in your own head, the rest will follow, so just kick yourself in the ass, don't give yourself (the other person) any more excuses, and make the decision. It really is that simple. The rest of the steps will fall into place from there.
  • Well I've deffinitely discovered how you feel when the one you love doesn't feel the same way. Yeah i know most people say that it's just a boy or its just a girl, but deep down inside your thinking "NO. ITS MORE THAN JUST A BOY OR JUST A GIRL! THAT BOY OR GIRL IS THE ONE THAT I LOVE." But you really can't make the person you love, love you because you can never make your heart feel something it doesn't and you can't make your heart not feel something it does. Well all I'm going to say is "Whatever is meant to be will find it's way" so maybe the reason that that person doesn't love you is because maybe later down the road, you'll find someone that does love you and you love them, and you'll be thinking "why did I like that person?" trust me these things happen. Or maybe that persons just too shy to even say anything about whether they like you or not. So maybe if you'd talk to whoever that person is more, they would become more open to you and maybe someday or another, you guys will be going out or even married! okay well that's just my opinion. Bye! :)
  • Pray for the strength to move on.
  • I have JUST gotten my first girlfreind and I'm 20! I have lived this story all of my life pretty much-IT SUCKS! I usually just ignor the pain and walk away ya know...
  • you know tell him if it doesn't work out there are still fish in the sea,like me I really loved someone and didn't have a chance to tell her because she left.
  • Feel a lot of pain for quite sometime but have to "let it go" at some point & move on. Forgive, just never forget!
  • Find someone else who will.
  • What should you do when you have fallen in love with someone at work and you have a boyfriend and they have a girlfriend and you,ve told them how you feel.
  • It is hard to say. I loved this guy for 7 years. The first time that I met him, it seem like instant attraction (at least that is what I thought). Over several years, he never took the time to be considerate of my feelings (if he even knew that they existed). I would pray and cry consistently asking GOD to change his heart but, he's still this arrogant air head. I would go away and come back to find myself communicating with him once again. I look at it now and wonder, why? I thought with age comes wisdom. But, that was not in his case. He is 30 years old and still he just do not get it. I realized now, that he is a cold hearted person and I had to let him go. I want a man who is considerate, caring and loving. One who his warm hearted. So, believe me when I tell you that the person that breaks your heart, will greatly miss you as time goes by. That person will realize that they had something good. When you let that person go, you will not suffer. That person will have to deal with the harsh consequences.
  • It is hard to say. I loved this guy for 7 years. The first time that I met him, it seem like instant attraction (at least that is what I thought). Over several years, he never took the time to be considerate of my feelings (if he even knew that they existed). I would pray and cry consistently asking GOD to change his heart but, he's still this arrogant air head. I would go away and come back to find myself communicating with him once again. I look at it now and wonder, why? I thought with age comes wisdom. But, that was not in his case. He is 30 years old and still he just do not get it. I realized now, that he is a cold hearted person and I had to let him go. I want a man who is considerate, caring and loving. One who his warm hearted. So, believe me when I tell you that the person that breaks your heart, will greatly miss you as time goes by. That person will realize that they had something good. When you let that person go, you will not suffer. That person will have to deal with the harsh consequences.
  • Un requited love is a terrible feeling,because no matter how much you put into the relationship it will never work because you will want so much more. Its the pits because its so hard to let go,when you love some one so deeply,but after a while of them treating you badly which they will if they dont love you,you will eventually move on,time will heal,not the answer you want to hear i know and i feel for you,been there and kinda there still now,and you cant just walk away i know that. :(
  • As Dora said on NEMO, "just keep swimming"
  • When I was 16 many many many many years ago lol I was head over heels inlove with the most beautiful girl I ever met. Her name was Roseanna a very beautiful girl who just a couple of years befpre cam to America from Italy. I loved her like no other man probably ever loved her and she treated me like crap cause UI was not her idea of handsome It took me 6 years to realize I would never be good enough to be her boyfriend before I finally gave up and moved on. My advice is you can't force someone to love you if you feel you can be just friends with the guy then by all means do so but don't expect he will ever feel the same for you.
  • same here I'm deeply in love with my bf who wants to have other girls ... It hurts me to the core and I'm dying inside as im trying to be his friend and just suck it in. The only thing that makes life a little more bearable is to focus on yourself and your personal goals. Work hard to make the other aspects of your life better and you shall survive.
  • get over it, the faster you do ,the faster you will meet someone that loves you as much as you love them.
  • Ponder it, most likely cry - but DO NOT try to be their friend. You need to get over them and move on. Otherwise, you are destined to misery. Loving someone who doesn't love you back is miserable. I know from experience and wish I got over her quicker.
  • ii am in this position right now, Im 13 hes 15 and we were inlove for a year and two months.. I still love him to death but he says that were too young for love. I feel really heartbroken because i gave him my virginity after six months because my feelings for him were really strong. Then about two weeks ago i called him and he said he doesnt want to see me ever again. I cried every night till thiis Day and still cry everytime he talks to me on msn because all he does is unsult me. as much as he doesnt deserve to be iin my life my feelings for him are stronger then ever. ii dont know what to do without myself but my advice is do the opposite of me. Give hym Space then start to build a friendship very slowly.. You never know what might happen.. MuCh LoVeEe
  • I regret that I let my feelings for her ruin a good friendship. Now that I love her but am not in love with her I feel that I have lost a best friend. Looking back I don't know If it was preventable
  • The best thing you can do is to forget that person may be that person wasn’t meant for you and may he/she doesn’t deserve you.
  • It's hard to love someone when there is no love in return, it's even sadder when there is no love at all. True genuine Love is not self seeking, therefore it should not change even if they do not love you back. True Love never fails, people fail to truly love.
  • I just keep right on loving them as best I can :)
  • You can't help whom you love..true selfless love doesn't require reciprocity..however, I cannot conceive of loving someone who was disrespectful, insensitive and unkind.:)
  • well i have been friends with her for 4 years...we dated for like6 months when we first met and now we r just friends...but when she was about to give me a second chance this faggot comes in and takes her virginity and now she doesnt want to be with me anymore...i mean he dumped her and we went out for like a week and she said wat me and this dude was real and we had was fake im srry and idk if we r even friends anymore :(
  • IV'E BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A OLDER GUY. WHO IS NOTHING BUT A PLAYER AND I LOVE HIM TO DEATH EVEN THOUGH HE AINT SHT. I HAVE FOUND OUT SOME HORRIBLE THINGS ABOUT HIM AND STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM I CAN'T UNDERSTAND HOW I CAN STILL WANT TO BE WITH HIM. I CAN ONLY SEE HIM WHEN HE WANTS TO SEE ME. IT'S JUST A BIG JOKE. BUT I JUST CANT LET GO. AND THIS HAS BEEN GOING ON FOR 7 YEARS WOW!. I FEEL LIKE BEATING HIM DOWN SOMETIMES BUT JAIL IS NOT FOR ME. MAYBE ONEDAY I WILL COME TO REALITY AND TAKE THE TRUTH AND GET THE LOVE I DESERVE. HOPEFULLY SOON I'M MENTALLY AND PHYSICALLY DRAINED. I REALLY AM1
  • dear freind, im going throgh that now ,and trust me this is so hard because you want them to love you back and they dont , it sucks , please do not push the situation on him , give him time and let him thikn about things , dont cling on him and dont pressure him , the best thnig to do is just give it time and see what happens, try to hang with your friends more , they are there for you and so is your family... (stay close to god , your going to need spirtuall guidance) If its ment to be it will happen , dont play with time , let time have a chance ... If it doesent work out , time will heel itself ....
  • Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have. i searched this up looking for answers, and non are those which i desire. It's harder to let go, more so when they won't let you... i suppose mine has a reason, he's had it rough, and needs to figure himself out before he can another, we will always be the closest friends, still talk everyday... all you can do is be there...be yourself... search for something to take your mind off of it...
  • Hello all, I just would like to thank you all for your comments and opinions. I am hurting so bad right now because I'm deeply in love with someone and he's not ready to settle down and he told me so. However, he will call once a week to see how I am which really makes me angry. I have really found comfort in your responses and I really don't feel as stupid as I did before. Thanks again everyone!
  • My husband and I are separated, we live apart. But, we have three children together and we have been married for 8 years- We haven't divorced yet ---- He keeps playing these games with my heart. Playing husband and Daddy for a few days at a time, like he is trying to show me how he could be and then he rips it away and breaks my heart Tells me how he doesn't want a person like me and even humiliated me by telling me to leave his house in front of his friends.If this is not the hell and torment you want to experience - I suggest you get out now and find someone who will love you and love to be with you.
  • oh God i even tried stepping back...being cold...no change in behavior... because the guy ı love is frozen inside im sure since his ex-girlfriend dumped him 4 months ago. i heard it was a hard blow.at the beginning (2 months ago) it looked lie he might wanna give me a chance and we slept together twice but nothing... he is dedicated to his guitar. he doesn't ask me how Ä°m doing...but he's polite. Ä° see him every wee because Ä° take drum classes where he works and guitar classes from him (i chose to do so not only because Ä° wanted to be around him but also because I wanted to improve my guitar-playing.) Ä° like the guys who work at the store (they're all friends) and feel good when Ä°m around music....but anyways, i dunno what to do...i feel like i shouldnt go there anymore and quit drum and guitar classes even though i love it so because his nonchalance is bugging me. and i made this book (like a diary) filled with writings for him with dates and i dunno what to do with that either...i dunno if i should burn it (but that would make me cold inside) or give it to him and never go bac to that store again...because to me love is sacred and by giving him that i let him now exactly how ı felt day by day and it's cathartic. what should ı do?
  • you wait!~!! b4 my and my bf were together i hated him and he said he loved me he waited for me for a year,and i thank god that he did because im so in love with him im glad he didnt give up on me
  • how about this. I met a girl at college who really liked me, but I didn't know her well and didn't care too much for her. As we became better friends I really started to like her... how she felt well i'm not sure. We had close calls on going out, but never happened. We remained friends, i met the family(who were amazing), and then she moved. My feelings for this girl transcend nearly everything. It's her essence, her spirit. I wouldn't care if she lost her face, I'd still want to be with her. She feels like my perfect match, but I don't think she feels the same. I've dated many beautiful woman, but none that make me glow like her. she just doesn't do it to me, but to everyone who knows her really. Everybody loves her. I've not pushed her to tell me how she feels, i'm giving it time. She's moving back this year to my college and im debating going back to college or staying in italy (which is a better choice to me but this girl is not there). Im just worried, I'll never find another girl like her if she never wants me. And I don't think I'll ever be happy with anyone else unless another amazing girl like her can come along. But perhaps im misguided. As long as i've known her I can't see any shortcomings, those that are aren't problems to me. Maybe i'm in an illusion, or maybe this is what people who are really in love feel. it's so much more than infatuation. I want whats best for her, even if she wants another guy; but if I could be that guy... in any possible way, I would do anything. Anyone had something similar? Or have any good advice?
  • Remove myself from the situation an seek for another candidate. which is a really hard thing to do but if you remove yourself from the situation it can save you from a heartache and nightmare. believe me i learned it the hard way for months i forgot that the "sea" had billions of males alive to choose from.
  • You stop trying (after it's obvious they don't) and go find someone that truly does.
  • I put them in my basement and make sure to feed and water them.
  • Its hurts, really hurts to love someone and not be loved in returns but what can you do ??? I have been in that situations times without number and all i can say is love someone with all your heart and if you dont get it back dont bother ..You will get over the pain and one day,love will find you
  • I HAV KNOWN K FOR 3 YEARS NOW WE FELL OUT ABOUT TWO YEARS AGO BCOS SHE LIED TO ME ABOUT A BF WHEN SHE KNEW I WANTED TO BE WITH HER, 3 OR 4 MONTHS AGO I MADE THE EFFORT TO GO AND FIND HER COS I HAVNT BEEN ABLE TO MOVE ON OR FIND ANY1 TO BE HONEST I DONT WANT ANY1 ELSE SHE SAID SHE WAS SINGLE SO I FELL IN LOVE WITH HER ALL OVER AGAIN ONLY TO FIND OUT LAST FRIDAY SHE HAS BIN WITH SUM1 FOR A YEAR ND 10 MONTHS ND HE HAS JUST DUMPED HER FOR KNOWING ME I STILL LOVE AND FORGIVE HER BUT SHE LOVES HIM SHE ALSO HAS GOT INTO A TRAP OF ABUSEING KETAMINE I DONT KNOW WAT TO DO IM HURTING ALL OVER MY HEART FEELS LIKE IT HAS BEEN CUT OUT AND FRIED
  • I'm in love with a co-worker. I'm divorced and she is going through a divorce. We've known each other for almost 3 years. We have great heart-to-heart conversations about once a month and really like each other. The problem is that I am always the one to initiate conversations. I deeply love this woman but I have the sinking feeling that the timing is wrong. However, our conversation have gone from her saying, "I'm not looking for anything right now," to "Here's what I'm looking for." When I told her that I want and fit into her needs, she responded warmly. I've told her I love her (I really didn't want to but it just came out during a conversation we had) and the next day she invited me to lunch (this was a week ago). We went and had a good time. I reciprocated by putting together a lasagna (her favorite food) for her to take to her new place (remember she is going through a divorce and is moving out during the holidays) and she seemed to be touched. All I've said at this point is, "Once you are settled in and feel like it, let's go out on a date." She was noncommittal but seemed ok with the idea. Does anyone have any thoughts? I'm trying to stay as far away as I can because I don't want to push her too hard - but we see each other every day. The weekends are just awful because I'm always wondering what she may be doing. I've been going on lots of dates and still am because I want to make sure I'm not going crazy. However, each date just confirms that she's the one I want. Does anyone have any thoughts?
  • love is the most wonderful, and painful thing. if you really love someone and they dont love you back theres nothing you can do because if you trulely love that person you cant make it stop. all you can do is cry and feel worthless. but without this bad painful side of love there wouldnt be the good part. although ive never been in a place where the person loved me like i loved them, i still believe that love is real. after you have experiences like this you realize that love has nothing to do with physical attraction, or sex. you can have sex with someone who your attracted to but if you dont have true frrlings for them it means nothing. when your with someone that you really love it is the most wonderful thing. if someone who is reading this is in a loving relationship i just want to tell you to really sppreciate it and cherish the person.your very lucky and i wish i could have the person i love.
  • i loved soemone but he doesnt love me back i even told him that i like him he said me 2 and we can be best frndz and back then i knew he doesnt like me more than frndz and aftera few days i found it he is ma frnd boyfriend and be4 that ma frnd was teh one who told me 2 tell him that i loved him she really helped me and nw she left him cuz of mee cuz i love him she said she cnt be with him and one of her frndz loves him:S and i cnt 4give ma self for that i tried talking 2 her 2 convince 2 go back 2 him buts he dnt want :S and am scared that he wont 4give me 4 that and ma frnd that shes goin 2 get hurt :S:S can some1 help me plzz cuz i really dnt knw wat 2 do i hate being the reason 4 them getting hurt :S
  • oh man... i know that. i love a girl so badly.. so bad that i think i will never love anybody so much like her. but she's seeing me as a really good friend... and shes dating other guys and she is on a way to fall in love again. i never really said to her what i really feel(but i think she knows). cuz im scared to lose this friendship. i was trying to forget her.. but no chance :) but at the end even if it breakes my heart. as long as she is happy. i am happy too.. in some way... and just like the other guys/girls said here. dont rush. time will tell
  • I am really great friends with this girl. I mean we are best friends. But i have amazing feelings for her. We have talked about it. She has told me "she just wants to be friends. She would never want to screw up our relationship." I have accepted that, but how in the heck do i get these feelings for her out of my head. I wright music, and me and this girl sing together. But can some one tell me what to do.
  • i think it is better to loved to have never loved at all don't ask me what that means because i don't really understand I'm in the same problem i don't know what to do he says he's not looking for a relationship between anyone i know i sound desprit some people don't know what its like to fall in love i just wish the guy i like would take a chance or a risk or any thing and see how it works out if does not then we could could go back to just being best buds and maybe he'll understand how i feel
  • its better to loved then never of loved at all this guy i liked should took a risk should took a chance but all he ever say is that he's sorry but i know he not look for a relation ship right now and maybe he can see an ackturely fall in love with me and we can just be buds if that does not work out be you can all way i mean all ways try but dont get hopes up to high because you never know what might hi you in the back of your head....
  • its better to loved then never of loved at all this guy i liked should took a risk should took a chance but all he ever say is that he's sorry but i know he not look for a relation ship right now and maybe he can see an ackturely fall in love with me and we can just be buds if that does not work out be you can all way i mean all ways try but dont get hopes up to high because you never know what might hi you in the back of your head....
  • date their sister
  • partly you get over it....
  • i've been 8 yrs...trying and finally i'm free. @ first i tried. I'm very persisten so i keept trying...until i realize that you should never give your soul and heart to anybody that does not correspond to you...i know it may seem stupid...but i think that's it. Specially when some people take advantage of you knowing you love them and make u believe things that in reality are not true...I KNOW KNOW GOD DOESN'T DEAL IN THAT DEPARTMENT BECAUSE IT HAS TO DO WITH FREE WILL...IT DEPENDS ON THE INDIVIDUAL...BUT I THINK GOD HAS TO DO WHEN THEY TRY TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU....JUST PRAY TO WHO EVER YOU PRAY TO GIVE YOU WORDS THAT THE OTHER PERSON WANT TO HEAR.... it's not easy...i know it sounds easier than to be done...but MOVE ON! be open to new things.
  • Pack your stuff and leave. The longer you stay, the more heartache you bring upon yourself.
  • try to realize that they may never love you that way you want. love can't be forced and if it is than its not true love.
  • I'll be extremely sad, go into a depression...sit on the couch and watch TV, lie in bed most of the day...probably do really badly in school...I don't know what I would do if my love left me. I would go back to being the partying careless person I was before he came along.
  • It's hard to go through this shit, when you love someone unconditionally. When she needs you wherever and whenever you always be there for her. You try to protect her, she push you away. When all her friends left her, you still there for her but she never like you, she always thought you're her best friend even though you told her how much you like her, she got mad at you, you got no love return from her but you still love her so much. That feeling sucks, it hurts so bad. Especially there are so many girls like you, wanna be with you, all you want is her...to this point there should be an end. So i decided to forget her and move on to find someone worth my love, to find someone really care of me, treat me better and love me.
  • Don't communicate with them for awhile. This is the hardest thing in the world to do, but try to stick to it. Spend as much time as you can with friends and other loved ones to get your mind off of the one you love. Time. It takes time. As you have time away, with NO COMMUNICATION, your heart begins to heal. There are others in the world who will be deserving of your love for them and they are out there. And you will find you can love again if you just give it time.
  • Move forward and don't look back.
  • i'm still looking for the answer..help me..i love her..but she said "I'm sorry, I don't love you. Even though I force myself, I just can't feel it.I'm sorry."what should I do?I really love her..even though it hurts..
  • Give up. Minimize the damage to yourself. +4
  • I Feel The Same Way.A Girl I Love Dosent love me.And The Worst Part Of All I Cant Do A Single Thing About It!The Onlly Thing To Do Is To Wait For Somebody Else To Fall IN Love With.And I Havent Fall In Love With Somebody Else Yet Oh Godh I So Miss Loving Someone That Loves Me Back But That MAybe Never Ever Happens
  • Don't give up! Just wait and they may come around :) +5
  • im in that position now and i have talked to many people all i can say is keep your head up try and forget and move on. If you do have to cry find a good friend to cry to trust me it halped a lot no more cryin myself to sleep because of it i still like him very much but what can you do just dont show him your weak side and move on. With all my love i hope this helps!!! -Wishin He Was With Me
  • If i really love someone,i will love her/him no matter who she/he loves... If i love a girl,i wll make her happy to be with the one she loves even though i have to hurt myself.. And i won't tell her i love her cause she'll feel guilty and confused.. As for my best friend,all i could say is He will always be my best friend even though i'm not his... True love is when you want to see someoen happy no matter what...even if you have to hurt yourself... Even if it's painful,even if it's bitter for me, all i want is for them to be happy even though those happinesses aren't through me... That's true love in my opinion

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