My partner kissed a friend (amongst other things) while in the pool. I feel betrayed & unwanted by his actions. He says he was drunk & made a mistake. I can't get the image of him being with this other guy out of my head. Is this relationship over?
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I know what this feels like. My ex was a cheater. I put up with him for 6 years. Why? I do not know. Is this the first time smething like this has happend? If not, he is not worth your time. Find someone that will treat you as you deserve. If this is his first offense, you might think about taking a break from each other. Maybe your partner is having mixed feelings about your relationship. Taking a break, but not breaking up, will help give you both a chance to think about your relationship. If he cheats while on the break, then he doesn't respect you much. Hope things work out for you. Heartbreaks are tough but life does go on and you will find someone that will respect and love you.
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If I were you, I'd end it. But the fact that he claimed to be drunk would factor in for me too, I hate alcohol. So that'd be double whammy for me. But just talk to him more about it and make sure that he really is sorry, and that he truly regrets it. If it seems as if he doesn't care, says it's no big deal, then that means he really doesn't care that much. If that is the case, then yeah, you should break up with him. But through every break up, just remember, you get one step closer to the right person. They too, at the same time, are searching for you.
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He might be a bi. If he's gay, he'll probably left you already. But bi is much worst, u can get effection of AIDS if he double take u and his friend without any of you know about it. The fact that he's drunk can't be accepted. Drunk makes u do what u cannot do in clear state of mind.
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