• Absolutely. I really hate it when the ask for advice (that will help) and don't take the advice.
  • i don't hate them.. rather.. i feel sympathetic towards them because i try to understand their situation.. i'd be more frustrated than anything.. but certainly no hate towards that person.
  • Yes, I am often tempted to say, "Then why don't you do something about it?" I've even said so once or twice. OK, maybe three times. lol But I don't hate anything - that is far too strong an emotion. I may dislike a person for saying such a thing.
  • meh. it frustrates me when they can do something about it but lack the motivation to do so hate them though? well that requires more effort than even they have lol
  • No, I don't hate people who do that, I often get annoyed WHEN they do it, though. Sometimes I think some people don't do anything to resolve their problems so they will have something to complain about. Some people just aren't happy unless they are grousing about something.
  • Those people like to complain. I don't get it. I don't like to complain, but I still do it. Sometimes I can't help it, because I can't help anything.
  • yup, thats why i keep them to myself
  • I feel sorry for them. I also believe whether we want to admit it or not, we all complain at times, just not ALL the time. It is not fun to be around 24/7 complainers, I'll admit. The complaining could be for a number of reasons. It shows an underlying dissatisfaction with thier lives, spouse, or maybe their parent complained a lot and it was a learned behavior. In any event, I know these people aren't pleasant to be around, but I don't know if these people even realize that this is the way they are.
  • yes, and im probably one of them
  • No,why would I? I realize many people can not magically change their living environments due to many factors. I have empathy so I listen to others. How can you improve a mental illness or handicap?

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