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  • hi, i know what that feels like! no is the answer to your question. i think you should have no contact with this guy for the moment. let him explore how he feels about both of you from a distance from you. this worked for me. alow him to discover his feelings for you. if he wants you he will come back of his own choice. lots of fish in the sea. he will eventually miss you if it's meant to be. take care
  • I have being there also and to add to "confused" advice above, yes it worked for me. sometimes you have to let them be and don't think you are missing out on anything if he is ignoring your feelings, you have to put yourself first in any relationship our you will lose yourself. it doesn't make sense to lay yourself down like a mat and allow him to step all over you, let him figure things out and in the mean time you should explore your options, if he comes back you let him know that if he wants you he have to step up to the plate, tell him that the guys that you are interested know are guys who put your feelings into considerations while making decisions. nip this in the butt.
  • yep so they say, much easier said than done though! love hurts they say, i think ive more or less answered my own question in answering this one! any feed back on my question?
  • I was in a similar situation. My BF was talking with an ex and I really didnt mind it at all because I do trust him. The thing was she kept sending him gifts even after he told her he had a GF. He saw after a few gifts that he receieved that it bothered me and he finally told her to stop. That is respecting feelings. If he sees that something is bothering you then he should stop it.

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