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  • good question!! well you can't make him be in the child's life, I know it's sad. To me it's not about the money I would like my x to sign my kids over to my husband!! He is a better father to my kids than there dad is! Some day you will have someone in your life that will be "dad" keep your chin up and be thankful that his mom is wanting to be involved...if you need money can you ask his mom?
  • If he works on the books then you can have the courts issue a garnishment order to garnish his wages. If he works under the table there isn't very much you can do seeing how there is no way to prove what he makes and the boss won't get himself into trouble by garnishing wages of someone who is not a legitimate employee. I would suggest you talk to the father about seriously considering giving up his parental rights to the child. If he doesn't want to pay support and he doesn't want to take part in the child's life then there is no point in him having any legal rights to the child. The grandparent(s) are a different story alltogether. It sounds as if his mom loves your child and I don't think she should be made to suffer because her son is being a jackass. I think every attempt should be made to make sure the grandmother and grandfather if there is one have every opportunity to be a part of your child's life if that is what they want.
  • Let the state take over enforcement, let the grandmother give your child the love and support that she needs, and be glad that he isn't taking up space on your couch anymore!
  • let the child know that you love her and be thankful that the grandparent is in her life maybe the father will come around someday.
  • I am in a similiar situtation, except my ex's family also has nothing to do w/ my daughter. My ex does not see my child nor pays the court ordered child support payments. I have been through child support enforcement for the last 4 years. They are not much help. Good luck, and I am glad your child has your ex's family. The more love the better.
  • let his mom see her dont push for him to you child probly does not need his attitude enyways push for support stay sival with the ex inlaws its not there fault there son is a bone head.

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