nothing. if you don't plan on ever getting divorced and you have complete trust in this man, why are you signing a prenup anyways? and why take what isn't yours? [i'm sry if this in anyway sounds harsh or insensitive, but i never understood the point of signing a prenup]

Hold up, the prenup is BEFORE the marriage, right??? You're KIDDING me. You're asking this, and you're getting married? Why are you getting married if you're worried about how much money you're going to get when you divorce???

You two don't need to get married if there is a possibility of getting a divorce in 1,3,5 years. Don't ask for anything if you 2 love each other enough you bound to last 5 years.

It would really depend on the amount of his assets, and I don't recommend you posting them here. My best advice: consult a lawyer.

Ask your lawyer what is the standard for this type of contract. You do have a lawyer, right? If not, get one. These days, getting married is as much a legal contract as getting divorced.

Ask a lawyer. I suggest you not sign the prenup at all or at least make it conditional. If you help or support him to turn 10 million into 50 million, then you are partly responsible for that 40 million. Don't waive those rights.

Most will probably say that you should not consider a prenup because it signifies you have no intention of maintaining a long term commitment. I disagree, A prenup should protect the interests of both parties in the event of a divorce. You need to get with your lawyer and get advice on the amount per year that you should recieve. If within one year of marriage you divorce, most times will recieve nothing, after that the amount will increase at the 3yr and so forth anniversaries. Consult a reputable lawyer or you and your fiance should have an independant lawyer write the contract. :)

The clothes on your back.

Thank you to all of you that gave advice. I have been with him for four years and we are both not working because of the lifestyle he wants to live. I gave up two solid secure jobs to live with him and he now asked me to marry him. He wants me to sign this because if divorce should happen (god forbid) he wants to make sure that his money isn't controlled by the law. He is asking me what a fair amount is? I have no idea what to say. If it happend, I would need to get a new start on life. I DO NOT want his money but I need something fair after devoting my life to him.

The question as posed is impossible to answer in this forum, with the limited information given. For instance, your "wealthy" might be my "doing okay." Also the laws of every single state are different regarding matrimonial matters. I am a divorce lawyer in Seattle and don't know anything about the laws of divorce in other states. You have been best advised by the people who have told you to speak with a lawyer (from your own state) instead of seaking such important information from strangers on the internet. You should be able to speak with a lawyer, making it clear that you only want an HOUR'S worth of time, for no more than $500.00. This figure could be much less, depending upon your location. This might seem like a lot of money to you. Quite frankly, I would advise you to have your fiance pay it! That is how it USUALLY works! HE had a lawyer draft the agreement and KNOWS that it can't be entered unless you've had the opportunity to review it with a SEPARATE attorney. Many people waive (pass on) this opportunity, perhaps too many people. But if you want to review it privately with an attorney, perhaps without him knowing, you might think that up to $%500 is a lot of money. Don't let that get in your way. I know that if you wanted a dress for a certain occaision or a video game system or I-phone, you would be able to save up for these things. THIS is way more important than all of those things and will effect your live much more than any of them. Make the investment!

I join the chorus of others who stated that you really need a lawyer. Your state has laws concerning prenuptial agreements and those laws must be followed in order to enter an enforceable agreement. Your lawyer will negotiate on your behalf and will make sure that your concerns are addressed and that you're treated fairly.

Nothing, go out and make your own money and leave us hard working men alone.

100% i am in the same situation. Funny we turn to the internet rather than inside ourself. i have no advise to give. i see where u are coming from, give up everything to be left with nothing. i have to get rid of all my posessions to move into his already established house but if something goes wrong im in the cold???? ouch. they want us to adapt the their lifestyle, quit our job and take care of **his house and how do we tell him that we do need some kind of funds. a prenup is based on the what if, so i need funds if the what if happens. nothing in life is free, nor is it fair.half of me feels it may sound like i just want money-- no, i want my future to continue with or without u with as little set back as possible.

NOTE: Check with an attorney to clarify this information is accurate in your jurisdiction. This applies to most jurisdictions, but may not be true in all jurisdictions. People have misconceptions about prenups. This is true because of their treatment in Hollywood movies. The reality is that a prenup can only dispose of premarital and post-marital distribution of assets. For example, lets assume you marry someone with $10 million in the bank and makes $1 million a year. You sign a prenup that says you get nothing if you divorce, and you end up divorcing after 3 years. Do you get nothing? The answer is no. The prenup precludes you from getting any of the $10 million in the bank, and it can preclude you from getting any spousal support (or any spousal support that would have been derived from the $10 million). However, the $1 million dollars a year is a marital asset and is half yours (in a community property state) or subject to an equitable distribution (in all other states). Despite Hollywood's treatment of prenups, they are actually fair. Again, they only protect assets that were acquired before the marriage (which you would have no claim to but for the marriage), or post marriage support (which is based on the premarital assets).

Ask yourself this, what are you worth, cooking cleaning babysitting, whatever you do you are worth something! Have a settlement clause because in the end arrangements must be made for your funeral, heaven forbid. Is he a millionaire? How much are the cars, home and assets worth. If he isn't willing to share what he has with you somethings wrong with this picture. I think you should ask for five hundred thousand, you're worth it just for what you do. Good Luck ~ Sister Rock

HI, I read all the answers to our question. Something that really caught my attention is when you said, 'devoted your life to him'. I don't know your full situation but that phrase was a red flag. To continue your self respect, personal identity, self worth, etc. make sure you continue your own interests, goals for your life, your own work or project of some sort- It is just personally dangerous to abdicate to someone else's life completely. You will lose far more than just money. Just another point of view to consider. And, prenupts are just wise. It doesn't have to mean anything but being realistic, responsible to both of you.