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  • If she is too good for you, why would she pick you? You're only thinking negatively of yourself and that is what is unhealthy about your relationship. Just because she goes to her friends for advice does not mean she hates you, too. Has she ever said she hates you? Does she tell you she loves you? Do her actions show it, too? If so, then I don't really see a problem with her. Don't tear yourself down just because her friends either really hate you or you just think they do. It's not worth it.
  • I think it is up to her to make her own mind up about how good or not you are. If you feel the need to, tell her about your worries. But tell her only once, and then shut up - there is little as unappealing as someone whinging on about their inferiority. But ultimately, only she knows her own mind, and as long as she is not taking advantage of you (knowingly stringing you along till someone better comes along) enjoy - you have a wonderful girlfriend.
  • Eventually.. but let the good times roll for now :)
  • wow-sometimes it is actually good to be older. listen sweetie, if your girlfriend is smart and pretty-AND WANTS YOU in her life, you must be doing something right. why do her friends hate you? is it some misunderstanding? is it fixable? if not, tell your girlfriend that you are sorry this causes her anxiety, and that you love her even more for going her own way. and yes, probably, someone will dump someone-and you will both get over it.
  • I feel the exact same way about mine as well, so i know exactly how you feel. My girlfriend is so perfect, and everything about her is wonderful. But I can't stand when other guys hit on her or comment her pictures and look at her when we're together. She just seems too good for me. I'm really depressed right now.
  • No one is perfect so guys dont ever think that you are not good enough for any girl you want. I bet you your girl has some skeletons in her closet. It is not a healthy relationship for you if you feel this way but its not healthy for her to always listen to her friends if you think that is the case, i would talk to her. If you fear a breakup coming on, why dont you take some space to think about things
  • okay.Im in a similar situation.My ex who i was crazy in love with broke up with me.After the split he drunkenly confessed at a party that he thought i was "too perfect for him".Now two months later told me it was because he believes im a better person then him and he's afraid he will hurt me...lol. That is so lame.I am most certainly flawed.I saw him for who he was despite his imperfections, i couldent have thought more highly of him.Please try and get over what ever it is your feeling.Trust me.If your girlfriend is with you their is a reason.I was so happy with him and because of his fear we ended something beautiful.Dont let that happen to you.
  • If you don't believe that you are good enough for your girlfriend you should break up with her right now. You need to work on your inner game, and realize that you are the catch, not her. This is how you should be thinking. If you think the way you already do, you will find some way to sabotage the relationship anyway.
  • A girl always listens to her friends - nothing you can do about it. Ask yourself why they hate you? what have you done? if you are a gentleman to your girl and treat her right her friends will always like you. On the other hand, there are groups of girls that have an extremely high opinion of themselves and will dismiss any potential suitor if he aint loaded....
  • That's exact. What my ex boyfriend told me. He would occasionaly question me if I liked him and would always tell me that I am way too good for him. This is what he thinks of me Perfect, Intelligent, Creative, Rich girl. He asks why me? And says I can do way better than him so why me? I always come up with the same reason I was drawn to him. He makes me feel wonderful, He listens, He always asks if I like something, he always wants me to feel comfortable, and of course he is sooo cute. I don't care if he's not the smartest of men, I don't care if he's poor, I don't care If he isn't perfect because I'm not either. He simply adores me I love it He says "I simply adore you" He such an amazing person despite that he tags ect. He's a bad boy and I'm the good girl. There is nothing more that I want than to be with him; besides going to stay in heaven lol. I miss him so much we watched the happening a day or two ago, there deffinetily is still a large amount of fire burning between us He tells me I'm too good but I think he's perfect, it can't get any better he truly is held down by his fear I'm too stubborn to tell him I want him back, and it's amazing that knowing how much I would love to hug him like we used to, lay in my room when the sun would make us drowsy and we'd sleep the sun till it fell down, just him holding me with his warmth and his nose and breathing in my ear, it's truly amazin I'm held back by my fear of asking him so. If I were you just be the amazing boyfriend you are and if she wants to be a bishy girlfriend unless she has a reason to be, then it's her loss I think men should have a mind set if they're honset, and true that They would make any girl happy, and that any girl would be lucky to have you. As for the friends thing you should be two grown adults and confront her on how you feel about her friends. Ask: Why do they dislike me, because dear hate is a strong word? How do you feel about us? and be prepared to answer this in return(just in case) And Basically just let her know how much you appreciate her.
  • Dude, trust me i am in the same situation. My girlfriend is so amazing and perfect, i often think of undeserving of her i am. But i think it is important to get your feelings out in the open. Because the truth that your girlfriend sees something in you, otherwise she wouldn't be with you. So don't break up with her and try to figure out why her friends hate you and try to resolve it, i think mature attempts to deal worth conflict says a lot about a person.
  • I felt and though the same way about a girl I met at horse ridding. She was and still is very beautiful and for weeks I had ample opportunities to ask her out but I didnโ€™t because I thought this. My friends told me that I was being stupid. I went along to a different lesson than usual to the one she was on and she asked me did I come along to ask her out I said no. Being honest as always and posting this I was in pieces in side and left her thinking god know what. I tried to ask her out later, but she was with another man. As I was working in a bar at the time people heard about how I hadnโ€™t asked her out and I came clean of how I though this. Things have been side since then about my persuasion and if I have ever had sex . Towns will do what they always do talk and gossip about others because itโ€™s all they ever do. In hind sight to emotional sobering of thinking how a thought can wreak someoneโ€™s happiness. I say donโ€™t question is why she's with you, just be what and who you are the MAN SHEโ€™S WITH
  • I felt and though the same way about a girl I met at horse ridding. She was and still is very beautiful and for weeks I had ample opportunities to ask her out but I didnโ€™t because I thought this. My friends told me that I was being stupid. I went along to a different lesson than usual to the one she was on and she asked me did I come along to ask her out I said no. Being honest as always and posting this I was in pieces in side and left her thinking god know what. I tried to ask her out later, but she was with another man. As I was working in a bar at the time people heard about how I hadnโ€™t asked her out and I came clean of how I though this. In hind sight to emotional sobering of thinking how a thought can wreak someoneโ€™s happiness. I say donโ€™t question is why she's with you, just be what and who you are the MAN SHEโ€™S WITH

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