• You could ignore them and give your attention to a boyfriend, or to your other friends, who deserve your attention more. The more you give, the more you get.
  • No offense hon but grow up & get use to it,lol. Thats what brothers do, I had one like that & it don't get no better as they get older either. He still loves you but he has hormones & has found someone to share them with so to speak. Find yourself a hobby or something give him space without you in it for a while. Plus she has to go home & sleep eventually thats when you can talk to your brother. Make some new friends & have fun.
  • He's your brother, not your parent or signigicant other. You need to get your own life, honestly. Then you won't be worrying that your brother is in love and not paying attention to you.
  • Why do you need attention from your brother? Unless he's playing the role of your Father I don't understand what you NEED from him. How old are you two?
  • it's a stage he's going through.
  • Find something else to focus on and let your brother have his own life.
  • Well, yeah, there is nothing unusual about your brother's behaviour. I treat my boyfriend better than my brothers and sisters. Does that make me a bad person? What should you do? Well, you should suck it up and get used to it. I know that is harsh, but it's true. You are your brother's sister, not your brother's girlfriend. When you enter into a relationship with someone you really like, you will understand. Hopefully.
  • hey crazy chic, i can kind of relate to you on this one. I have an older brother who for some reason needs a female to define himself. For the past 15 years he's had about 9 different "serious" girlfriends, 1 ex-wife and two young children. Each girlfriend he had overlapped each other. For example, his current girlfriend is one of his past girlfriends and he started dating her during his marriage. Since his divorce he moved back in with my dad and I and brought his girlfriend along. I can't stand her cause she doesn't work, she graduated college but isn't doing anything with it and has to lie about sleeping at our house to her parents. She's 26 and my brother's 29, i mean "Grow up!" right? Point is, I don't acknowledge her existence however, my dad and i have started to lock our doors since she moved her sorry butt in. However, as lame as brother is, he still is my brother and I have to let him live his own life and be there for him emotionally when he screws up again. Hope this helps and good luck

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