From my opinion I'm not very fond of the idea because I have 3 sisters and 1 brother. My mother gave up my little brother for adoption when I was little, and as a sister I will never forgive her for that so I can imagine how I would feel if I was a mother, I really would like to find him one day. BUt if you really don't have a way to take care of him it would be best to give your child a better future. If you have doubts though keep your baby. A mothers love and devotion can figure out and find a way to support her child if she really puts her mind to it. Hope all is well for you, and I hope you make the right decision whatever it might be.

I am not sure how you would go about getting his rights taken away. With the simple fact of him not having a job should be enough. You did not mention your age or alot more on this forum. However I was a young teenage mother. My daughter is 8 now and she has been wonderful. If you would email me and we could talk more on the whole process and your options. My finacee and I are looking to adopting a baby! I hope to talk to you soon!

right now I understand exactly how you feel I'm 18 years old my self and my due date is august 23 08, I at times feel like I can handle this but I know it will be such a struggle and id rather have my child have the best life it can rather then risk it all . I haven't mentioned adoption to my boyfriend yet but I know for a fact he will say no. As well as yours he also has no job, still and doesn't have a steady place to live. Although im not sure what im doing yet I strongly believe you should go for it if you know that your boyfriend can support a baby right now & you want to give your baby the best do so he or she will understand when it gets older and thank you i know its hard but go with your gut feeling as for your boyfriend he will live to understand soon to. sincerly, Dannielle

Hello, There are states (like Arkansas), that if the man does not register within 10 days as the birth father with the state (and the parents are not married), his parental rights are surrendered. Although the law is being questioned, it might be possible. I live in Arkansas, and am wanting to adopt. I have a house you can live in. Please e-mail me at sizemore@flippinweb.com. I've already adopted a little boy, age 6 months (almost), and would love to adopt another child. Please e-mail me, and I'll try to help you. Already, a home study has been done, and I have an attorney who will help.

Hello, In the state of Arkansas, if a father doesn't register with the state, in writing, within 10 days of the baby's birth, he has no legal rights (yes, the law is being challenged, but is still on the books). You cannot acknowlege him on the birth certificate. I have wanted to adopt a child for years, and finally adopted a baby boy at birth, who is now 6 months old, and we would love to give him a brother or sister. We have a house you could live in, and would love to adopt. Typically, I've seen so many "dads" that say they wouldn't give the child up, but they haven't grown up yet, and can't even take care of themselves. Babies are expensive with diapers, feedings, toys, education, and everything else! Please contact me at sizemore@flippinweb.com if you need more information, or (I pray) if you decide to give the baby up, we would love to adopt. No matter what, continue your education if you decide to keep the baby. I'd rather my tax dollars go towards 3 years of education than 16 years of supplementing someone's food stamps and rent! I've been a single mom when I raised my first son (now 19). It was a struggle and worth it, but I'm so much better at it now, and can give so much more mentally, physically, emotionally, and financially than I could as a young single mom. Either way, I can be a good friend.

My husband and I want desperately to have another child but I'm not able to conceive. We have a beautiful home in a great school district...he has his own company and we'd like for me to be a stay at home mom. Please write... :) Amy Amylynx@juno.com

Hi we r looking to adopt a baby and would be more then happy to give ur baby a perfect and loving home. we have been together for 8 yrs and love each other very much but not being able to have a baby has left us with a big hole in our hearts and r hoping someone like urself can fill that hole for us please feel free to email me for more information or question u may have even if u just want someone to talk to watercrystal2001@yahoo.com.au thanks Krystal

Hello, My sister and brother in-law have tried for several years to have kids and are looking to adopt. An amazing couple w/ an excellent job who would care and love for your baby unconditionally. Please e-mail if you or anyone you know are looking to give their baby a good home. lstewbear@hotmail.com.

I will love to talk with you about this, if you are still interested. I found your log by coincidence, because I'm looking to adopt, if you want to talk, e-mail me animalforever2005@yahoo.com animal2005forever@yahoo.com

Your body, your choice. If the baby will not have a good home with you or the father, then you are doing the right thing. I wish you luck!

I give you credit for not having an abortion...Adoption is the better choice of the two! I'm not sure on the Laws, but before you make any decisions, I would talk to the father! Make sure you ask him the important questions like....Can you afford to feed The baby, Diaper, & clothe the baby, Pay for daycare & schooling for the baby? And any other important questions you can think of that pertain to children in everyday life! I hope this helped?