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  I have a trip to Paris planned with my parents, girlfriend and her daughter (9yo). Recently we found out that my father has prostate cancer and will need to undergo radiation treatment. He wont be able to come. Should the rest of us still go? My father has my brother and sister who will be able to support him while we are gone. I am going to feel bad if we go without him but also if we don't go at all. My girlfriend, her daughter, and my mother are really looking forward to the trip and still want to go. Should we not go? My sister is giving my mom a hard time about it. The trip is in a month. Thoughts?
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  I had know this man 38 years ago, I thought of he and the people we knew throughout the years. We lived in the same state but not the city. I decided to look him up again on Facebook and this time I went inside his page to see if this was him , I sent him a message of familiarity, pertaining to things only he would know if this was the correct person. It was him and he was so very happy to hear from me,told me I always had and still have a special place in his heart, the feelings that he had for me over the years, dreams he had and I had similar dreams as well, mine did not include him only the words from the spirit. Looking for him was not for a relationship only friends until he kind of begged me to be with him in this long distance committed relationship and I ageed, he proceeded to tell me of his disabilities, he has spinal cord injury, can
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  I am 45 and my husband 42.We have been married for 15 years.We have two children.For the pas one year he stops having sex with me.He never hug or kiss me.He says he us tired from work and is getting old.I take care in my appearance and never let myself go.There us no signs that points him to porn or having affairs outside.He seldom talk to me and goes to bed early.Whenever I talk to him about our issue he gets irritated.He doesn't want to go for counselling and I feel lost and unhappy.What should I do?
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  My dad crossed the united states illegally about 19 years ago. He met my mother after being here for a couple of months. She is an american citizen. He and my mother had 3 children. I am almost 18 and my brother and sister are under 18. He payed taxes and he never got in trouble with police. He went back to mexico around 6 years ago. I was wondering if he has a chance coming over to the U.S.A but legally. If he can, how can we help him.
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  My boyfriend still lives with his wife and kids. He is not with his wife anymore but still sleeps there and is there a lot.I ended up prgnamt and am now thre month's. He will not finalize the divorce or sell the house and I feel second to all of this. He knows it has been the reason for many arguements but will not budge! He says it is bcuz of bills and his kids. He told me he would move with me if he ever got me pregnant and obviously that did not happen. This baby is still a secret to all hos family and her as well! Any advice? Is this acceptable coming from a man who says he loves you? he has toyally pulled back since we found out Im pregnant and has left me alone to move and find housing . I am ending up gavig to live with my mom and her jerk bf in the country..
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  My boyfriend still lives with his wife and kids. He is not with his wife anymore but still sleeps there and is there a lot.I ended up prgnamt and am now thre month's. He will not finalize the divorce or sell the house and I feel second to all of this. He knows it has been the reason for many arguements but will not budge! He says it is bcuz of bills and his kids. He told me he would move with me if he ever got me pregnant and obviously that did not happen. This baby is still a secret to all hos family and her as well! Any advice? Is this acceptable coming from a man who says he loves you? he has toyally pulled back since we found out Im pregnant and has left me alone to move and find housing . I am ending up gavig to live with my mom and her jerk bf in the country..
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  My girlfriend and I were happy together had a dog lived together and talked of marriage. My friend would always come over and hang with me, after a while him coming over turned into a everyday thing. Long story short, situations happend like me and my buddy hanging in the garage and him saying goodbye and then an hr later I go upstairs and he's sleeping on the floor next to the couch we're my girlfriend is sleeping. Other things like they had exchanged phone numbers without me knowing. I asked them both if anything was goin on I felt like an idiot when they both said no. Time passed then more stuff like I pulled into the grocery mart parking lot and there sitting there talking . I ended up asking my girlfriend and my friend a ton of times if what I was feeling like they were hooking up was real No no no your insane and insecure. Ok my girlfriend ended up leaving me because of all this she told me that they never talked at all. We're broken up now and my friend still comes around but he dosnt seem like a real friend he says I would never do that, and then bragged to me the other day about how he hooked up with a chick who has a boyfriend.
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  So I have two kids ages from 8-5 with my gf and we live together. She has a 16 year old who is extremely careless always getting in trouble with the laws in and out of jail and he
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  My father was having girls over for the night because he recently was divorced so he wanted to get me out of the house he bribed me with his nice truck and 60 dollars to leave and go do something i crashed his truck into a fence and then got out of the truck called him and he came and pulled me out with his big rig truck we got into a fight at the house and his retaliation was calling the cops on me for a hit and run now i have court over it who is at fault me or him? His truck his insurance and i was under his insurance at the time
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  Greetings the issue that im about to talk about has been bothering me for sometime and i thought it would be best if i can get advice from people.I have strict parents and i think this has affected my social life negatively.The only time i could actually spend time with my friends was at school,and i was at a boarding school in high school.During the holidays my parents would never allow us to go for friends birthday parties,movies and just generally spending time with them as they believed having a social life was not important.we rarely used to have friends over because me and my siblings would always be afraid of bringing our friends home because of the fear of what our parents would say and do.The only time i had friendships that existed was when i was in school,the moment i went home for holidays my friendships were non existant.I am currently in University but im home on holiday and my parents have given me a curfew which is at 18:00 hrs.My parents barely let me have freedom.I now look at my life and ive realised that i barely have any friends.No one calls my phone to ask to do anything with me.My social life especially when im home is non existant.And ive stayed with not having really close friends for a very long time.What advice would you give me as i need to have a social life and friends with whom i can spend time with?