I am desperately in love with the man that got me pregnant, now he has a new girl. i have learned that you can't make someone love you, all you can do is stalk them and hope they panic and give in, but i can't get past him should i make a play for him?
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earth_mama_07
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It doesn’t seem like there is a play to make. Sorry. If he knows your pregnant and already has a new girlfriend what are you going to do, seems like he has already moved on. Even in your question you have already found your answer. I hope it all works out for you.
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Why not? His new girl didn't hesitate.
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"All you can do is stalk them and hope they panic and give in"- Does anyone else not SEE this?! Stalking is illegal, and it shows mental instability. My suggestion is to go see counseling because you are about to bring a baby into this world and it sounds like you need a little guidance. He obviously has made his choice. You need to respect that, and when he isn't a father to the child you created, take him to court, and have him make child support payments. As for trying to get him back, DON'T STALK HIM. You WILL be arrested. If he doesn't call the cops, he should.
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Stalking is against the law as others said. Are you still pregnant, and have the baby or not? I suggest if you have his baby, that child is your first concern NOT him. Would you really want a guy that doesnt want to be with you? He sounds like he goes from one female to another, you deserve better. I would not make a play but if you have a baby, I would make him pay!!
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In the old days, the pregnant woman's or girl's father would get his shot gun out or his friends and sons over to this man's house and would force him to marry her. And then they would make sure he made her happy and never cheated on her. Where is the community here? Where are the other men to do the right thing by you? Break the guy's legs if necessary so he can't stray (and yes, I'm joking, sort of.) We are desperately in need of more alpha males in our communities who will protect women not abuse them. In turn, we as women need to be more feminine and submissive (note my name). We need to admire men, value them, be more delicate, more vulnerable, more flexible (yet strong). By the way, being submissive yet strong are not contradictions. Let's stop this insane independence and "I can survive alone" attitude. And yes, be aware that men will stray if they can because of their DNA programming. Think Angelina Jolie. Go after the man you want but be smart about it and above all be strong in your loving of him.
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