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  • If their children have shown signs of mistrust then yes
  • The world being what it is today, I think parents have no choice but to choose whatever means necessary to protect their children.
  • It certainly isn't a bad thing. A good parent would want to know what their child is doing. Of course, parents shouldn't shelter their children either. The kids need to be exposed to the real world at least a little before they are thrust into it. So, it's kind of a double edged sword I guess.
  • G'day Gypsy, Thank you for your question. If there are concerns about the child's safety then yes. However, there should also be some respect for the child's privacy and the matter should be discussed with them if appropriate. Regards
  • Absolutely. The kids shouldn't have anything to worry about if they aren't lying to their parents. Also, kids will be less likely to try to do anything that they aren't supposed to if they know that there parents can find out.
  • In this day and age when kids can be harmed, absolutely. Also, as someone else said, kids are probably less likely to go go anywhere bad, if they know you are spying on them. At the same time, there has to be a point. People have a right to privacy.
  • If my child went missing it would sure ease my mind. I would go with the chip that can be inserted under the skin.
  • I think it's good to have the ability to track your children. However, I can see where it could potentially cause a problem. If a child has exhibited trustworthy behaviors, I see no reason to track them. The child may feel as though you don't trust them even though they have previously been trustworthy. Therefore, what's the point? I'm not saying that there isn't dangers present that weren't there even 10 years ago. But we can't live our lives in fear of what may happen. One could also say if the child isn't doing anything wrong then they should not mind being tracked. That's true to a point. But what about the sense of independence that comes with venturing out on one's own. That's an integral part of growing up. On the other hand, if you have a child who is constantly lying and breaking curfew, etc., then GPS tracking would be the perfect option vs. lock down.
  • Yes, and even better, make it a two-way street. There are too many parents who stop parenting when their children reach age of 13-14 or so and then it's all downhill.
  • I think its okay. But I can see why they would have a problem with it.
  • If you have good kids who have not given you reason to doubt them, then I would say to keep the lines of communication open and dont make them feel that they arent trusted when there's no reason for it. I was a good child for the very reason that my mom trusted me. I felt like I owed it to her not to do things behind her back. On the other hand, if the child has behavioral issues and has proven to you that they cannot be trusted, then by all means track their whereabouts. Just remember that knowing their location doesnt necessarily give you insight to what theyre actually DOING. Additionally, I would never condone the implanted tracking chip... never never never!!!
  • These times are not like the times we grew up in. What with all the predators out there and potential for great harm in general with all that happens in the world(think Comubine) yes, I believe its ok.
  • I would say yes because that is what a good mother does. People this days get kidnap buy a guy that the children don't know and the next day, the children end up missing. Cops go crazy finding the children but sometimes don't find them at all. Usally the children are dead. That is why parents track there love ones.
  • If I had a child you can bet I would have them wired up so I could find them anytime anywhere :)
  • Yes! It is only for their protection.
  • Personally, I find it rather intrusive, and if you're going to do that, then the child has a right to know. I can see the benefits, but I can also see some parents taking it too far. Checking up on them is one thing, practically stalking them is another. At a certain point, the parent is going to have to grant their child some responsibility and accept the fact that they won't be able to keep a close eye n them at all times. I mean, you have to let the child go out on their own for them to gain any sense of independence and adulthood. It also depends on the relationship between parent and child. If you know that your child has common sense enough to avoid risky situations, then it seems rather pointless and over-bearing. If the child is rebellious or doesn't have much experience handling themselves with sense outside of the home, then I can see where tracking would be looked to as an option.
  • Yes. 3 reasons. 1) If you are under the age of 18...I am held responsible for you and your actions. Anything you do is going to have consequences for me. Not you. 2) I'm paying for it..Me parent: You child. 3) Because you live in whose house? My house. Really, I'd only do it if my child gave me a reason not to trust him.
  • Yes, I think the GPS tracking would be the best way of tracking them. It is only for their safety,and because the parents care.
  • Heck Yes!! For their safety as well as the parents peace of mind!! I think babys should be micro-chipped at birth.
  • I think its great!!! I'm sure that when I was a kid (3 years ago) I would have hated my parents for it... But its a great way to really know where your kid is...
  • yep, im only 17, but wouldnt mind if my parents tracked me for oh say another year cuz if something happens to me, they'll know wehre to find me. just like if you have children, its good to know wehre they are 24/7
  • 'Track', sure, not really a problem there... But to 'track' them, and use that information to determine what they're doing and then try to stop them or something... That's just absurdly invasive. (Unless it is OBVIOUSLY something dangerous they're doing) For example, I'd have no problem if my parents knew where I was going, but I 'would' have a problem if they tried to 'intervene' with what I wanted to do ; )
  • no way that is totally unfair to kids. they need thier space and privacy as well. if they are being tracked then they will feel like their privacy is being invaded and they will most likely rebel. well in the case where you kid is totally out of control i think it would be appropriate to track your kids and find out exactly where they're at. just don't tell them they're being tracked.
  • I think it's "OKAY" for parents to track their children. It should be part of the parent's role in parenting where they should know where their kids are, in case of emergency and whatnot. However, I think the child's age should also come into mind. The younger the child is, the less likely he/she will complain about privacy issues.
  • I don't think this is okay at all. Relentless intrusion into your child's privacy is ultimately more damaging to them than you all can apparently ever understand. I'm extremely dismayed by all of the supportive feedback on this question. What a waste of time and money just to provide yourself the ability to jump to conclusions about your child's activities. This will undoubtedly create a massive rift between you and your child that could take decades to heal.
  • Of course its OK. If I'm responsible for them and there actions up to the age of 18. Then why not be in full control of them.
  • See on the news everyday where some kid is found dead or missing, do you think their parents would have liked to have tracked the kid better!!!! I know where my kids are, they call me when they leave one place and get to the next and I can find where the phone has been at any point in the last 90 days. Do i trust them- YES......but do I love them more YES.
  • Yes. I think that if the kid has nothing to worry about why should it matter and if they are doing something wrong chances are that parental intervention will keep them from doing something that might have life long consequences. This coming from a adolescent.
  • Yes ..absolutely..it is our job to be a parent...not a friend
  • Not really. If you can't trust your kid then why let him go out.
  • I think it's fine. As long as you're doing it to know where the child is, then it's just some security measures. At least if something happens, then you'll have more of an idea of where to go first. As long as this isn't used to butt in the child's privacy or spy on every single thing they're doing, it wouldn't be a problem for me. It would be great if the kid knew about it, but yeah sometimes it just doesn't work that way. What my dad used to do when I wasn't with him, every morning he would check in the newspaper and look at the obituaries to make sure I wasn't dead. It's pretty morbid and not exactly a means of preventing anything and he never told me this until I got older, but it was just a stupid habit and fear he had I guess, even though I used to phone him all the time.
  • I think it's a breach of trust. I don't do anything wrong and I still would be mad if my parents did something like that. It basically says "Hey kid, I don't trust you at all"
  • That is a parents job, to know what your kids are doing, and with who and where you are. You can stay home, if you dont liked being tracked.
  • No I don't think that's a good idea at all. Could cause paranoia in the poor kids. :(
  • the more you try to control your child the more they will rebel... if my parents ever tried that it would really tick me off. I'm the tech officer so of course id fix it just to mess with them :D. if they dont trust me then its their problem. I personally believe its an invasion of privacy. im 16 by the way.
  • YES!! Who else is going to care for them if we don't?! Nobody! If raised properly, a child will understand that those things are there to keep them SAFE. They may feel resentful of it, but I'd rather them be resentful than dead.
  • I think it's a good idea for little kids, ya know? Because of how so many kids get kidnapped or go missing, it's a good thing to know that you will always know where they are and the police can find them faster. As for teenagers, I think it's partly helpful and not, because you know they won't like the idea that they're being tracked like little kids...but on the other hand it's better to be safe than sorry and I think I would put a GPS tracking on my kids whether they're teens or not...I just won't go crazy and overprotective and check on them every second.
  • I guess if they suspect their children are in trouble and heading for self-destructive behaviors, and then maybe some intervention could save a life. so , as a parent I would say yes, if I was a child I would probably say no
  • No not really
  • When I was 4 years old, I would definitely need one, as I was hyperactive. I would put one on my bike in case it gets stolen, as has happened on 17 occasions.
  • How old are their children? Once they hit 30 it's a little tacky, but if they're minors, it's fine. Responsible, even. (Sorry--I know that word is kind of old fashioned).
  • As long at you are not Hulk Hogan... Then, it's creepy!
  • When the parents were children themselves, it would have been fun doing what their children would have done or would want to do. However, with the thrust of drugs, spiking of drinks, rapes and evils of society, the parent of today feels and is primarily responsible for the childs welfare. With that responsibility in mind, and the technology available today, the parents are left without a choice. The best would be where parents and children go out together, so that a bond is developed where the children watches the parents and emulate their good behaviour and discard the bad part.
  • I think it'd be okay to put it on them, but the only time I think it'd be okay to use when they're missing, and I'm talking like "Oh my god, my kid's been kidnapped and the police are useless!" missing.
  • No. Too Big Brotherish.
  • I should hope not! If so, children should be able to turn these features off, as in the world, they will eventually become independent. Why put it off and make it more difficult to make children fend for themselves?
  • All children would be upset that they are being tracked, but the plain and simple truth is there are alot of sick people out there that pray on the lack of street smarts of children. The best thing a parent could do for thier child is get some type of tracking device, and software on thier computer that they pin-point thier location. Think of all of the dead children that would not be dead if thier parents had a gps on them at the time. Don't complain if someone wants to help you, You shouldn't care how someone knows you are in trouble just thank God and your parents.
  • Yes. Especially if they have reason to wonder. I do know that if the child(ren) find out, the trust could be destroyed but for a parent to care that much about their child's welfare is one great parent! Hopefully your children will prove it's not necessary to do for long!
  • Yes it's okay for parents to track their children. It shows that they Love You and will do what it takes to protect you.
  • Yes, it will pay off when they are kidnapped.
  • yup! I already do that online w/their homework,tests,&behavior - it's my job to look out for them and because I love them!
  • Man it depends if they are under 14 yes! Over 14 no because at some point they gotta learn to be free!
  • My youngest son is autistic. He has a device (a wrist watch) that can track him if he wanders away. It's made by Brickhouse - you've probably seen the commercial for it for durrasel batteries. When he was very little, our old church used to call him Houdinni, because he had a great knack for dissappearing on them. Now a days, he doesn't wander as much, but when we go out to places like Disneyland and the like, it's nice to have just in case. If you're talking about teens...yes, I think it's alright to track them. My house = my rules. Sorry...that's just how it is in our home.
  • Well.. Yes And No. Parents shouldnt do it just to be nosey. But if they are truly worried about their child then yes, I think it's a good idea.
  • yes your parents are allowed to do that intill your 18yers old
  • Whatever it takes to look after MY CHILDREN, to take care of them and keep them safe, that I would do and it is no one else business. Those children are mine and they are under my care and responsibility.
  • i would let the kid do whatever he wants and when he get punished ull know if hes excuse is a lie or not face, voice and u know everything ur kid does when he lies. or track them without them knowing it.
  • Up to a certain age/responsibility level.
  • What age child are we talking about here? I personally wouldn't give a kid their own cell phone or whatever until they can drive. However, I've seen middle school and even GRADE SCHOOL children with phones so.... yeah, I'd say before driving age, job age, etc. (about 16) then it's fine to track them whether they like it or not. But really, as a parent, shouldn't you require measures to ensure you know where your kids are and what they are doing and who they are with at all times at least until that age anyway? If you don't then I'd argue you are an irresponsible parent.
  • Absolutely.
  • Car trackers? Cool, give me some
  • If you want your kids to be safe, then the more precautions that you take, the better!
  • i'm going to use a 'yes, but informed'
  • Yes, and no. It can be benificial to their safety, but, I think you should only use the features if they either have a record for being bad, or if they haven't called, or are way late, and you are worried, then activate it, and find out whats going on. But, spying on them is just rediculas. Kids have almost no freedom, and now this...
  • I think it's OK. As modern technology is improving day by day, why not ensure the kids to be safer by using these tools? Mobile phone is better for current use, but GPS maybe can be improved for easier children version in the future for their use! You can see how amazing GPS is applied for adults now. This Eonon GPS is a terrific example. Their GPS are with most advanced tech, and have 2 years warranty. So great! http://www.eonon.com/GPS-Navigation.html
  • Yes as autonomous dependents they have a slight need for the modern parent to set the appropriate course of events into action if their path doesn't coincide with expectations but also to work through the acceptance of what is occurring. Eg. Phoning ahead to the friends house to ask if it really is ok! Some things are beyond their perception level despite our wishes to allow them control. Just think about the number of "caught in the rain" pick ups that will make the parents feel less anguish. It's just more on the road to connecting the dots in your childrens lives!
  • No But on the bright side you could take them to court for stalking
  • Yes!!.
  • Only if they have mental problems that prevent them from knowing what they are doing or where they're going. Otherwise? No.
  • No. Unless the kid has done something to break trust why treat them like a criminal.
  • Yes, for their own safety.
  • Sure do.
  • it depends to the type of relationship between children and their parents also according to the country they live in
  • I design circuit boards, and follow the latest trends. The reality of this question is your already to late. Even if it is wrong its only going to get worse. research terms like RFID. Its those nifty little credit cards you can wave at a door lock and it unlocks. Well some time ago the cost of the "cards" went down to about a penny. The size also went down exponentially. Think id tags in every shoe manufactured. linked by the credit card they were bought with. Identifying the wearer in crimes.. for instance a bank robbery. Now that your thinking, that hasnt happened yet how are we to late to be asking this question. think about your I-PASS neat little RFID tag that documents where you go. Think about cell phone tower triangulation, that has been possible since the first cell phones came out. Gps modules EVERY WHERE! phones , stand alone modules, in dash models . The list goes on and on. The only thing that is changing is now all of the kids who became IT professionals understand that all electronics operate on the same principles. The common masses are starting to understand the implications of an electronic world. What I have dubbed : The Age of Accountability. but is this a bad thing ? The end result should be a system where NO ONE is above the law. That would mean OJ simpson DID kill his wife eh ? The key here I think isnt to stop precision accountability. Its to reexamine what we are accountable for. That is worth repeating... The key here isnt to stop precision accountability, it is to reexamine what we are accountable for.
  • Yes, as a parent you are going to catch them in a lie about where they are going or where they have been. Why not have an upper hand and be ready as soon as they come home, instead having to find out after days or weeks.
  • With so many kids being taken and running away ... I think it is a DA** Good idea !! +5
  • Considering the dangers that now face them...I'd not agree to some sort of "Chip" but maybe a cell phone with tracking in case they get snatched. If you teach your children well and they learn the rules, therer's little chance they'll ignore most of them...Like there's going to be the "Perfect" child?? Even Jesus left his parents to talk with others of religious nature and never left a note :)
  • No, that's creepy as fuck. Are the parents so untrustworthy they have to track every movement of their kid? I feel sorry for those children.
  • If the child is under 5 years old, yes. Between 5 and 17 it's iffy. After 18, it's an invasion of privacy, and the parents could be prosecuted for this. One exception would be a mental condition which would warrant the use of a tracking device.
  • Actually humans are an animal so to everyone who says "They aren't animals" You are mistaken Also if the phone is payed for by the parents it is okay, but if it stuff like cells phones and you read them then that is a little creepy Otherwise I don't know what the problem is I doubt the kid is the only one out of them and their friends that has a car If they wanna sneak out or go to a party use anothers car
  • Acutally I think it's a great idea if you ask why,I say just cause!
  • haha no no no no no no noooooooooooooo....kids personal lives just aint personal anymore...now parents know every little thing about them...where they are, who they are with, etc., etc....its rediculous...if you trust your kid enough let them do what they want...they shouldnt dissappoint you...now if your kid likes to get in to trouble then thats kind of another story, but i think tracking children is ridiculous.
  • You bet your A** I do!!!
  • I think if the kid is still in school and living at home, then hell yes lol. But on the other hand, if you trust your kid enough to let them off the leash, then by all means. Once I got into high school, my mother never bothered me about where I was or anything like that (she knew I had enough common sense to not get myself into any trouble). side note: I've seen on the net that with a certain cell phone provider, not only can you track your kid.....but you can also put virtual boundaries that they are not supposed to cross or you get an automatic alert that they are travelling into prohibited territory (just like the newer ankle bracelet systems employed by law enforcement agencies).
  • I would only consider this, after being lied to. Trust has to be earned. A parent has to be very careful in this area. making this choice to snooping can backfire in many ways. A child can say that if i am not trusted and have to be trailed by electronic means, i might as well commit the act. this is already happening with electronic tracking devices and children. Same applies to a suspicious wife or husband. These devices are excellent if only used for the purpose they were invented.
  • Yep +5
  • If theyve broken trust sure. MY mother put trackers on my phone and such from 13 to 17 even though i never broke her trust. I hated how somehow someway she was watching me just waiting for me to mess up. I later just got my own prepaid phone after 17 and she never stalked me afterwards.
  • Yes. 1) If the child hasn't proved their trustworthiness. This way, the parent can know when they don't go where they say they are going, etc. 2) If the child is traveling or commuting. This way, the parent can help a bit with the child's safety. If they stop somewhere they wouldn't normally, or if they have a wreck, or... you get the idea.
  • No I don't. I want my children to grow up and be independent someday and guided by their own good judgment. Not guided by a sense that I see their every move. What happens when the virtual shackles fall off when the child is 18 and legally an adult ? Personally I believe a period of euphoric screwing around will follow. Sadly, this will be at just such a time as any mistakes the kid may make will get them judged as an adult with all the burdens that implies.

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