• Ask people about their personal life, and comment about it in whatever response you sincerely have in you. And share funny stories, especially about times you've screwed something up. It makes you seem more human and approachable.
    • Reincarnal_Knowledge
      Good advice!
  • People are usually intimidated by displays of strength in/from unexpected places or individuals. There's nothing you can do about it except feign sheepishness...which I definitely don't recommend. If you display personal strength, be proud/glad of it. Such strength acts as a kind of relationship filter. Only those who are attracted by strength will risk approaching you.
  • Perhaps you mask your lack of confidence by not letting anyone in because of your fear of having to get on with them.

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