The name calling is emotional abuse - and will scar you for life. Pushing you hard (or otherwise) is physical abuse. While this may be 'just the way he is' it is illegal in the western world for this sort of thing to go on. While most cases of child abuse are of the physical nature, more areas are taking verbal abuse more seriously. This verbal abuse is perhaps far more dangerous and has the potential to cause much more long term harm to you than physical abuse. How you want to proceed is ultimately up to you. However if you want 'out' then there is talking too the authorities - either the police or school. A small talk will start a long process where you most likely will be taken out of the home that very day and will start a criminal and civil law suit against your parent(s). You will be put up in either foster care, or with family members who will take you. Legally the state/government will pursue this both as a civil matter (custody hearings) and as a criminal matter (the parent(s) will be charged a felony). Many kids do not want to 'turn in' their parents and will struggle to 'live with' them until they are old enough to leave on their own. That choice is yours to make. However there is a pattern to abuse, it may start out small (verbal abuse) then become a slap, a push, then a fist or other violent acts. I can not judge for you where this is going, but I suspect that you are heading into deeper physical violence. There is also the possibility that this can grow into sexual abuse as well. The long term affects of this emotional/verbal abuse are 'many': http://www.womanabuseprevention.com/html/emotional_abuse.html Verbal abuse: http://www.ehow.com/how-does_4910363_effects-verbal-abuse.html?ref=Track2&utm_source=ask

sorry honey but your dad is abusive, where is the rest of your family? They need to make him stop or go away, since he wants to treat people badly.

Abuse! No one deserves this

I went through the same thing with my father (whom was a raging alcoholic at the time). This is abuse, mainly emotional and mental abuse. Just remember, that you are NONE of these things. And I cannot speak of your situation, but I know my father loved me. The alcohol and/or drugs can make people into monsters. I know sometimes we can believe such horrible things about ourselves after being told them so many times, but please my dear, try to tell yourself twice as much the opposite. Every time he says you are ugly, tell yourself how beautiful you are twice. Every time he says you are a bitch, remind yourself that you are a caring wonderful girl. You have to combat the negative with positive or it will consume you. Good luck hun.

awws im sorry ... but he is abusive .. u don't deserve that.. i hope he stops.. if not u should talk to someone [ an adult or teacher] about it and they can help u .take care and God bless

Your father is a idiot and yes it is abuse.Hope you get help,maybe talk to trusted family member.Remember one thing,NEVER do that to your kids.One more thing,pray for him!!!

Personally I would've slit the cunts throat in his sleep long ago as rage would've overtaken me but it's probably more constructive, and legal, if you were to call the child helpline mate.

First, talk to your school counselor or a trusted and good male role-model in your life who won't tell about this plan I've cooked up for you to get you free of the abusive monster-dad you've been stuck with. What I'm advising is for you to empower yourself to fight back and that's not going to be easy but it will give you the right channel for your anger, empower you to reduce your fears and heal your pain by letting him know you don't believe the lies he's told you, you don't deserve the pain he's caused you and you don't intend to turn out like him! So get ready and I'll advise you how to do the steps. And make sure that your trusted adult is willing to fight with you by supporting your efforts until it's done. Now here's the plan. You are going to fight for the right to have that monster-dad removed from the family home! Yes, I said get HIM removed! Why should you have to move? You're too old for foster care and you're too angry to do nothing! This is the legal way to show him your rights so get ready and have everthing planned out before you do anything. You're goal is to remove him, charge him with abuse and get a peace bond from the courts to keep him at least a block away from you. Be brave and read on. First, separate yourself from him mentally (he's not needed in your life right now), then make a decision to fight the fear and work at this until you have won, won, won. Second, keep a daily journal about what he says and does for 2 weeks or until you have a strong record of the names he called you, the dates and times to prove he was home, who was there with you, what he said, did, etc. Set up a hidden camera where he won't see it. Discreetly turn it on when you are together and secretly reset it when he's out. Third, get witnesses (who won't tell him they're witnesses) to testify on paper to your advocate about how he's treated you over the years. Talk to your trusted adult about getting a court peace bond to have charged with child abuse and endangerment (it escalates), have him removed from the family home, and kept away from your home, school, etc. so you are not harassed by him. You'll need a child advocate willing to stand by you, who has the knowledge and resources to help guide you through the process. Talk to the advocate about financial support for when he's apprehended (abuse is a criminal offense and he needs to learn a lesson). Meanwhile, know that you are a precious child, far more handsome then the monster says you are, who deserves to be loved, respected and protected from this abuse! Hope this helps.

hi i dont wana be an ass but does it sound like your dad doesnt like you. you seen nice to take this from him but why dont you tell your mom and if not, why dont you call social services they can help you get out of his out if u want and they could give him clases. your dad should never speak to you like that. this is abouse and you have to stop him from doing worse. like does it feel that every time the situation is worse. help your self and him from hurting you and him getting into bigger troble later. what