ANSWERS: 7
  • Hard to say whether or not he'll talk to you but you definitely want to make him talk to a judge if he does not. He has a responsibility to provide child support to you for his child.
  • First of all, I'm so sorry you are going through this alone. I cant imagine how hard it is. In my opinion, there might be a chance that this will change once he sees the baby, but maybe not even then. A friend of mine got his girlfriend pregnant and then left her and wanted nothing to do with her.(Yeah what a jerk!!) I think he was just scared because now they are back together and doing good.
  • I think it depends on your relationship before the pregnancy. If it was a new relationship he might feel he doesn't have much invested in you, if you've been together a long time but were having problems, he might decide he can't handle the extra emotions that and responsibility that come with a pregnancy and baby. And, it's possible he's just freaking out right now and doesn't know what the heck he wants. The next few weeks will tell you a lot. Hang in there.
  • He may be a jerk or he may just be dazed. If this is his first and he is under 25 - 30 give him some time to digest what is going to happen. If he is older and should know better he needs to "man up" here fairly soon. (I like that term!) He will be supporting the child financially in any case. Try to keep a positive attitude and see a doctor ASAP so you can start your prenatal care, vitamins, etc.
  • I would say there's a 99.999999999% or greater chance you will be raising this kid on your own. If you're not prepared to do that, I am sure you know the options.
  • The father is doing everything he can to distance himself from you to avoid responsibility. I seriously doubt the father will contact you. You better get a good attorney and take the deadbeat to court. They will garnish his wages for child support.
  • Get a court order for child support and it sure will...

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