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  • If you're married, that's why they have divorce courts. If you 're just BF & GF you can work it out. If not, the kid comes first and you both have to do what's right for your kid.
  • We tried working it out but she has serious anger issues and a very low self esteem so everything always has to go about her .I cannot talk to her about things that are troubling me then we fight because she sees it as the world is against her but do not find it hard to belittle other people and this is a major turnoff .I have talked to her about it but she denies it.What should I do because I really do not want to leave our child with her growing up like that.
  • I think the formula is this: You pay child support. All marital assets (depends on the State) are divided thusly: one half to your new "ex" wife one fourth to your ex wife's attorney. one fourth to your attorney. Or ... see a marriage counselor and work it out.
  • Trial separation.
  • You desperately need to communicate with her, if she is placid, Confront her with what the outcome is leading to, your leaving if things don't change. If that don't work then leaving may change her mind, if you care about them you should stay in touch to see if it may work. The child is not going to understand, so you may come up with something like I've got to work in another area for awhile. I can't bare the thought of a child having a broken heart over somthing like that, but it sounds like you have to take action to accomplish a sound relationship with her.
  • I did confront her and she says that I am making idle threats and should leave if I do not want to be with her.I guess she wants to end it but do not want to be the one doing the break up as she has nowhere to go.
  • Tough situation. Can you get someone she respects to talk to her? Sounds like there is some underlying thing that is causing her to behave in this way. If the main issue really is about perception of rudeness, then simply get her a 2nd or 3rd opinion - get her to realise its not you, its her ( if thats true). If its in her interests to have you around ( to help raise kid etc), then she she might realise that bending a little to keep you happy is also ok to do.

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