You should, you would get it. He sounds like a real loser.

I think you'd probably win. Affiar or not, he needs to support his child. They may have him take a paternity test to make sure it's his.

Is money really worth having this prick involved in your daughter's life? I say don't open "Pandora's Box". Between you and your lesbian lover, you should be able to raise her okay without this sperm donor's money or involvement.

Child support is for the child, not you. If it's his daughter he needs to help pay to raise her. Why have you waited this long?

You would essentially be going public and will have people like me telling you that you should die a horrible death for violating the sanctity of marriage. Is it really THAT hard to keep your legs together? But what the heck...if people can sue for spilling hot coffee on their coochie, than sure...go ahead and sue for someone else to bear equal responsibility of your infidelity regardless of whatever lies you may have told them or if they were violating a 4th party's trust if they weren't single. That's what it means to be an American these days, no?

What could happen is that the court could order a paternity test to determine if the father is really your daughter's father. And then you may be taken to court for custody if the father wants a regular visitation with your daughter. If he is the father, you will receive child support payments from the father and how much will depend on how much money he makes. The court will hold the father responsible for paying you the support from the date that you file with the court. It is worth mentioning splitting your daughter's daycare or medical costs with the father. It is a process and it can be frustrating. It can also change your daughter's life should the father take you to court for custody/visitation. It can also be a confusing/stressful time for your daughter if the father doesn't have the best interest for your daughter in his heart and/or your daughter will have whole new rules and people in her father's life to get to know. I would consider talking with the father first and letting him know that you need financial help in raising your daughter. Try to work out whatever you can with the father out of court and you can also find out if he shows any interest in his daughter so that you can prepare your daughter for a healthy relationship with her dad in the future. Good luck.

if I were you I'd take him to court for a paternity test-prove he is the father and make him support his child- It takes 2 people to make a baby and 2 to support that child,Think about your daughter- kids get more expensive when they get older- why lay all the financial burden on you- Make him pay,I doubt he will go for custody or visitation- and if he does fight it!!