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  • That I had one, but mostly in some cases I've handled, that kids are used as pawns in the whole mess. Fortunately, kids were not involved in mine.
  • that it's not mine........
  • That its so easy for people to walk away from their commitment. That its too easy for ill equipped people to marry.
  • the fact that someone took a vow and still cheated. people shouldn't get married if they're not ready.
  • What it does to kids
  • that there no longer appears to be any stigma associated with it and that it has become big buisness.
  • Putting the kids in the middle of it
  • It's taken so lightly, marriage is taken lightly as well :-/
  • How the parents use their kids as pawns and weapons to get back at each other because they can't deal with their pain in a mature healthy manner.
  • The damage done to the children is the worst. Dad will lose his family, his home, his friends and his property that he likely has worked for all his life. This is why 2/3 of all divorces are instigated by the wives. They generally make out pretty well. The usually reason women ask for divorces isn't money or abuse. It is that they no longer feel "connected" to their husbands. Seems hubby is coming home from his 2 or 3 jobs so tired that he just drops from exhaustion and the wife feels neglected.
  • That people take it for granted. Like it is some easy way out.
  • That my daughters would feel disappointed in me, that I was less than honorable.
  • The kids might never see thier mom or dad again. Family stress and other things that arise when divorce happens.
  • that like war, at times it can not be avoided.
  • Ive never been through one, but all that paying shit involved in it makes me sick. Why do we always to fucking pay for everything? This society is ridiculous. It's even worse when there's children, and if it were me, having to pay for something would be restricted to child support. But all that signing paper and crap and who keeps what, ugh. Whatever, maybe there's something I don't understand about all this. I just hope I never get married.
  • That they were suppose to loved each other till death do they part, in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer.
  • its an easy way to give up without trying
  • Marriage. Where I come from there really isn't need for marriage. Common Law is great. You have all the same legal rights as marriage without all the BS that comes along with divorce. You still have to settle up in the end but there is no cost for a divorce.
  • how they divide the cat, who gets which half?
  • it damages children.
  • when both sides do not come to an agreement and begin behaving like immature idiots, therefore making children suffer in ways that cannot be fixed by anyone around them.
  • the heart ache
  • How most couple's just throw in the towel because divorce is the "easy" way out.
  • The starting over, fear of the unknown,children if you have them have to be strung from this house to that. It's just almost never good. Unless their is abuse of any form & children are involved I say work it out. The next person you marry will have flaws that will come out as soon as the butterflys go away.
  • The reason... I think that if there is complete communication from the get co, you can avoid the shock of divorce. Sometimes is a must, and sometimes its bad for the people involved... I just feel that people should be strong enough to endure what is happening and just make it easy to part ways... I think that when money, and kids are involved its a hard thing, but if both people are not happy or not in love anymore then why be together... When you are still young enough to start over and find happiness again, then embrace what's happening and move on.. I have to say one thing, I have never been married, so this answers is from the gut... But friends of mine have been through it, and the out come is never about anything more then money.. part ways even so there is no fight and no regret... I do hope that if I ever have to go through it I can except what is happening and not make it worse then it has to be... Once again I have no idea whats its like, but parting of ways even when you still love the person, can only result in pain. I know that 1st hand. I wish you whoever is aksing this question all the strenght needed to over come it.. your not alone...,.
  • that my children will never be the same.
  • How most teenagers and even some adults work: *goes out with girl for 2 months* OMG I love you lets get married *gets married, then bored after a month* I hate you lets get divorced.
  • The lives of the children of the divorced couple.
  • the effect is has on the children.
  • That the same people who yell about the "sanctity of marriage" are the same people on their 3rd spouse.
  • the little ones or children that go through it.
  • The marriage-like ties.
  • if thers kids involved!
  • People who have never been through it, judging people who do it
  • that people are giving up. No one see's marriage as 'forver' any more. I do. and i know i will not marry some one until i know he is the right one. i still have plenty of time i am only 20, im not going to take things so lightly and give up and ruin my life, his life and my kida life beacuse i cant be bothered in fixing things.
  • For me, first of all I don't have any kids. The worst thing was starting over, just like in any relationship you have to start somewhere. It's healing the heart, feeling confident about yourself and meeting new people.
  • Hurt kids and broken promises
  • The thing that people take it so lightly, especially in the Western countries(No offense, sorry). We see it as a disgrace to a family, both the man and the woman and marriage is not an affair of a day; its a bond for life time and we don't have any rights to break what God has done for us. Worse is the case with celebrities. I don't know whether I'm right, but is it the power of money that give them the courage to do this-date somebody for a period, live a full life and its all over in 3 years??? And the moment they find a fault, they ask for millions in the name of divorce settlement and the next moment, he/she becomes your ex and you get another new one.

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