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  • no, not a all...they are not loosers they are smart on holding their virginity at their time...
  • Virgins whether boys or girls are far from losers....maybe they just realize what a true prize they have in themselves....
  • not at all! They are smart and realize sex isn't everything. It's more special if you wait. I'm 19, never had sex, some people are even older and are still virgins. It's perfectly fine.
  • No.I think they are smart for valuing themselves and not caving to peer pressure.
  • im in middle school its crazy and no you (or whoever) is not a loser but...if ur not its ok too
  • nopes- in middle school most people will lie anyways about their sexual exploits, in fact most middle schoolers are virgins, so no worries.
  • i think your a loser if your not a virgin in middle school. honestly respect yourself more than to have sex with someone your not in love with. sex is not that great. its only a small part of being in love with someone. wait till your older and more mature
  • I am with charlie that those who chose to lose their virginity in middle school are the loosers. sex is not like some sport which you play with whoever. it is intimacy at its peak. sex is about the 2 people involved not acceptance and in a society with as much needed education as we have, 14 year olds are not ready. 300 years ago 14 was adult, but formal education was not a necessity to function back then.
  • No matter your age it's ok to be a virgin if you haven't found that special someone you want to comitt your heart and life too. I think at the age of most middle schoolers it is very difficult to know whether or not you are truly inlove with someone. With that being said better to be a virgin and be branded a loser by your friends than to give it away to someone you have no real feelings for just to be cool and popular.
  • Hell no you're not a loser or who ever you're talking about isn't a loser... I was a virgin until I was 18... WAIT seriously... you'll more than likely regret it if you don't... Screw the advice on "oh it's just experience" you don't need experience in sex... if you need to get yourself off then use your shower head... lol
  • What!? Of course not! I was a virgin through out high school and in no way was a loser. All the guys were losers...hehe.. ;) You should reconsider your circle of friends if you're labeled a loser just because you haven't had a baby... oops, I mean just because you haven't gotten an STD yet... wait! I MEAN just because you haven't already had sex.
  • Well if virginS are losers its because they only THINGS they'll lose are the friends who are potentialy carriers of AIDS and STDS.
  • seek help soon
  • Quite the opposite.
  • i think non-virgins in middle school are losers.. they think they're being mature but they're exactly the opposite, they're incredibly immature and don't know the first thing about life. imagine a 20 year old having a 10 year old... not a good position to be in.
  • NO, they are old souls and they are always the wise winners!
  • non virgins in middle school are the losers, they think that they are being all grown up, but all they are being is slutty (and I use that for both guys and girls)
  • no. they were the coolest kids i knew.
  • NO, middle schoolers shouldnt be having sex anyway! sex isnt for children....
  • I thought that of my classmates when I myself was in High School. but knowing what I know now of the whole thing, if I had it to do over again, I would have waited until COLLEGE! But MiddleSchool? Thats a bit young and I agree with one of the comments below mine... "Sex, is NOT for children!" WTF...
  • maybe this would defer... from one person to another, from one culture to another and obviously from one school to another... if u are in middle school and ur a virgin and no one tells you anythin about it or never comments that means ur in a fine society... but if everyone aint virgin they would expect u to be the same... but never change ur lifee... under peer pressure thats my advice to u ..!!! over all dont have sex for fun... just have it when u really are in love with some1 thinkin thats the one... college would be a great place to start.. but its better if u want till ur heart guides u dont go off just having sex!!:D
  • No, that's called being normal. Middle schoolers should NOT be having sex. God they aren't even old enough to appreciate what they're getting!
  • No. I don't think whether or not you've had sex is a basis for anyone being called a winner or loser, regardless of age. In middle school, I'd suspect those who have had sex are more than a little reckless, but that doesn't make them losers. Those who realize that they are not emotionally or physically ready for sex (if you cannot have a conversation with your sexual partner about birth control and condoms without embarrassment and giggling, you aren't ready) are certainly not losers. I think they have a realistic, grounded perspective.
  • Of course not! Middle schoolers in my opinion have no business having sex. They are children themselves. "Children having sex?" C'mon thats horrible.
  • You should be PROUD of the fact that you're still a virgin. As a guy, I can say virgins are always COOL!!! The only reason the boys your age are more interested in finding the "Easy" girls is because their own hormones are driving them.. Hold your head high and wait for the one that really makes your heart melt (or pound) and BE SMART ABOUT IT!!
  • I think that they are smart for waiting.
  • being a virgin in middle school is a good thing. sex should wait til you are older and know what you are doing.
  • ALL OF YOU ARE FOOLS
  • Middle School? Are you frickin kidding me? Just the opposite...[Most] non-virgins, that young, are undisciplined idiots. I'm not trying to be an old party-pooper, I remember what it's like to be 13 - the peer pressure is just insane; but the most mature students are the ones who ignore that pressure, and focus their attention on things that might actually end up well, such as studying. (I've never met anyone who married their "middle school sweetheart")
  • Absolutely not!! Those who are virgins in middle school are using their brains. Not having sex doesn't make anyone a loser.
  • No people that are having sex in middle school are the losers. I hate to sound cliche' but in midschool one is just not ready to take on all that sex entails... it can lead to babies,STD's,upset parents!!!!
  • No, they're the smart ones and usually will achieve better financial and social status later in life.

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