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Maybe not they say hate is very close to love. Maybe because you loved him more he hurt you more and that is the reason.
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nah, i think it's normal...It should fade over time
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it really depends on you. it could be old feelings that you wish it was the same between you and him as it use to be. or it could be you being scared of getting hurt if not the first time then a second. there are so many things it could be. I think you just need to first find out if you want to get over him or try to fix things. then go from there.
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wow i know exactulay how you feel. Me and my boy just broke up.Well he broke up with me and that what i think.Thats prolly some of the reason.But i think because im soo pissed off is because i love him so much.Its not stupid to think.There is prolly more girls out there that feel the same.No worries
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No,not at all stupid,our hearts often lie where we dont want them to,or do we!
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not at all you probably hate him so much because you loved him so much and he broke your heart..
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Nope. It could also be that he did something worse than all your other exs did
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No, i think you loved him so much and the pain in the heart when you broke up hurts more than. :)
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I hate my ex as well, not becasue he dumped me. He did not leave me alone we had the same friends and he told them to choose. Even it has been nine months he made me look like a stalker he was as much into me then i was but he is a dog. I know the feeling. Stay away from him and he will get what is coming to him. You will find someone who will take you out of this pain. But what happened to you dont do this to anyone. It is best to hate them caz you are less likely to call but eventually you have to let go one day. Good luck
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Did you leave him, did he leave you, or was it mutual? I think to harbor "hate" is destructive to you. You need to find a way to release it or it will harm you a great deal.
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no.. when Jeff died, the therapist told me that you grieve the relationship as deep as you loved in it. You obviously loved him alot and therefore will grieve the relationship alot.
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Time is a big healer i agree with you guys. It is hard but concentrate on yourself, you are just adding stress to yourself which will affect you. Ask yourself this question is he worth it. Make a promise and think one day you dont think about him you are more closer to finding someone special.
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Defintely not. I'm actually certain that that's why you feel so strongly towards him. When a guy hurts us, or leaves us, it hurts. I know one of my exes hurt me and i still hate him to this day. Can't help it, the hurt always stayed with me. And i think it's because i cared about him so much.
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Not at all. If he was just a big douche bag that you didn't care about, he wouldn't make your blood boil.
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They say it is a fine line between love and hate.....
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No, you often resent the ones who hurt you the most. And you often resent the ones you care about most. If someone on the street insults you, dont you usually get too angry over it. I mena, what do they know? But if a friend of yours critizes you or even goes as far to insult you, it effects you alot more. Right? I assume its because you put so much of yoursel finto that relationship (friendship or romantic one), you dont expect to be hurt.
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