ANSWERS: 7
  • It depends on how long you've been together... but I wouldn't give it much time. Check in with her in a month -- if her thoughts haven't cleared up by then, you should at least have a pretty good indication about which way things are headed... your comment about "make her think" seems a little pushy: Let her go at her own speed -- if that's not the right speed for you -- then it is time for you to move on. If you really don't want to lose her, then slow down.
  • None. once you leave, its over. she said the magic heart-killing words, "she needs time and space". from past experiences, these words mean she has found someone else and is just trying to "dump you down" easy. If you leave now, things will never be the same.
  • You may as well move on. She had just dumped you, that was her way of telling you she wasn't ready for a relationship with you.
  • LET. IT. GO!
  • It depends on how old you are, how serious you are with one another, how much is ahead of you, (seperate colleges?), and if you are able to support a wife now or in the near future. Sometimes the best thing to do is to get her the room she asks for, if she leaves the relationship, it wasn't meant to be. If she comes closer to you, you will be sure about her. In any event, the best way to make a girl breakup is to act like you don't want to breakup. Can't explain it, something about women that makes them just that way.
  • Sometimes a person thinks they want to have space and then when it comes they decide that wasn't really what they wanted after all..but you can't decide that for her. You don't have to completely close the door on her while she is trying to figure it out..but, on the other hand you shouldn't just wait around forever..if another door just happens to open..well guess she just took to long..her loss.
  • Sounds like you're "on a break".

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