Has anyone else loved someone so much that you wanted to be so perfect for them that you wanted to lose weight and tone up just for them?
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Daevid
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Yes, even though he insists he loves me just the way I am... I know he does, but I want to be better for him!!!
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I'm a guy and my g/f jokingly told me I should tone up and now im exercising. So yeah It happens.
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yeh of course thats completely natural, but at the end of the day if someone is with you its because they like you the way you are, u dont see someone down the street and go, 'ahh shes well nice apart from the bit of flab, im gonna ask her out then encourage her to lose weight'!! if u want a girls point of view, then any extra fat on a dude makes me feel a bit better about myself, its all good!! if you wanna feel healthier and more toned then go for it and enjoy the fruits of ur labour! but if ur fairly happy then i completely sure she is too.
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well i kinda feel for you i'm over weight and my bf loves my everything and likes that i'm "comfortable" but i want to change
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If what they say is true..and I believe it is...true love of a good person would make you want to be a better person too...become the person you think they deserve...but then again...if that was the case...married couples would be an unstoppable awesome team...wouldn't they? hum..
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and yet..we are dead to ourselves and alive in Christ..so our lives must line up with the scriptures..Jas 5:11 Behold, we count them happy which endure. Ye have heard of the patience of Job, and have seen the end of the Lord; that the Lord is very pitiful, and of tender mercy. 2Ti 2:3 Thou therefore endure hardness, as a good soldier of Jesus Christ. 2Ti 2:4 No man that warreth entangleth himself with the affairs of this life; that he may please him who hath chosen him to be a soldier.
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Yes, I'm guilty of that right now. Hey, if that's my motivation, I'll take it. He makes me want to be a better person overall.
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