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I'd say if reconcilling is out of the question, move on and find a man who'll love both you and your child, no matter what. Make sure you're completely honest with the new guy. That's pretty much the story of my wife's and my relationship. I was there in the delivery room and my daughter considers me her only father. I'm darned blessed I'll tell you what. Some may disagree with this next statement, but having a father who loves the child is a very important part of a childs life.
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This seems like a pretty personal issue. When I was pregnant and unmarried, my boyfriend married me -- we are still together, nine years and four children later. If the father of your child doesn't want to be involved, then maybe this is your chance to focus on being a mother, instead of trying to start a new relationship. Becoming a mother is a lot of work, just by itself.
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i would take it slow and wait until the baby is born before you start dating... you don't want to start off to fast but i do indeed think that you should 100% move on...this guy is being a jerk and why try waiting on him to act right if he didnt want to be in the babies life now what would change his mind later you don't want to be with a jerk like that and get in a deeper relationship with him who knows how he will act later in the relationship i say you proudly move on and be a happy mom and during the end you get your child support cause babies are worth alot of money and trust me your gonna need it...is this your 1st child???
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You are going to need some help in the next few months. If you find a man who is willing to date you in your condition and be there for you, why not?
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Did you just find out your pregnant? Do you love the babies father? Remeber he may just need time to adjust to the idea of fatherhood and trying to meet other men will just make it worse. Now if you dont really love or care about the father deeply then... there is no reason why you shouldn't date while your pregnant. I have seen it happen before where a pregnant girl meets a man that cares enough for her that when the baby is born (so innocent sweet and new) he falls in love with the child and wishes to be their for it. Just follow your heart...but take care of yourself and your baby first.
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I think that dating should be the last thing on your mind
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Well in my opinion its not wrong to start dating, but make sure its a man that accepts u and ur baby. I was in the same situation when I got pregnant. At about 3 months along I met a man and we are sill together 6 years later and he is the only father my son knows. I didnt really go looking for him though...I actually didnt want anything to do with men at that point in my life...being rejected by the man that got me pregnant. But he was persistant and I caved. I am glad I did though. Good Luck
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why date now? u have way more important stuff to do right now u dont need another man right now wait!!!
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Go for it!!!If you find a man that is willing to be there for you and a baby then why not. Life doesn't have to stop because you are pregnant. And yes being a parent is a tough job but you're not dead you're pregnant.
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