How would you feel if someone told you they wanted you to be their first?
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ANSWERS: 100
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I would say no because I would not want to be doing the hurting during her first time.
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They are either lying or they are too immature to mess with.
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Honestly? "Oh, no...I don't want to train another virgin...at least it will be over fast!" I'd probably hand him the Kama Sutra. I would be considering seriously whether or not I wanted to be with him. It would depend on the type of relationship I had with him and the depth. I'm really not into glorifying virginity or over-dramatizing "the first time" or being "his first."
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This would open a can of worms, that Dr. Phil could not analyze. go away........
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Worried about who would be second.
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I guess becasue i'm only 17, and look for partners of about the same age, I don't find this weird at all. I would feel honoured and loved, and trusted.
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I'd feel flattered, been in the right context it means this person wants you to be significant on his/her life. Whether I'll do it or not, well that's another can of worms.
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I would feel very special and you should too because that's a very precious beautiful thing!!
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Not going to happen is how I'd feel...
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Honored.
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I would feel flattered. Then I would pat them on the head and send them on their way :)
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Since I would not be having a sexual relationship with anyone that I was not seriously emotionally involved with, I do not think virginity or lack of would be an issue
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if i had relations with a virgin man i would just ruin him for any woman that he would be with after.i dont want to toot my own horn but...damn im good...lol
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To be honest, I think people make way to much of a deal about it. However, even after saying that, I would look at it for what it means from the perspective of the other person... which would make me feel rather special. :)
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I would feel very honoured, mind you it is not going to happen as i am 36, and married with 2 kids.
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If and only if we get married I can make that happen for you.
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I would say "thanks, but no thanks". I am married and want to stay that way.
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flattered :) coz most first experience are unforgettable especially if that first is the love of your life :p
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I am not sure depending on the age,location,and what was going on at the time,i would be like LETS GET IT ON!!!.but im getn older now and i wouldnt do such a thing.
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NEXT!
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I think I would be flattered if asked but dont know if I would unless we were already in a relationship.
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I would be flattered...and then I would tell them to run far, far away. For various reasons. The top one being I'm married, so I'm never going to be anyone's first ever again.
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That happened many times to me but the point is would you like to lose it for love or cause your urge's cant be controled anymore? I would answer that first and then act
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"Right, er... go away, think about that for awhile, and I *might* still be somewhere in the tri-county area when you get back." I don't want to set the standard for someone like that, it would make it *way* too easy for other guys to impress her later.
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Personally, I think I'd be pretty frightened and start backing away slowly. By saying that, it suddenly puts a lot of significance on something that wasn't so significant to me, and that frightens me a bit, to be honest
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uncomfortable. honnored proud scared.
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Depends on what they look like super hot sure any others run!
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Honestly, I'd be flaterred. And if I wasn't having relations with anyone, I'd probably take them up on the offer :) Sue me
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Arroused.
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i would feel honored and slo they should be starting off good
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They have prolly said it before to other trusting girls (I assume you are a feamle, virgin). You are being played.
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Be their first what?
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I would be flattered but still look for the candid camera
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if i weren't married? i don't know. it would depend on a lot of things. one being how good of a friend they were. it could ruin a friendship. if it were someone that obsessed over me or constantly drove by my house all hours of the night I'd say take a hike. i might if the circumstances where right.
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ill will be honord bcause shes willing 2 give it up 2 u
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Honestly, I don't know. It would depend on a load of factors
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I'd feel honored! If this question came up it's basically b/c the other person has very strong feelings towards you, and if you feel strongly towards them also then it's the most beautiful thing in the world! =o)
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i would say ok but it might hurt hahahahahah
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I would be flattered. I have already gone throught this one twice, and did not do it because I wasn't in a relationship with the young ladies. Now that I am older, and divorced, I wouldn't even consider it unless I am putting aring on her finger. There is so much stuff that comes from having sex for the first time, and I think that it is that way for a reason. That is why I tell kids now not to have sex until marriage.
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It would all depend on who they were! If someone I'd just met asked then I'd say hell no, but if it was a very close mate then I'd consider it, depending on if I thought they were doing it for their own reasons or just to say they weren't a virgin anymore. Personaly I think it keeps your heart safer to lose it to a very close mate!
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I am a guy when I lost my V I was 17 and it was with a 34 year old woman ... I must say now ... that it was the best decision that I could have made regarding losing my big V ... With an experienced woman ... it was something I will never forget ... where as some of my friends ... tell me their first time with a same age person was terrible ... Depending on the age of the person of course ... I believe I would be flattered ... I am mature enough to do it right if the decision was made ...
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haha. I would have to say "you're about 2 people too late my boy."
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I would be flattered! It has actually happened 3 times in my life - the first it was my first time too and it was all a bit emotional. After that I actually chatted a few times with them and didn't "do the deed" the first time they asked. No regrets.
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I'd rock their world!
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what a line. it went out with Abe Lincoln.
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As a guy I would feel flattered. This has been asked of me once but we didnt make it that far. But as a guy it can bring some pressures. To perform well. This means the girl trust you enough to take something from them you cant give back..
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If i like the girl, Extremelely Flattered
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damn the liar
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I dunno. What I'd do is look around and ask her, "Are you talking to me?"
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i would be flatered.
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That actually happened to me. I was very uneasy on what to do. It was one of my best guy friends and I didn't think he thought of me in that way. We had many a long conversation about it. But decided to wait and see what would happen between us.
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Well when it was said to me a few years ago, I was a little shocked and I felt honored. The person who said this to me really made it a point to say that they wanted it to be with someone special, and they thought I was that special. It actually didn't end up happening, because if a long drawn out story, but it felt good to hear that.
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My boyfriend said basicly the same thing to me and i was happy that he knew that he loved me enough to give something away that he couldnt get back all for me and i love him for it.
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A little concerned. How good can they be? LOL
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Well, that has a lot to do with the context of the situation. Considering my social life, I probably need to break some balls, and I mean the bitch way.
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First of all why would you tell them that your their your first they won't have sex with you then.
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i'd feel special,its cute.lol cause ive already had that said to me by my current boyfreind,he wished he waited for me or wished we met earler to experience that together even though it still feels like i had my 1st time with him,it was a special moment
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At my age, the odds of that happening are very slim, but I'd be flatered if it happened.
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I would feel glad that I can be her first and what she expects in return.
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I would RUN like a thief.
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I'd feel a little honored to know that they are willing to lose their virginity with me. But I guess the question that arises is how emotionally attached (if any) the other person becomes to you. As much as it may be a very emotional, sensual, awkward, interesting, and more time, you must keep your guard up.
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Sigh. De Ja Vu. Go away. Actually, the would be my first, to ask that. And I would be flattened.
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Depends what they look like
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I would be flattered, sort of, but at this point, I would rather have someone with experience..a sharing, if you will. Besides, I am married.
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Seeing as how I don't really date out of my age range, I'd be wondering at the veracity and indeed the sanity of the purported 35 yr. old. virgin standing before me.
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Well....I wouldn't feel left out...They would be my first too.
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IF I had a gal tell me that I would be kinda proud she wants her first loving to be with me...
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I have had this happen. It caused some strife because I want to wait for marriage and she wanted to have sex with me for her first time.
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I would say no. I would not want that responsibility.
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Let Captain Kirk go where no man has gone before. For two reasons: I don't want to ever "scuff" someone's new white tenny runners, unless I planned on wearing them all of the time. Feelings can get hurt. I don't want to fumble around with someone who is just "figuring it out" for the first time. I'd rather ride with someone in a vehicle with a standard transmission that at least knows when to clutch, and when to move the stick.
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Depend's on who he is, if it was someone I know and like, I would agree to it.
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pass the baby oil!
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i would feel really special because to them it shows that they must love you enough to want to let you be their first
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I would first not believe him and would wonder how many poor girls he said that line to. If he was being honest, I would make it the memorable first anyone could ever have.
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On 1 part of my mind, I would've thought that it would have been too much responiblity. That person would keep calling you & clinging on to you, but on the other I would have been honored to be the first to have sex with them.
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i honestly would feel very cool at that moment and also wondering if i would give them a night to remember for the better(myself being a virgin)
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Kinda proud I guess >_>, if someone wanted to have their first time with me. Some people think its pretty special.
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I would be flattered but hope that they were really thinking about it and not just saying that because that's how they felt at the moment! I'd tell them to think on it somemore and then come back to me!
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It depends what age I am, right now I am too young, maybe later in life I would feel ready also. I don't plan to lose my virginity until I am married.
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Where's the nearest couch?
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I'd definitely be flattered. But then I would tell that person to wait until they found the man they want to marry. Losing your virginity is a big step, and I wouldn't want that person to feel that in the end they should have waited. In this case you definitely can't just go for it. The other person's thoughts and feelings have to be given a lot of consideration.
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i think i would maybe feel flattered that they thought i was a good person to do that with, but i don't know if i could go through with something like that because then the guy might get all attached to me or something.
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If someone told me that they wanted me to be their first I would be thrilled if and only if we were dating and there was a connection there but if there was not then I would tell them the truth and tell them to wait until the feelings are there or to wait for the right person. No one should rush into things.
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to me it would be an honor cause that shows me how much they trust me but i would make sure she wants cause SHE wants and not cause of the preasure.
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I would as always ..do my very best to please and pleasure them ...but I have that with all my partners past and present
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if a stranger told me she just had to be hot and I was on it..
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Unless it involved ".....and only" and I was single looking for a husband, I wouldn't be interested.
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It is definitely a compliment and a true sign of love(if it's a female). Men may just want to get rid of their virgin status. Be cautious.
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Haha depends on the person. and more than likely, i would say no.
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i have been asked this, about 2 days ago, and i accsepted and hee will be my first 2 :)
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It depends on the person and the context that the statement was used in.
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If it was someone i was in love with i would be honored..
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I would be, of course, flattered at the thought. At the same time, it would mainly depend on how I knew them. That would determine my underlying feelings beyond that.
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depending on who it was, i'd feel honoured. don't know if i'd do it, but still. unless it was some creep that just wanted to get in my pants.
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i would like to hear that!..... oh wait, i already have :O
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id fu*k her till she bled
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I'd tell them I was flattered, then I'd say "look, a UFO!", grab my stuff and quietly walk away.
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It depends. If I like the person I would say yes, but we would have to get tested and all that stuff,....I'm terrified of getting a disease or conception. It would be both of our first times. A big plus if it was someone of the same sex, then the whole conception thing would not be a worry. I believe I would be flattered and planning.... =D
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I'd be so happy.
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honored. :] everybody wants their first time to be special, so that person obviously thinks you're special enough to share that with.
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