Have you ever had anyone try to turn you gay? If so, when, and did it work?
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AntigoneRising
ANSWERS: 45
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I had a threesome once and it was for my boyfriend's birthday. The girl was one of my friends. Anyway, the whole time I am trying to focus on them both, and all she was doing was focusing on ME. It made me uncomfortable so no, it didn't work.
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When I was 23, a guy called and asked me out after seeing me at a party attended primarily by gay guys. I said "no thanks" and he said "ok" and hung up the phone. Somehow I remained heterosexual and picked up the pieces of my shattered life.
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I don't think anybody can turn anybody gay.
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Yes someone tried and no it did not work. older guy even offered to pay me to have sex with him and I declined. He bugged me about it for 2 weeks I had to threaten him to get him to stop.
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You cant turn someone "Gay", you either are or you arent.
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You can't be made gay and if you did find them attractive it would just make you bi, not gay. It's not like someone would abandon what they love.
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I'm assuming, from your previous excellent answers in the LGBT section, that this is a tongue-in-cheek question. Very good. Of course, we both know that no one can "turn gay," since orientation is inborn and does not change. Some people confuse sexual behavior (like what some men do in prison) with orientation as well. +2
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Yes, at one point in time a co-worker of mine repeatedly hit on me. I don't bias individuals based upon their sexuality, but he was getting out of hand, he just couldn't take the hints. My car broke down and he gave me a ride home and met my girlfriend and everything and still didn't get the clue, I ended up having to be more rude than I would have prefered to get him to stop his pursuits for me, it was really uncomfortable and I just wasn't sure how to politely handle the situation, especially after the number of times i straight up told him I wasn't interested in men let alone him, worst part was he weighe about 300 pounds.
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Well, I think most of us know that no one can make you "turn" gay or straight. You are or you aren't.
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Do you mean did another woman ever hit on me? I don't think you can "turn" someone gay..you are or you aren't. If anyone ever hit on me I wouldn't know..I am notoriously oblivious to things like that. If someone accosted me of either sex I'd probably slug/strike/smack him or her. I think there are probably plenty of people out there who are naturally gay so no one has to try to "turn" straight people gay. I could be wrong, of course since I have zero first-hand knowledge of this subject.
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No. I never had to try to turn anyone gay..There were always enough trying to get into my pants when I was younger:)
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I'm not gay, but I've had MANY gay men try to convince me that I was "gay, but just didn't know it yet." To this day, I don't understand what would make someone think that about me. I think they were just rationalizing my sexuality because of their own wishful thinking. Or maybe their Gaydar was malfunctioning... who knows.
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Not that I know of. I've been hit on by a guy before though.
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yes, my friend's older sister. She wanted to do me. I was nervous. It didn't work.
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No. People who I know who are gay and friends I have/had who are gay respected who I am and have never even suggested that I "try" it. Just as I have never tried to turn them, or any gay person, straight.
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Yes, but I used my powers to turn thier gay beams around and it hit them. It turned them into straight people! (GASP!) Now we're all straight and everyone is happy.
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yes, a lez friend i had insisted she would turn me gay. she was a really cool friend but she was too sexual of a person and flirted too much, i dont like alot of flirting guy, girl, with me or someone else, it just bugs me alot. no, it didnt work and we arent friends anymore
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One guy told me I had a lovely haircut. I just walked away and laughed my ass off.
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no, no one tried to change me but i know a friend who got conviced and turned lesbian for a while! i stayed away from her for abit, not exactly avoiding her but not too close either. she became straight again for some reason i'm not sure because we lost touch.
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No! LOL, but a lot of women have come on to me. But, not try to turn me gay (is that even possible?) I'm very hetero.
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no...all the gays that i know, know that i'm straight and they respect that, as i respect the fact that i know they're gay and there's nothing we can do to change that in each other lol...and it wouldn't work even so...i like my boy too much :)
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I suppose you could call it that. But they called it "trying to cook the chicken" and I didn't really appreciate that. Probably 15 yrs. ago. Unfortunatly, I have what is said to be an awesome looking ass(I personally can't see it myself), and have been hit on by gay men a few times. I don't look the part(at least I don't think so, anyway.) No it didn't work. I left as soon as I figured out what was going on. Most homosexuals that I know, leave me alone as far as that stuff goes, and that I appreciate. Now watch...can you feel the flurry of negative points for this answer yet? I can. Worst part is I mean nothing bad or to hurt anyone with my response.
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Yes...I lurk at the Homo Depot and Targay and strike when they least expect it! And hey! Where the hell is my toaster oven?? LOL!
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i think tegan quinn's primary life objective has been to turn me gay. and the evil bitch pulled it off. only now she won't have anything to do with me. damnit!
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No one can turn you gay unless you were denying your sexuality and that person triggered a reaction of some sort. I suppose in that scenario its a case of 'nurturing the nature'. And I think its more common for people to try to brainwash you back to being straight, rather then the other way around.
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No, not at all, ive had plenty of gay friends, male and female, but we all accepted each other as we were. I also dont think that anyone can turn you gay, it must be in you to start with to be able to sleep with your own sex!
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YES! my friends older sister. She became my friend too. She was Bi. She ended up having twins with another friend of ours and I guess she must have gotten bored and wanted to hook up with me. I was dating someone and was too scared.
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Do you mean anyone of the same sex chatting you up? It's not like they're on a recruitment drive and get reward points for each straighty that they turn gay. If a gay person fancies you, they might chat you up, regardless of whether the attention was appreciated. In much the same way as you might chat up someone of the opposite sex if, regardless of whether they wanted your attention. Yeah, I've been chatted up by gay guys. I wasn't bothered and I didn't suddenly turn gay as a result.
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One is born gay. One doen't "turn" gay. It is not a choice unless one doesn't admit it if one is!"
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I know a few gay guys. Once I was driving the one guy home. He was really drunk and I wasn't far behind. He put his hand on my leg. I set him straight real quick. We remained friends afterwards. No harm, no foul.
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yes, God turned me bi 45 years ago! it worked.
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Yes. They had this elaborate incantation and a ritual cornholeio doll, a few homosexuals dressed in their parade finery standing around chanting "clams taste good, slurp one." The high priestess was wearing a beaver hat, a sequined thong and she kept telling me to kiss the camel toe or perish in fiery flame of heterosexual hell. The clam wasn't too bad the beaver hat didn't fit and I still like trouser trout. I'm a failure.
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I don't think anyone can turn you gay, but I was approached many times by a co-worker. He wanted to give me oral sex, and if I am gay because I eventually accepted, then yes it did work. I prefer women still, but I have also given a guy oral sex too.
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Yes I have , years ago when I was quite young, no luckily I do not take sugar in my drink. I have been hit on by people but this was a deliberate attempt at something not very nice. I am straight but it is not offensive for gay people to fancy you.
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Well, one can't be "turned gay". However, I did have someone try anyway. This was years ago, and naturally, it didn't work.
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No one has ever tried to make me gay, but I'm gay anyway. And a comment, sexual encounters don't change orientation. That's why we have so many homosexuals who feel pressure to pretend their straight so they date and often marry and have sex with the opposite gender to give that appearance.
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ok wen we was younger me and my sister was close and she always made me dress up as a girl and now im gay and i dress like a girl still
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No one can be turned gay and anyone who's gay -- or straight, for that matter -- knows that can't be done. This is a silly question at best, an ignorant one at worst.
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have had people try to turn me into a christian, vegetarian,hockey fan, marathon runner, but gay.....? c'mon, you know better.
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As much as you might want to, you cannot do this. Could someone turn you straight? I think not. You should know better. You must put your sights on someone who is attainable who is either gay or bi.
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Yes. In a way. But then I'm naturally a Bisexual anyways. "Wow that was great! I think I'll stop chasing skirts now!" As if.
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Try to turn me gay absolutely no, i don't think gay's do this for the most part, they might come on to you to see if your interested, but they stop very quickly when they learn your not gay at all.
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How could someone turn you gay? If, by your question, you mean has a member of the same sex ever tried to seduce you, then the answer is yes. (It didn't work, incidentally)
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several times i've had guys try really hard to convince and convert me. i think they perceived my gay-friendliness as the behaviour of a closet case who just hasn't come out yet. i don't think that they weren't used to that level of intimacy as friends with a hetero guy. a few friends became extremely frustrated because they were so convinced. but i can relate cause i've had extremely hot female friends who were unavailable and it's frustrating.
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i think the argument that you can't be turned gay is false. sexual orientation with women seems to be way more fluid and i've known plenty of women who have left a man for a woman and never turned back. and i've date four lesbians, three of which were gold stars when we met. of the gold star lesbians, two were long term relationships 3+ years. i also know a girl who was gay all of her life, femme though, and met the partner of her DREAMS but it was a MAN (this guy is actually pretty great). she totally fell in love and got married. no kids, though.
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