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Don't fall into a pattern of thinking like 'I care about her, I need to know what's wrong, etc', and then smother her, because you will push her futher away. Just give her some space, and realise that you don't have to completely cut off contact with her, just cut down. It might be hard at first, but if its space that she needs in order to feel better, your relationship will benefit from it in future.
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It is important to show her that you love her at this point. THat is the answer she is searching for. If she needs space, give it to her physically. But don't be afraid to call her when you think of her. Don't be afraid to invite her out. Just explain that you understand, but that you miss her and you want to see her. If she says no, just say that you understand and that you trust her to do what is best for her. This is also the time to do all the sweet things girls want. send her a card, flowers, write her a song, poetry, etc. Be very creative because that shows true personal love and feelings. Make a fool of yourself trying to prove your love to her. You know her more than a lot of people-possible. Just use what you know and remember, everyone is different. Cater to her personality. Is she the type that says she needs space and really needs it? Or would she say she needs space to test you but really wants you to chase her? Personally, I love being chased! Only you, her close friends, etc, can understand what she means and needs. Just don't forget that this maybe your last shot, so show her all you've got.
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