My daughter lives in a second floor flat with no lift,i cant go and see her as im in a wheelchair. does this make me a bad mum? as her boyfriends mum is saying i am.
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Of course not; this is beyond your control but it does make this guy a bad boyfriend for saying something so crass.
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Tell her you agree! And then ask her if she'd be so kind as to wheel you up the stairs, so you can visit your daughter. See if she's willing to 'walk the talk' to foster r/ships between another woman who is also a mother. And of her son's g/f. Kind regards :)
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The fact that your worried about it shows you are a caring mother. Maybe you could ask her to try getting up the stairs in a wheel chair and once she finds a way she could let you know... And talk about bad mothers, critasizing someone about something they have no controll over.... what an example to set for her child... Im sure your daughter knows you would if you could and thats all that matters...:)
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Well i say she can swivle. everyone and anyone who knows you, knows damn well how gud a mother you are and thats all that matters. dont let someone who thinks they know you judge you, when we all know the real truth!!! love ya!!! x x x
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Does she forget how long he stayed at your house for? If your a bad mum why did her son prefer to be at your house all the time then at his own? Maybe she's jealous that you've got a better relationship with them then she has so is hitting out at you when she may know that your already low to make you feel bad.
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No. It makes her boyfriend's mother an insensitive #%@$. Maybe if she wasn't over there meddling all the time she wouldn't notice such things. I wouldn't worry about it. From what I've read, your daughter is not complaining and is understanding of your situation. You love her and she knows it. That's what's important.
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