Is it possible your sister has a personality?

I hate to say this but there are men out there who only care for physical attributes. What boggles my mind, however, is how could you speak such things about your sister. You write as if she is some worthless being simply because she has a hearing defect....youneed to grow up..

Bowlinggreen, you come across as a woman who is bitter and blames the world for your own short comings. You got raped so no one wants you. The only reason anyone could possibly like your sister is because she has big boobs. I write this in the most loving way possible. You need help. You need to let go of your bitterness and learn to enjoy life. I suggest that you read and seriously consider what I say about forgiveness in my answers to the following answers. You are providing a very good example of just what I warn about when someone does not forgive. http://www.answerbag.com/q_view.php/71227 http://www.answerbag.com/q_view.php/71233

Absolutely. Why else the increased popularity in breast augmentation. Sometimes we don't even make eye contact for days.

just maybe someone loves her for being herself and he fell in love? and can put aside any physical disability she may have.

A hearing loss is not a defect. Thinking that someone is defined by a hearing loss is a defect.

Would you say this to strangers at a party? Talking to other people online isn't really different from other situations -- you still say a lot about yourself every time you speak (or type). Believe it or not, what you say really does matter in life.

The physical attributes on a body, are but a small feature, compared to whats inside.

I would imagine in many cases, they'd consider it a plus. What she can't hear, she can't argue about.

I am so dissapointed at your question! I think people have a lot more to offer than working senses! that makes you sound very shallow- I thought you were cool, now I feel a big let down!!! If you come across men who only see women as a steak on the counter- you are hanging around the wrong people.. some of the handicaps I know have more personality, intelect and good looks than the "normal" people! I have a hearing problem due to infection- and when people tell me they pitty me- I tell them "no I pitty you!" as a matter of fact I see it as one of my life's blessings- I had the possibility to operate on them, but I will never do it- I will loose so much by gaining my hearing back- all my other senses are so much sharper- I would hate to let that go. beside, I sleep so good at night- another thing I am not willing to give up on! oh, and I don't listen to music- I feel it!!! I am married to a wonderfull person, who was my friend for many years before we ever got involved- and as much as he is very happy with how I look- he didn't marry me for it!! I hope for you, that you will find happiness in your life. no matter what a person endures in their lives- they can have happiness- right now!! resolve to be happy and you will be- trust me!!

sounds like someone has a little green monster sitting on her shoulders. (jeolousy)

Please tell me you're trolling, and not being serious. Please. Perhaps her husband is a thinking, feeling, loving human being who is capable of accepting and loving your sister AS SHE IS, instead of as a "defective" woman with big tits.

LOL, oh my god, you gotta be kidding me, I won't rate down this question because you have to be a kid. Look, the hearing problem is not a defect it's a challenge, your sister is a brave girls who is making his way on this life, like many of us, with great sacrifice. We love women because they are marvelous and when we fall in love (whatever the reason is) it a precious thing and yes we don't see any defect, that's just the way we are.