no thats stupid' if your fucking her how can it be rape' maybe she's raping him to' why is it always the woman being raped ?

If the person consents then it isnt rape. If they want you to stop they have simply changed their mind.

I don't think so. She has a right to stop it, but a couple seconds. If it is minutes then it could be.

I would think, if the guy hasn't penetrated yet and the girl says "stop", there IS no "couple of seconds to stop" required. Simply roll over. If penetration has occurred and the girl says "stop", again, it isn't that hard to stop - unless you're talking about a thrust that's already started (a couple of seconds? GEEZE!). If she just wants you to stop for a moment, then do so. If she wants you to QUIT, then do so. It's that simple. Where's this "couple of seconds to stop" come in? Rape, in and of itself, is an act of violence, not sex. If you are holding her down, if she's TIED down (even WITH her permission), if she's forced to do ANYTHING she doesn't want to do, it should, and I would think, CAN be considered rape.

1) Sex is not rape as long as there is consent. Consent could theoretically change during the act. If the disconsent is expressed, the other person has to stop immediately. (This could necessitate a couple of seconds, however). Any try to continue the act, for instance, because of selfishly wanting to "finish it off", is rape. However, this kind of rape could be extremely difficult to prove in a court of justice. 2) Not a fashionable joke, but it illustrates the answer: "Rodeo Sex Defined: It's when you mount your woman from behind, start going nice and slowly, take her hair and pull her head back slightly and whisper in her ear "Your sister was better than you...", and then try to hold on for 8 seconds!" Source: https://www.bhutantimes.com/modules/xfsection/article.php?articleid=164 In this sense, the situation described in the joke is clearly rape. Think about it if you laugh at this kind of jokes. 3) "Rape is a form of assault where one individual forces another to have sexual intercourse against that person’s will. It may be defined as forcing a person to submit to any sex act, and is generally considered one of the most serious sex crimes, as well as sometimes very difficult to prosecute. Sexual violence can also be a war crime under international law. Consent may be absent due to duress arising from the use, or threat, of overwhelming force or violence, or because the subject's capacity to give consent is negated some way: such as developmental disability, intoxication or being underage. In some cases, coercion might also be used to negate consent. There is no universally accepted distinction between rape and other forms of assault involving one or both participant's sexual organs. When the term "rape" is used, some criminal codes explicitly consider all kinds of forced sexual activity to be rape, whereas in others only acts involving penis penetration of the vagina. In recent years, women have been convicted of raping men; this is classed as either rape or sexual assault, or some other legal terminology. In some jurisdictions, rape may also be committed by assailants using objects, rather than their own body parts, against the sexual organs of their target. Some places, such as the state of Michigan, USA, do not use the term "rape" at all in criminal codes. Michigan uses the term "criminal sexual conduct" for acts which colloquially would be referred to as "rape" or "sexual assault". The rape of women by men is by far the most frequent form of the assault, with an estimated 91% of rape victims being female and 9% being male while 99% of offenders are male." Source and further information: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape