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Move quietly and quickly
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Make it so that it is impossible or almost impossible to find you.
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i dont know - my stalkers dad was a policeman, so when i tried to get help - i didnt!!!
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Some stalkers are like bullies. Once confronted forcefully, they back off. Some stalkers respond to threats of bodily harm by someone they believe will really do it (who isn't in law enforcement). A good security system is helpful too.
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Kill their entire family.
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i WOULD DEFINITELY HAVE A CELL PHONE WITH CAMERA ON IT OR CARRY A CAMERA WITH YOU, GET A PICTURE, REPORT IT TO THE AUTHORITIES, ACTUALLY, YOU CAN CALL THE POLICE IF YOU ARE BEING FOLLOWED, WHILE IT IS HAPPENING, I KNOW THIS FOR A FACT. THIS IS TERRIBLE HAVING TO LIVE LIKE THIS.
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get a carry permit for a firearm. a Glock does a lot to make unsavory people rethink whether or not it is really worth it to continue harrassing you. even though I never really planned to use it, just knowing it was there gave me confidence to stand up to the stalker and just knowing it was there helped him to see that I was serious about not wanting him to bother me anymore. (before anyone freaks, I do believe that anyone who carries, owns or even touches a firearm needs to be totally responsible with it, and know how to use it. I am not advocating putting a cap in anyone unless it is in defense of a life.)
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My sister had an ex boyfriend / stalker, who would try to hide in the woods across the street from her house. He thought she couldn't see him. He'd call and ask what she was doing. For a while she was answering his calls and trying not to be rude. After a while she quit answering his calls, but he would leave taunting messages and still watch her house. One day, after several attempts to get her on the phone, she'd had enough and answered something like this...."Hi, this is Lisa Yada Yada. Who is this?" He said his name...she repeated his first name and asked if his last name was such and such...when he said "yes". She said "It's Friday, Sept. 3, 2007 at 1:23 in the afternoon. You are being recorded." He asked her why she was recording the call and she told him that's what the police advised her to do.... She hadn't called the police and he never called her again. Maybe that will work.
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confront them and let them know you mean business. If you must see them in social circles always show them by action that you aren't afraid. Eventually overtime they will move on
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Arrange little accidents for him.
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better to call the police......if you send someone to speak to them make sure its someone who can defend themselves
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you could mase them and then beat them up! or just shoot them and run lol jk, idk good question though +4
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Stalk them back, even harder
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Taze them and pepper spray'em
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Just call the police. Some stalkers can become violent when threatened.
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Physically assault them so they won't be able to walk anymore. Yes, I know assault is illegal but will this stalker be able follow you? Think about it.
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Stalkers are dangerous! Don't take that risk. Let the law handle it. Get a restraining order. Stalking is not rational behavior and it can turn into something far worse.
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Take a couple of pot shots at him. :-)
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A good whack in the face n some pepper spray usually works but if it becomes serious you ned to get help
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If telling him and demanding that he respect your wishes doesn't work, sometimes you just have to involve the authorities. Noone wants to, but stalking is serious and it can get out of control. Especially if you let it. Which is what happens if you ignore it or try to handle it yourself. My ex stalked me for over 5 years. Even with the authorities. He finally had to serve time in jail to get the point across. I couldn't try to get along or remain neutral in anyway, his mind took it as a sign that he still had a chance. Be a bitch and put your foot down. If it persists or gets worse, you have to involve the authorities.
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You are not the one committing the offense so you should not be inconvenienced. Nonetheless outside of making a legal issue of the harrassment your only other options are to temporarily stay away from your habitual places (especially your home) in any hope the stalker will lose interest. Even obsessions may have a certain half-life. Maybe you can borrow a big dog for protection. A gun is handy if you have the training to handle it.
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i'm only saying this half in jest, but, showing off your new boyfriends, smith and wesson.
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beat the shit out of him and if you can t do that pay forsomeone to do it but the police is the best solution
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Set up a routine; walk past the same places every day at the same time every day. Observe where your stalker stands or sits while stalking you. At some other time of the day, when you know he's not following you, set a little trap for him such as greasing the pavement where he'll be standing, or taking some screws out of a chair in which he'll be sitting. Several days of this will convince him you're bad luck. : )
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Hire some goons and have them take care of the problem.
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Get witnesses and document, document, document. Invest in a small covert cam...easily found at spy shops. It may take days/weeks to get the evidence you need - then take it to the police or a justice of the peace to get a restraining order. Then if stalking continues, call police. I know a piece of paper (aka restraining order) may not work and possibly enrage the stalker BUT others (esp law enforcement) have to be aware of your situation and its history. If you are a woman, you may find additional emotional and legal support at your local Women's Resource Centre.
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you can get a non-molestation order against them. you can get this within a day. If they continue to stalk you, one call to the police and they will be arrested and put into jail for a night.
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Tell them that even if there was a remote chance in hell that you two got together that you would never love them and would only use them to get what you want. Money, jewelry a car. And that once you got bored you would probably find the next sucker to hook up with because you don't want to commit to a relationship. Most people who stalk feel the person they are stalking is special. Say things to this person that would tarnish you in there eyes. Only be careful. Sometimes it can turn violent if they are really delusional and feel they have to save you from yourself.
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If it's a guy have him beaten up. Should do the trick.
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beat the shit outta him
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I think you should better tell the police. I had a stalker who drove me crazy. I tried to go on without calling the police but he only got worse. I would see him stalking me everywhere: in the parking of my work, near my home at night, at shops....etc. When I told him bad words he was happy that I was talking with him and he stalked me more. Only when I called the cops and two of them told him that they going to lock him in that he stopped stalking me. I hope the best for you. If I were you I would call the police because you might not know in how much danger you could be in. You might be a next rape victim. Sorry about it but it is reality. You think that it will not happen to you until it does....
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You don't. The exact thing you should do IS call the police. You're setting yourself up for a whole lot of pain and grief trying to do it on your own.
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have some friends talk to them and let them know they will get their ass kicked.
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Remove yourself from the stalker's reach. This should be your first priority. Cut off all communication with the stalker. Avoid responding.
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