I'll be honest. he doesn't really like you.

He sounds like a user.

He sounds like he doesn't care about you, and just wants to get laid. Sorry! You can do much better! Find somebody who really cares for you!!

If your boyfriend really likes you for who you are, then he would be nice to you all the time. All the time, except for when you do something bad. It is called respect, he shouldn't only be nice when he wants to get some. YOu feel me?

Well I am a skirts and dresses girl, so I don't wear pants. LOL. But I got the idea and no I wouldn't be with a guy like that.

I'm a BF of a woman who asks the same question. My answer is I don't know what "really like" means, and I desire sex nearly out of control... Yet I'm not after sex only!

LISTEN. All these people are wrong ok? Let me give you a guys perspective. He likes you, he just doesnt find the need to show it at all the other times. When he's aroused (or horny) he finds the need to admire you because YOU were the one to turn him on. Try talking to him about it, if he's the talking type.

I think all guys are different. Some guys are nice just to get sex(the assholes)....other guys are nice and sex is their way of showing their love for you...so I think you should be the judge of your own man. Unless you wanna try talking to him about it. That may ease some of your thoughts also. Really though, follow your gut feeling, its usually right.

The best way to sort this one out is to NOT have sex with him after he's been good to you, then: ... If he keeps being nice after that then you can be pretty sure he likes you for yourself, especially if he is prepared to wait until YOU pursue him for sex ... If he gets angry then you can be pretty sure he's selfish and doesn't really care about you, let alone have feelings for you ... If he drops you then you can be dead sure that he never had any feelings in the first place & that you're nothing more than a receptacle to him. A male who only treats you well in order to have sex with you is a male who is quite immature. Unfortunately young hormonal men have libidos that lead them by the nose... it's also important to recognise your own part in the 'mating game' ...do you tend to use your sexuality to gain power over him? (A common pattern with many women at certain times in their lives). If so, his behaviour may partly be a response to yours...

It sounds to me like he doesn't respect you. A guy who genuinely likes you will do little things to show he cares ALL the time, not just when he is looking to get a little action! Go find a man who knows how to respect a woman!

Miss. Tandra, I know you're really pretty and also really young. It sounds to me like your boyfriend wants to get into your pants so he can brag. I DO NOT ADVISE YOU TO TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT. Those words are in caps for a reason. Why? Well, because ... a guy is not gonna go up to his girlfriend and say flat out, "I only like you because I want to get into your pants now and I also want to make all the other guys jealous later." No. He wants you for sex. It's quite clear. You're a nice girl and I don't want to see you get used by this guy. Please consider my answer. I have taken your age, your attitude, and your physical appearance into account, as well as the average guy in your age group. It hasn't been a long time since I was your age and I know for a fact that the average guy that age just wants to brag and tell their friends what they did. Is it right? No. Is it time to realize that in relationships, there is usually a lot of deception? Yes. If he really liked you for you ,he wouldn't ONLY be nice to you when he wants to get in your pants. That just doesn't make any sense if that's true. Anyway, I hope you make the right decision and I wish you the best and I hope the guy you actually choose to be with is someone who respects you for you and loves you for who you are, NOT your body! That's going to be hard, probably, since you're a very beautiful girl. My answer prioritizes on your best interests, if that makes any sense. Anyway, I hope this answer helped.

hi honey i'm a guy but i seem to respect women far to much if there is such a thing.. if he does something nice and you can still say no to sex without him flying off the handle then he loves and respects you.. try it and find out. if he does do a runner then he not right for you.. G XXX

Maybe it means he wants you to wear skirts?

Depends. If he's actively nasty at other times or just neutral? If he is horrible to you when he doesn't want sex, he doesn't like you and you need to seriously consider if it's worth staying with him. If he's neutral, he might think you know how much he loves you. Some guys also get very romantic when they want to do it. In this case, he does like you.

That means that your only a piece of a&s, and need to find another boyfriend who knows your worth more.

That's where intuition comes in and if you don't have it, you'll be screwed. Literally and figuratively. And every other way.

If your boyfriend only treats you good to get in your pants it most def. means he doesn't care for you he only wants sex.

depends.....dont have sex with him tho anyways even if he does really like you. make him wait for you make the relationship work on your time and the pace you want it. give him the chance to fall in love with you....if he really does like you hell wait until your ready and he wont leave your side if all he wants is sex that you wont give he might leave

it means that he likes to get in your pants and since you are in your pants he likes you. But a boy liking you is not what you need or should be looking for, what you need is a boy that cares. They don't care is they can get in your pants or not they are into you.

There is nothing wrong with him treating you nice to get sex. Unlike women men actually like to have sex, often, so it is only natural for him to want to get in your pants. It doesnt mean he doesnt like you, it just means he wants a realationship with sex. Men hate it when women they are with withold sex from them. Its really not a bad situation; you get treated nicely, he gets sex, its win-win.

people like sex...dont have sex with him for a little bit and if he stops treating you nice then you will know

it could mean a lot of things. There are not only 2 options. Some men dont want relationships b/c they want to be players, but want sex. Other men want a relationship, but dont like you in that way but still want to have sex. and, other men might like you but they are just young idiot boys who are not looking for serious relationships yet b/c they are still growing up... or a million other things. if a man likes you - you'll know. there wont be guessing games.

How do you know that's the only reason he treats you nice? How do you know it has anything to do with him treating you nice? Do you think that's the only reason anyone would treat you nice? I would think he likes you, and he likes sex. I wish you luck.

Ask him!

Sounds like he just using you to get in your pants .. I believe that you know this and just ask for confirmation ..... Naybe time for a nEW b/F ... +5

It's not a boyfriend. It's a fuckfriend.

it means that unless you want the same thing, its time to say goodbye to him

LOOK just be with him and if he tries to talk you into sex don't doit.... THE ONLY BOOK WHERE YOU CAN FIND THE BEST ANSWER TO UR QUESTION IS IN THE BIBLE.. BET PRAY WHITH YOUR HEART BEFORE YOU READ IT OR ELSE YOU WONT UNDERSTAND IT..

It certainly means he wants sex. The other question is a secret in his own mind, not knowable to any of us outsiders

i think it means... it's time to break it off. honey, he's using you for sex.

If he treats you baddly or ignores you afterwards then yes he is using you for sex.

If he really likes you he will be willing to wait and prove he cares. Otherwise he could have sex and dump you once he gets it. I am not saying he will, but that is a chance you may be taking.

It doesn't sound good to me :(