by weak girl on April 9th, 2008

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I am a real girly girl who loves wearing dresses and skirts. Why do so many tomboys and other less feminine girls find it necessary to make comments about my appearance?

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by Keysha on April 9th, 2008
Probably because you are used as an example to show them how others feel THEY should be. It is annoying to be told, why can't you be more like her?
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- I am the way I am because it makes me feel good. I don't care if others want to be like me.
  
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  by weak girl on April 9th, 2008
- I understand that. I did not say YOU did it. I said others do. A boyfriend, for example, may see you, and tell his jeans-wearing girlfriend, "she wears skirts, why can't YOU be like her?"
  
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  by Keysha on April 9th, 2008
- great point,I choose not to let that be my problem, though.
  
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  by weak girl on April 9th, 2008
- That would be a reason to comment on your appearance, though.
  
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  by Keysha on April 9th, 2008
- I didn't see all of the other answers before i said it had to be jealousy, lol
  
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  by jenny on April 12th, 2008
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by PrettyPirate on May 8th, 2008
Oh please. Like you don't judge other women who AREN'T "girlie girls" and who DON'T like wearing dresses and skirts.

You JUST said "less feminine girls" and "tomboys". Why is a woman less of a woman because she prefers wearing pants or jeans? That might be something solely to do with comfort, work requirements - you have no idea why people dress the way they do.

Stop being a hypocrite and complaining about people not letting you live and let live when you're just as judgmental as the rest of the world.
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- Ok somebody is in a bad mood. I don't talk about other people because it is not ladylike. I prefer to be a lady. I do feel that girls that like to act like boys are missing the fun of being a girl. I choose not to be like that because I feel what makes a girl great is how she is different from guys. Not one who is trying to be like them. However, I don't comment about them because they have the right to be how they want to be too.
  
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  by weak girl on May 8th, 2008
- +lithium for questioner and +6 to the answer that got raped for its truthfulness
  
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  by Snooch on May 10th, 2008
- Good comeback, PP!
  
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  by Grandma Roses - my avatar is my real dog on July 1st, 2008
- Very good comeback! That means I would be put into the "less feminine" catagory. How shallow
  
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  by Coopey on May 14th, 2009
- Me too but I think I shall survive .. in my cut off shorts, pony tail and potting soil stained shirt. I am such a shame to my gender =(
  
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by Genius365 on April 10th, 2008
Because we tend to not respect each others differences. It's the same reason "girly girls" often talk about the less feminine girls. It's not right, but if we are secure with who we are, and happy - that's all that matters.
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- It can go both ways. I don't talk because I know I could get my ass kicked.
  
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by chicagogirl88 on April 9th, 2008
i'm the same way, i like having my hair and make up done and dressing nice, and other girls will make stupid comments about how "dressed up" i got. i think theyre just jealous that we always look nice! just ignore it
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- Dressing up is fun, isn't it.
  
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  by weak girl on April 10th, 2008
- yep! and u just feel better when u look cute!
  
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  by chicagogirl88 on April 10th, 2008
- I can't count the number of times I have been to a party and was the only one wearing a dress. I love it because I look so feminine. Have you ever been in this type of situation.
  
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  by weak girl on April 11th, 2008
- yes, all the time! sometimes i will go out and my girlfriends will be wearing sweats out and they will make fun of my for being dressed up in heels and all. but i know i look better than them so i dont care!
  
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  by chicagogirl88 on April 15th, 2008
- I could never wear sweats going out. Not only for looks but also because I wouldn't feel girly enough.
  
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  by weak girl on April 16th, 2008
- i am not jelious if you flirt that is probaly it. Tomboys are sick of seing them always getting comments and being told o you should really be more like her
  
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by Mushen on April 9th, 2008
Like what?
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- Like "why is she wearing a dress to a baseball game?" stuff like that.
  
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  by weak girl on April 9th, 2008
- You surely can't be the only one in a dress - what about your BF? LOL
  
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  by Mushen on April 9th, 2008
- Mushen's comment alone is worth six points, LOL.
  
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by Gingerminx on January 2nd, 2009
I am a tomboy and take offensive at being called less feminine. I could careless what you choose to wear and would never comment on it.
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- I agree. Femininity isn't about the clothes, it's a state of mind.
  
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  by JustcallmeEve on January 2nd, 2009
- Exactly. I can't help wondering if perhaps her attitude comes across and that is why these women talk about her.
  
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  by Gingerminx on January 2nd, 2009
- ginger... i think you hit the nail on the head.
  
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  by interested on March 12th, 2009
- Thank you :)
  
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  by Gingerminx on March 12th, 2009
- Agreed :D
  
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  by Coopey on May 14th, 2009
- :)
  
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by Happy to be me on April 12th, 2008
I am the same way. I love being a girl. I feel very sorry for the girls who find it nesesary to make rude comments.
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- Girly girls rule
  
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  by weak girl on April 12th, 2008
- we are amazing. maybe one day the others girls will figure it out
  
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  by Happy to be me on April 13th, 2008
- I agree and if they did the divorce rate would go down.
  
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  by weak girl on April 13th, 2008
- whats with a negative rating?
  
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  by Happy to be me on May 8th, 2008
- I didn't dr you.
  
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  by weak girl on May 8th, 2008
- Sorry =( someone did. Have a GREAT DAY =D
  
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by pitt fans on April 9th, 2008
Hey do not worry what they say or do... BE YOURSELF... Never conform. What would the world be like if you did not a little of every type of person in it. I think it would be BORING... Hey you should think about going to the University of Va. Girls get dress up to go to Football games and sit on the hill in the stadium... Alot of guys wear shirt and ties... just an old prepy tradition.
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- Hey, I never got a chance to tell you - nice job on the fast edit the other night. I think she missed what you originally (and innocently) wrote.
  
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  by Jodie44 on April 9th, 2008
- I wear dresses to all sporting events.
  
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  by weak girl on April 10th, 2008
- If you're comfortable wearing dresses, then wear dresses. Be yourself, like pittfnz said. That's the only way you'll ever be happy.
  
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by YaelSimons2 on April 9th, 2008
It could be because they are jealous of you or because they feel you're too much of a stereotypical girly girl for their tastes. Whatever their reason, just be happy that they have to make these comments. For whatever the reason, it doesn't matter. You're getting noticed!

Just be you. Don't change because of what people say. People always say things. You can't please everyone and not everyone will be excited about your style.

I went through that all through school--even into college! But I love my style and I won't change. Just be who you are!
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- Thank you, I will never change. Being a girl is a fun and wonderful thing.
  
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by Chigg on January 2nd, 2009
Its not jealousy.

I am intensely feminine and sensual and have no problem with wearing a variety of clothing, I simply find girls that constantly wear skirts and heels to be very confusing because they seem more than others to judge people by what they wear and to feel valued according to how they dress. They also seem to put so much effort into attracting men, as if that was a career move or some sort of points scoring competition.

Some of them seem to go out of their way to undo feminism and volunteer to be helpless eyelash-batting waifs, but try suggesting they face up to their penchant for submissiveness and just go straight for the collar or the hankie and - wow- handbags at dawn.

Its just a bit shallow and restricted, self-involved and, well, weird.

That's not to say I know you and its certainly not to say you deserve that, you may have some real class and balls, but the simpering kind of girly girls are a pain in the butt. I guess some people must imagine you are all the same?
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- Nicely put Chigg. There's a real difference between women who choose to wear dresses as a matter of attire preference and those who are making a statement, and someone who would comment on the "less feminine" women fall into the latter category.
  
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  by JustcallmeEve on January 2nd, 2009
- True - well put yourself - and thank you. :-)
  
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  by Chigg on January 2nd, 2009
- I think that both of you are totally wrong. It is total jealousy. I would have loved to have been able to dress like her, but my feminist nazi mother would never let me. I was forced to lift weights and play football with boys so she could make a point. Deep down though I always wanted to be more feminine.
  
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  by Hate being a Tomboy on January 2nd, 2009
- Be feminine, but surely you know you ARE feminine and what you mean to say is you wish you could LOOK feminine. Plus if you like restrictive clothing or appearing to be inferior (which is a separate issue) then celebrate that and own up to it.
  
  Being forced to lift weights sounds like reason enough for a lifetime of therapy and I'm sorry for you.
  
  You can be jealous if you want to, but if you are an adult now, surely you look and dress how you want to and its a bit late to blame your mom?
  
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  by Chigg on January 2nd, 2009
- actually Chigg I am only sixteen. My story is in my profile. You talk about therapy. My mother needs it. And no, I don't feel feminine. These manly arms and bad temper don't make me feel that way. I have always wanted to be though and will learn how to be.
  
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  by Hate being a Tomboy on January 2nd, 2009
- Right - I went and read. Good for you - so glad you are at your dad's now. Seriously though, your desire to be a princess, to feel special and pretty is SO feminine. So you don't know what suits you, yet, but you sound incredibly girly, OK?
  
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by slothmister on May 7th, 2008
Why do you find it necessary to make comments about other girls femininity? Its human nature.
Just ignore any degrading comments and you will be better than them :)
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by sfjsdfkhkgsk on April 9th, 2008
Maybe cutting others down makes them feel better about themselves. People are weird. Just ignore it and be happy :D Don't take it personal.
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- I do ignore it and am happy. I don't ever say anything back for 2 reasons; 1) I don't want to be like them, 2)I don't want to get my ass kicked.
  
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  by weak girl on April 10th, 2008
- @ Weak Girl Loves Pink Skirts, dosent matter if you are weak or strong, its what really is inside of you that really matters.
  
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by Yarnlady is happy every day on April 9th, 2008
Are you somehow, maybe provoking people into saying things about you? Last month you asked about making up with your friend after she knocked you down in the mud. I've always dressed the way I want to, and people don't make comments about me, or knock me down in the mud.

Feminine dressing should go hand in hand with lady like behavior. Maybe you are having an issue with that, or maybe it's time you find different people to hang out with.
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- Fair question, I try to be nice everybody. I know of my inability to fight. I love being real girly though. Not only that but I also have a full academic schlorship. Maybe I am an overachiever to some.
  
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by A on April 9th, 2008
It is very possible that they are jealous of you.
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- I don't want anyone to be jealous. I just to it because it makes me feel good.
  
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  by weak girl on April 9th, 2008
- You can't help how other people feel, though. Live your life and don't let their words get to you.
  
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  by AnonymousGirl on April 9th, 2008
- thank you.
  
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  by weak girl on April 9th, 2008
- You're welcome.
  
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by sexadvisor on April 9th, 2008
jealousy. they know they cant look as good as u
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- That's the thing. I don't want anyone to be jealous.
  
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by moonchild wears a COAT of shadows on September 20th, 2008
I am someone who feels better in jeans, but dont let the others get you down! I think a girl should wear what she assumes to be herself, my daughter is also a girly girl, she wears wonderful skirts, I am proud of her, because she is who she is! (not too short though), take care of who you are and not what others say.
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by R.I.P. Gerald Malone on May 31st, 2008
Well, I don't mind girly girls in the least! Hell, I get along with a few of them. :) It just upsets us if "girly girls" start to degrade themselves by dressing too slutty or showing too much. I believe it to be disrespectful to people as a society who have to look at it, lol.
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by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on May 30th, 2008
I understand what you're saying.
Just be true to yourself.
Don't even bother about them. :)
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- Thank you. You sound like you like to wear skirts and dresses alot too.
  
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  by weak girl on June 1st, 2008
- I wear shorts to the gym, but yes, I LIVE in skirts.
  I love dresses as well, so much that I design many of my own.
  Plus, the fit is better on my own designs--I'm small and tiny-waisted, but curvy (which killed off any hope of a career in ballet).
  Do you sew?
  
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  by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 1st, 2008
- I did in my life skills class. It is something I may get into later.
  
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  by weak girl on June 1st, 2008
- It's really a lot of fun.
  I adore working with soft fabrics...don't even get me started.
  I think sewing is fabulous.
  Why were you beat up before?
  
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  by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 1st, 2008
- It was stupid. The girl was my friend. She was a little drunk. I was just talking to her bf. I told him he was handsome. She thought I was flirting. She then pushed me to the ground. I got up and made the mistake of trying to slap her. She blocked it and twisted my arm and wrestled me to the ground. Then she just jumped on me and beat the shit out of me. I was wearing a really nice dress and she picked me up and threw me in the mud when she was done.
  
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  by weak girl on June 1st, 2008
- WOW!
  OMG...sorry. :( (((hugs)))
  
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  by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 1st, 2008
- It's ok. I actually look back on with a sense of humor.Especially on the part where I tried to slap her. My attempt was so pathetically weak it is funny.
  
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  by weak girl on June 1st, 2008
- wow...I don't know what I would have done. :(
  
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  by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 1st, 2008
- Why did the crazy girl in the store want to kick your ass?
  
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  by weak girl on June 1st, 2008
- She doesn't like girls like us.
  She was really huge and mean and I later learned, had a history of problems like this.
  
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  by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 1st, 2008
- Well good thing somebody was there to help you.
  
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  by weak girl on June 1st, 2008
- I was in a store. :D
  
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  by VS Angel aka Mrs. Stealth Intelligence on June 1st, 2008
- Well, I really enjoyed talking to you today. I am going to my friends graduation party. You should see my dress. It is white with purple flowers. I'll talk to you again sometime.
  
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  by weak girl on June 1st, 2008
- Have fun
  
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by KSU FOOTBALL on May 8th, 2008
jealous
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by - M.C.S. - Dave on May 8th, 2008
I say just be yourself, & let them be themselfs. Its your life and your body, not theirs. Wear what makes you feel good. And don't try to please everyone else by living to their standards of dressing. I myself have nothing against ether side in how they dress. And fell it should be left up to them, for it is their body not mine. So just don't let their comments get to you.
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- Good wisdom!
  
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  by Cognition aka Cog on May 8th, 2008
- Thanks Cognition......P.S. I've still got that song going through my head..The one you gave me on my 50th.....WOW.....
  
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  by - M.C.S. - Dave on May 8th, 2008
- Cool!!!!!
  
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by Gabstar on April 24th, 2008
cause truly inside, they're jealous ;)
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by Jed Merrill on April 12th, 2008
I admire you for being the person you want to be.

Don't let them change a thing.
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by jenny on April 12th, 2008
Honey it's because they are jealous or have bad legs and only wish they could wear skirts!!I am a jeans and t-shirt type girl, not really a tomboy, but not too girly either so I just think it's all because they envy you.
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- Thank you for your kind statements. If you don't mind me asking why don't you like skirts?
  
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  by weak girl on April 12th, 2008
- honestly, i have always been a jeans girl my legs are skinny
  
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by Done. never again. on April 9th, 2008
I'm the same way. Maybe they're jealous of you. What kind of comments do they make?
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- Like "Why is she wearing a dress to a baseball game?" Or at a party, "Look at her, nobody else is wearing a skirt."
  
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  by weak girl on April 10th, 2008
- Dress for the occasion. Say, if you're at a wedding, don't try to outshine the bride. Also, don't wear club clothes to your niece's christening. You'll look attention-needy. Be tasteful, you can't go wrong, got it? I had a friend look awful because she was wearing stripper clothes to a ball game.
  
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  by Done. never again. on April 13th, 2008
- I have all different dresses for all kind of occasions. I wear dresses to the ball game because all I own is dresses and skirts. I don't like jeans or shorts.
  
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  by weak girl on April 15th, 2008
- That's cool. You're fine, girls that make comments are just jealous of you. Although I do remember this girl that brought a satin pillow to sit on while sitting on bleachers, that was a little extreme I thought, if you don't do that, don't worry about it.
  
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by unknown on April 9th, 2008
Maybe they would feel ridiculous dressed like that so they assume you feel ridiculous but are just trying to show off or put on airs. I dressed the way you do now when I was younger. and I got teased a lot because I liked to play sports. The other girls who were less girly didn't understand why I dressed the way I did. It's really a matter of them not understanding that you feel differently than they do. I wouldn't worry too much about it. If you're happy, that's what matters.
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- Thank you. That's the thing. I don't care how they dress at all.
  
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  by weak girl on April 9th, 2008
- I know. Don't worry about it. You have to be who you are. If you are comfortable with how you look then screw them.
  
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by Ultra Girly Girl on August 9th, 2009
weak girl - I agree I love being a girl.
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- It is so fun isn't it. I am glad I am not a guy because I would suck so bad at it.
  
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  by weak girl on September 28th, 2009
- I hate being a girl. I so wish I wasn't. I would be great at being a guy because I stink at being a girl.
  
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by PaperAlchemist on March 3rd, 2009
Most of those girls are probably dressing as they are for trendy reasons.

Kudos to you for wearing dresses, I love seeing women being feminine. Dresses > Jeans and Long hair > Short hair I say!

Ignore their remarks and acknowledge that you're confident enough to rouse other girls jealousy. Don't fold under the pressure of other people's insecurities.

Be you and be proud of who you are.

Good luck darlin'.
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by grellojam on March 3rd, 2009
Jealousy. Tomboy types are generally too lazy to dress nice. For us boys it's great to hear that some girls still like wearing dresses. I for one love them.
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by LittleMissSunshine on January 2nd, 2009
I am a girly girl myself and I will tell you it's probably jealously. When I look good I don't really get dirty looks from other attractive girls. It's always the dumpy, chunky masculine looking ones. The hell with them! Stay fabulous hun and congrats on graduating with honors. You'll look back one day for these b*tches on Facebook and they will either a.) not be there because they are in hiding due to being so hideous or b.) on there still looking fugly.
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by Sheik Yerbouti on September 20th, 2008
probably because youre hot
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by John on September 20th, 2008
Girls who don't like skirts, blouses and dresses shall not wear it, if they don't have a work that require them to do so. Like many nanny girls/maid girls/hotel girls/secretary girls/office girls/cleaner girls/kitchen girls/restaurant girls and waitress girls have to wear clothes likes skirts and blouses, even if they hate it. But if you like such clothes they shall let you wear such clothes if you want it.
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by david tennants not so secret admirer on May 30th, 2008
cos they would like to dress like you but don't have the confidence.
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by Jane on May 8th, 2008
that's weird, i'm not sure why. I would think it would be the other way around like the tomboys are getting picked on by the girly-girls
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- It can work two ways, you're right. I choose not to pick on anybody. It is not ladylike and I would prefer not to get my butt kicked.
  
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  by weak girl on May 8th, 2008
- ha ha, I know!
  
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by --- on May 8th, 2008
its not always the appearance, its what they believe u do. if ur always wearing skirts and dresses, they're gonna think ur after guys and r a partier wit no brain. its really stereotypical and i hate it. im pretty close to a tomboy and i think ur cool to fight this

u go girl! :)
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- I am graduating with honors. So that kills the intelligence stereotype. Thank you so much. Have a wonderful day.
  
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by Katie on May 8th, 2008
I would imagine that they are jealous or do not understand. It is their problem, not yours. Indulge in your girliness and live, laugh, love!
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by meowry on May 8th, 2008
I am a tomboy in attitude, but I love wearing dresses and skirts. Most women ACT more feminine than I do, but why are they so reluctant to wear feminine clothing? Maybe it's inconvenience. But, I think skirts are comfortable. Ever felt comfy wearing jeans, on a hot summer day? I don't think so.

As for other girls making comments about your appearance, I can attest that many girls like to gossip and spread horrible lies about others. I don't know why, considering that I've never been one of them. Maybe they're not good people and this is the way they react to feelings of low self-esteem or (in contrast) self-assuredness.
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by Beauty Queen on May 8th, 2008
They wanna be you..I get that all the time.
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by Skirtsnhose on May 7th, 2008
That's unfortunate. It's odd that you would catch more grief for wearing a dress than I do for wearing short skirts, pantyhose, and high heels.
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by Butterfly on April 13th, 2008
they are jealous... don't listen to them... just wear anything you want... i have the same situation... i go to work dressing up and hear some comment... and guess what the next day i see some girls dressing just like mt ...huh
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by Tom on January 2nd, 2009
they're just jealous
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by RosieGHM Jetpacker on January 2nd, 2009
What do they say to you? Do they walk up to you and insult you? Or are you reading things that tomboys say about the mode of dress they prefer? If you are a girly girl, that's fine with me. I don't care one way or the other. It doesn't make me better or you better..how one chooses to present oneself to the world in terms of fashion is irrelevant to me. Some people are very fashion conscious and some are not. Simple as that. Different strokes for different folks! Happy Friday! :)
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by andthenitsgone on January 17th, 2009
You keep on keepin' on miss. Their consciences are being picqued when they see someone like yourself.
Disregard whatever mean things they have to say.
It is possible that they themselves are searching for the loving male role model that may not have been in their life so there is a bit of compensation within them. If they're mean, be kind! :)
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by Sassygirl on March 3rd, 2009
To hell with those people, if you are comfortable and happy with the way you look that is all you need.
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by akjen29 on January 2nd, 2009
Yea, jealousy.. I can be a tomboy but I appreciate girly girls - if anything they teach me a thing or two about how to spruce up on occasion and they add color to the world.. Dont worry about it.
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by JILL on March 3rd, 2009
because they are insecure with there own
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by Ec-nal Licensed Bootie Inspector on May 8th, 2008
I suspect jealousy has a hand in it yo...
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by human_tripod on September 17th, 2010
A. they jealous
B. they want to touch your body, want to BLEEP you like an animal, are warm for your form
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by Uncle_Festor on April 7th, 2010
1. EEEEEEEEEEWWWWWWWWWWWWW why dresses and skirts and make up crap? Sorry I am a tomboy and why we make the comments is because dude or dudet whatever we hate girly crud and we feel you gettin dressed up for no one so why crap all over it with the make up shit?
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by avenger9921 on December 6th, 2010
i wish many girlie girls would ditch the heels and boots for a while and wear more keds, oxfords and leather slip ons since they make a girl sexy. these oxfords are sexy and still make you a girlie girl and wear less make-up and cut hair short.
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by Anon. on March 3rd, 2009
They have misconceptions about what message you're trying to convey. Usually, girls who dress as how you described it tend to do it for the wrong reasons. These other "less feminine" girls see it more as a provocative/sex statement rather than style.
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