Is it okay to be a virgin at 16?
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Uhm...Yes it is very much okay...Why wouldnt it be? Especially at 16
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It's okay to be a virgin at 96 if that is what you want. This is all about your needs and desires. You control when and if you want to become an 'ex-virgin':)--nobody should be making that decision for you.
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It is perfectly ok- and I would encourage it. Even beside religious concerns (which trump in my mind, but I'll step aside from that for the moment) to do anything so personal just because everyone else is doing it is a bad reason. Despite what others may say, sex is very personal, and it does effect you! It will seem like everyone is doing it- but is it so bad to be unique, even if it's true that everyone is doing it?
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It's fantastic to be a virgin at 16... Keep your head on straight, work hard and keep the little wizard in your trousers until you are older. You will find that your path to success will be much easier. If you start getting distracted with the pursuit of sex too early, your climb to a secure future becomes exponentially more difficult. I guarantee it! Keep marching forward!
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its great to be a virgin at 16 and i bet 8 out of 10 people who you ask will say they wish they had waited i was 15 and it was the biggest mistake ever i wish i had not concentrated on what everybody else was doing and done what i really wanted
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It's okay to be a virgin if you're 72 as long as you're happy with yourself.
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Is it ok? Its perfect!!! There is no reason to complicate your life at 16 with sex. Just enjoy being a teenager! There is plenty of time in the future for those kinds of relationships, don't be in such a hurry to grow up!
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Im 17 and still a virgin, its not a competition who had sex first and who hasnt. Its about waiting till you find the right person and are ready =)
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Yes. I think it would be better if people postponed losing their virginity. Save the best for last.
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Yes, it is very okay. People are not stamped with an expiration date, you do have to lose your virginity on a timetable.
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yes its perfectly fine to be a virgin at 16
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you should be very very very proud of yourself! Don't rush it... you may regret it!
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It's more than okay - it's the ideal.
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It's terrific to be a virgin. My husband was a virgin until the age of nearly 23 and I was one until 18.
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Celebrate it makes you fairly special these days!
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As long as your ok with it darlin` :)
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i dont see the reason to not to be a virgin..at 16
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am 16 now turning 17 in couple of days and am still a virgin. Yes it is okay to be a virgin at that age, once thats what you want and you fell good about that decision. Its good that that you have saved yourself, because believe it or not, the most special time is in marriage commiting yourself to someone who you love. instead of giving your virginity to your bf/gf then later on regret it. Suppose yall might break up and you got hurt, then you will regret sharing yourself with that person. So its better to wait as long as you can.
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Sure it is, you shouldn't be rushing into something like sex, and I think that waiting will prove to be worth it.
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I was until 21. what's the big deal?
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of course, I was until 17...
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Sure, as long as you feel it is. People should lose their virginity whenever they're ready, and everyone's ready at their own time.
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I was one until the day I got married (strange to hear huh) at 18. Hold on to it as long as you can, that's one thing you can't get back after you give it away.
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Not only is it okay, it's smart, at 16 you have your entire life in front of you, you don't want to have to worry about STD's or becoming pregnant right now, you have all the time in the world to explore your sexuality, when you feel you are ready for that. For now, enjoy being a kid.
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of course it is okay..
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It is very okay. I was until almost 20. I'm glad I waited.
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i agree with Doggie S.don't make that mistake at your age. its better to wait until marriage to have sex.there will be more trust in the marriage.
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its fine im 18 and im a virgin too and i feel great cuz all of my friends aren't.
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Thats very admirable to be honest. Lose it when you find someone special. Dont just jump in bed with someone to just to loose your virginity.
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It's phenomenal that you value that experience in such a way that you will hopefully save that for someone you're really in love with and want to spend the rest of your life with. It's such a special thing and some people devalue themselves by only caring that they get laid. They should go brush their teeth instead . . . it's about as meaningful.
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good for you...i think it's awesome and don't let anyone tell you different
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Of course it is. Growing up nowadays is so difficult with all the pressures to have sex. Sex should be special between that specisl someone, WHEN YOU FIND HIM OR HER! There is no rush. Don't let the media and songs and advertisements lead you in a direction you don't want to go. Life is precious, respect it and enjoy it at your pace!
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Absolutely! That's the one gift that you can give to your husband on your wedding night that no one else can give him. Good for you!
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sure it is :-)
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UMM YEA ITS OK, just becuase everyone sais they have sex it doesn't mean that they actualy are. i learned that the hard way.
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It's okay to be a virgin until YOU are ready, be it 16 or 21 or 35.
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Oh yes too right it is. I don't get the whole fashion with losing it - its like a race and it almost gets treated the same as having your first cigarette or getting drunk for the first time, or even getting your driving licence. Dumb kids think its just a milestone so they throw away a really special transition just to boast that they've 'done it'. Talk about proof that they havent really grown up at all. You never, ever forget your first time. It is NOT going to be like in the movies, its going to be very amateurish, probably with you banging noses together or putting a knee down in the wrong spot and probably done in a really awkward place like the back of a car. It needs to be with someone you adore and can laugh with. If its grubby, hurried, if it involves lying sweet nothings to someone who doesn't really rock your world at all, if it involves throwing away all your ethics just to get to the orgasm then its going to be as hollow as a w*nk. Chinese food, even. Twenty minutes later you'll be wondering what the hell you did that for. Honestly. Its okay to be a virgin at 66, never mind 16, if it means you like yourself.
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At sixteen, only the sluts, the naive, and those who have no self worth have had sex. The rest of us waited until college.
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Of course it's okay. More power to you.
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Yes of course
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It's fine, but beware of all these crusaders telling exactly how long you're required to stay that way (until your wedding night - until you find true love - until Jesus turns up and hands you a condom...). It's your decision.
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I hope so, I was 23. I had passed up 2 opportunities for casual sex with major hotties, but my wife who I met at 23 was my first girlfriend.
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I dont see any reason why not.
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That's called being selective.
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It is excellent. Don't lose it until you are married. Don't follow our sick society. Please.
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well yes why wouldnt it. its best to wait and find the person you love and once you get married to do that stuff and wats the point of following the crowd because they say theyve had sex
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Of course it is.
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Of course it is! Good for you.
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yeah.. it is as long as you are happy.. dont rush into anything..
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yes! its more than ok!...so dont worry ...
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Yes - it's better than okay! You have a higher chance of getting cancer if you have sex before you're 18 if you are female because you're uterus is not fully formed.
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yes, is totally okay
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im 18 and i haven't, all my freinds have but they did it with random people that they either didn't know or regret with, thats why im happy i haven't yet
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yes, its totally ok
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it is absoluetly ok & i recommend it. im not preaching because im actually 17. your virginity is something you will never get back once it's gone & you should save that for the right one. it takes a strong person to be happy with themselves the way they are w/out feeling the need to conform to the way the screwed-up world sees things!!
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hell yeah it is! if your askin the you must not think so. but it really is
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Yeah nothing wrong.
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Yes, it is perfectly normal to be a virgin at 16 and don't let anyone tell you any different!
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The longer you wait the better really....you need to have sex for the right reasons...not because your a certain age or your friends had it....it shows maturity...your body is a gift to give to someone special....
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Absolutely it is ok to be virgin as long as you don't find the true partner and and make your relationship legal by marrying him/her.
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Yes dude it cool i did not lose mine to i was 16
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At least I get that shor moment of pleasure :)
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Absolutely, you should wait until you are ready to lose your virginity and don't be pressured into it. Find someone who you want to lose it to as you will remember the experience for the rest of your life.
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it's more than ok. i lost my virginity on my sixteenth birthday and have done nothing but regret that decision since. however, everybody's different..just because i wasn't ready to have sex when i was sixteen doesn't mean you're not.
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WTF is wrong with u? u gotta give that S*** up as soon as u hit puberty so u wont be a social outcast and everyone wont make fun of u
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of course it is. brave question. +++++
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It is definitely okay! It's a very good thing :)
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of course its okay. dont rush ur life life away bc once its gone u can never get it back. wait for that special someone.
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Its perfectly okay. Losing your virginity isn't something that has to be done at a certain age. Its a choice and a decision. Have you ever seen the movie 40 year old virgin? Well, anyway, just lose it when the time is right and remmber you can't get it back
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HELZZZ NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Omg it's totally ok. I'm going to be 23 next month and i am still a virgin. I'm not going to say that you should wait till your married but i think you should wait until you are in love and are ready to be in that kind of relationship. You might think your in love but it's important know the difference between love and lust. If you are going to have sex make sure you are safe about it use more than one form of birth control (not two condoms) use a vaginal foam with a spermacide and a diaphragm with a condom...check out your partner's genitals looking for sores and talk about what this step is going to mean for you two and your relationship. You should also talk about what steps you both would want to take should you get sick or pregnant. If you don't feel comfortable doing this or your partner doesn't want to...waiting might not be a bad idea. i have been told that sex for the first time is a confusing and scary thing the last thing you want is to regret having had sex. Last but not least talk to an adult you trust. Ask them to keep the convo between the two of you and keep that person posted. BE SAFE.
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I'm 18 and a virgin! You at least can be okay for two more years, then ask again. ;)
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It's more than okay. Save it, cherish it. Wait for the right someone.
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yes ... it will be better if you whait until you get maried ... :)
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stupid question. yes, it's fine.
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It is ok to remain a virgin till you feel you want sex
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yes it is. why wouldnt it be ? if your trying to keep up with your peers I hope you have a limit.
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of course im 28 & im still virgin
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its okay to be a virgin at 16 its actually great that your still a virgin because your virginity is a special thing an its something you want to keep untill you and your boyfriend/girlfriend are ready.
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That is alot more than okay! It's great if you are!
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Having sex is only biological reason you're alive on this earth.
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Yes, it's more than OK. I encourage you to wait.
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I'm eighteen and I'm a virgin. My friends who have lost their virginity have told me they regret it and wish they would have waited.
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No! thats terrible! i lost it at 12/13, it was my 13th birthday
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It sure is. You should be doing the exploring of your own body. Touch yourself down there, give yourself pleasure, find out what feels good and what doesn't. If you don't know, when the time comes to tell your partner what you want, you won't know what to tell him/her. Masturbation is fun too! Don't be forced into having sex with a partner.
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its fine to be a virgin at 16, theres no point in rushing things :)
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absolutely, it should be special and i wish i could go back and still be a virgin when i was 16 but sh*t happens. u shud feel lucki.
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Read Hebrew 13:4 and 1 Corinthians 6:9,10.Fornication is sin,therefore sex before marriage is sin.And in Hebrews it states God will judge those who have sex outside of marriage.
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sure, most 16 yr olds are. But some aren't. Thats your choice. Just wait until the time is right
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I'll be 16 in less then two weeks and I'm still a virgin. Not saying its easy, it's just a personal choice.
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Way more than OK, it is admirable.
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yes. its your own personal choice. dont rush it.
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I can't believe our society as broken down to the point where a 16 year old thinks it's not ok to be a virgin at that age.
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of course it is! who said it wasn't okay?
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Yes and thats a blessing....Ur Virginity is a once in a life time thing....and as long as u want to hold on to it u should.
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virginity is becoming a sin when sex is overrated. You can be a virgin as long as you want.
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Of course it is! I'm 16 (17 in a month) and i'm still a virgin. Don't listen to society, your friends, or anyone that says other wise. Wait until you find that one special person you want to loose it to. Me and my girl friend have been together for a year and a half, and we haven't had sex yet becuase we both know that we aren't ready. Make sure that you wait until you are ready as well as your partner, don't lose it to someone you just met.
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Yesss, if that's what's right for you, yes. You don't want to rush things and then regret it. :(
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ITS A MATURE DECISION. IT IS MORE THAN OK. IT IS VERY GOOD.
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YES!!! infact its a really good thing to be a virgin at 16 :) and if you wait for marrage your husband will be so happy you waited only for him :) (trust me with sex can also come regret)
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