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Abusing a child would if I had my way carry immediate physical, not chemical castration and either a death penalty or Life with no parole.
I certainly do not and would never apologize for my views.
In fact I would happily be the executioner.
No. I know it's not a popular opinion, I know I'm going to get downrated.
Laws need to be changed in order to distinguish abuse from consentual couples. Right now there are MANY teenagers who have been convicted of sexual crimes against a minor for engageing in acts with a partner a year or two their junior (sometimes a year or two their senior as well). These cases are ridiculous and end up with people on sexual offender lists who are of no harm to the general population (in that respect).
Also I think pedophiles do not benefit from any sort of prison system. I think in North America (and in other parts of the world) prison systems are more effective at breeding criminals then they are at correcting problems.
I think a good alternative is manditory Pschyciatric treatment along with enforcable rules about being around children, possibly in adult only communities, I don't know. I don't have the answer, but I think prison is a bad solution, these people can still contibute to society.
Yes, I am a mother.
Personally, I dont think child molesters can be rehabilitated. Prison for life or death. We need to protect our children. I am a victim and know that my innocence as a child was taken from me that day.
Only if they get put in general population.Speaking as someone who has been to prison I can say that if the rest of the prisoners got a hold of the child abuser he would get paid back in full.
I think they should get raped daily, in prison, for the rest of their life.
I think they should go to HELL, but prison while they are waiting, yep.
they shouldnt go to prison, they should be hanged.
I think jail is not enough. Just turn them over to people who love those kids and let them handle it.
They should be physically castrated first.
NO! I most certainly do not! That would be a waste of tax payer's money! A cheap bullet to the head on the town square would be more fitting. Child predators are the worst type of gutter scum out there and much more should be done to rid the world of them completely!
i'm not sure..i was sexually abused, and i think alot of them were abused themselves. if they can recieve help in prison, i'd be all for it.
While I absolutely abhor such behavior, I believe the psych ward would be a more appropriate place. These are people too and need help. They were more than likely abused themselves. I'm not saying go to rehab for a few months and be let out. I'm talking a long long time.
Without the benefits.
Just transfer them to a new parish.
Yes, and i think they should have a horrible accident on the way there. And once inside prison, well they are on there own.
My daughter was sexually abused by her father when she was 3.
As far as I am concerned, I think that they should all be put through what they did to a child. Maybe when they have it done to them, they will understand what they put that child through.
Or you could just send them to prision and tell all the inmates what they are there for. They will take of the person for you. They have no tolerance for that behavior.
I am usually a very nice person and only answer questions that I have knowledge in. I always have a positive attitude. This is a touchy subject and I cannot remain silent or understanding.
yes they should and they should stay there and be castrated.
bieng sexual abbused as a younger child i think the should all die a very long and painfull death like being eaten alive by buzzurds o r ranoverf a ouple of times wit a 18 wheeler and maybe even decapitated
Yes, they should and should never be let out again, EVER.
The problem with all the answers that say to do something to their genitalia is that they don't have to use that to abuse. Many pedophiles don't actually do so. They abuse through using their mouths, their hands, objects, whatever. It does not require having genitalia to sexually abuse.
I think they ought to be shot.
No. I think the parents, family and friends should torture the sob until death.
The morgue is a better place.
yes they should
and the other inmates should be allowed to make their lives total hell!!
I think they need to be rounded up and shot because there is no rehabilitation for these people.
They should go to a mental health facility
no, they need to go to a mental institution.
No because I'm a taxpayer and don't want to pay for their sorrya**es to receive free room and board. Prison would be too easy. I think they should be strung up by their privates and swung at like a pinata. Zero tolerance for sexual abusers. Zero.
Prison or Psychiatric Institutions. If they go to prison, it shouldn't be with the murderers though. I saw a show on National Geographic Channel called Supermax Prisons; believe it or not, even hardened murderers have some morals - they won't touch child molesters...together with informants, child molesters are known as "untouchables", and they are sent into their own distinct section in the prison because in any other section they'd be killed instantly. I agree that molesters must be brought to justice, but nobody should just be thrown to the wolves.
I THINK THEY SHOULD BE TORTURED!!!!!!!!!
Agreed. And I hope they get raped or molested. The pain and trauma caused by such a despicable act is unforgivable. However forgiveness should be given, as it isn't one person's place to be able to be above forgiveness.
Yep, on the way to the chair.
on the spot castration
Yes but did you know many of them were sexually abused?
I think they should burn in hell.
Anyone who takes advantage of whatever power they have, over anyone, should go to prison.
If anyone raises their hand, their voice, or interferes with a child in a sexual away. They should go to prison.
All of the above is ABUSE, and all of it is damaging for life.
BUT,
Instead of the general public blowing a lot of hot air, making all kinds of brutal remarks about how they'd cut heads off, or gathering and posturing outside a perpetrators home, for Pete's sake, think about the victims, think about what you can do to prevent such crimes, not only that, try to understand what causes such behaviour.
It really is time the silly emotive responses were stopped, and a little brain power applied to this problem.
We all know, and fully accept, children learn their behaviour.
Now that statement doesn't mean you have to have been a victim of sexual assault to be a child sexual abuser, but it does mean you've been treated badly by someone somewhere, and it's the psychological damage that abuse has caused, which causes any person to behave in an antisocial way.
WE can't just focus on the sexual abuser, because as I say, any kind of abuse perpetrated upon a child is damaging, and it's that very damage which causes the full range of antisocial behaviours.
i.e. A sexually abused child can become a psychological abuser, a psychologically abused child can become a violent abuser, and a violently abused child can become a sexual abuser, or any and all of the above.
The whole point is, we as a society must stop any kind of abuse being perpetrated upon our children, even that little tap on the bottom is humiliating and degrading for the child, that loud yell attracts attention and belittles the child, and of course, constant nasty remarks are psychologically destructive.
Surely as adults all of us possess the ability to calmly, quietly and effectively, communicate with a little child.
The more we practice that behaviour the more natural it will become, and the less monsters we'll create.
You all know as adults how you feel when someone treats you badly, it damages you as a person, it humiliates and degrades you, and upsets your emotions.
Remember this when you deal with thinking, feeling, and emotional children, because they feel the same way you do when they're a victim of any kind of abuse.
When abusers of any kind are caught, we have judges who rely on the public in the form of witnesses,Police Officers to gather that information and any evidence, or expert opinions, a prosecution and defence lawyer, so that in the end, a fair and reasonable judgement of the alleged perpetrator can be made.
Yes I know, some of the judgements seem poor, but that's always going to be, because one of the abovementioned has done a poor job, or witnesses harm the case, because of something they confuse.
You have to be in a court room for the full trial taking all kinds of notes, before you can criticise any aspect of any case.
To rely on the media to draw a clear and fair picture is a huge mistake, after all, the press is famous for "never letting the facts get in the way of a good story".
After all of the above, it gets down to this, "PREVENTION".
We all agree child abuse of any kind is extremely damaging, and that damage is for life, so screaming and yelling abuse at yet another so called monster, all happens way too late for the victims, and demonstrates to any child watching, a kind of behaviour which is just as bad as the behaviour of the person you're all yelling at.
By gathering in a wild pack, you demonstrate loss of control, abuse of power, in that you're part of a mob all targeting one person, and violence, especially with much of what you all say in your emotional outbursts.
To prevent future victim, you need to put all your anger, all your contempt, all that wasted energy into "PREVENTION" It's too late for the victims when you're carrying on about yet another abuser.
All offenders need to be part of some kind of research which must be part of any sentence, especially any release back into society.
All of society must work towards ending all kinds of abuse, because all kinds of abuse is what creates all kinds of abusers.
Remember this, It really is too late for the Victim when you're abusing the perpetrator.
If you really are serious about this horrible problem, then deal with it in an effective way, by getting involved in its PREVENTION.
If a person can do a thing like this it means that they have been very hurt themselves. I think rather than a prison sentence they should be castrated and sent to a mental hospital for ongoing treatment. What happens to children when its their father who does it and they have no mother or anyone else to turn to. i believe they are better off staying with their father rather than an orphanage, after he has been castrated and recieved mental help.
deathpenalty should be brought back for thous people
i think they should be taken into a field somewhere and shot is what i think!!
We all hate the actions of an abuser of kids. The real tragedy is these cretins were actually kids once and most of them had abuse in their childhoods. That in no way makes me want to coddle them. They must be punished, but prison does not do a damned thing to rehabilitate anyone that is mentally ill. They should be locked up, at this point in time since there seems to be no cure, maybe forever. But, we need to try some new approach. Forgetting for a moment the cost involved, because this is not my field of expertese, I would lock them up alone away from other criminal minds and only allow sane, normal info to flow into their minds reprogramming non perverted ideas into their heads. They should have classes, doctors, movies whatever, all to do with correcting this aberration. They do not need to ever be in the company of society again, necessarily, but at least not put them in a breeding ground of more crime by letting them mix with other perverts.
They deserve death.
If it was proven without a doubt that they are guilty, yes. Just a say-so shouldn't do it.
death penalty - they would only do it again when they got out of prison
Why should tax payers pay to keep them in prison? They should be tortured and shot.
When an over 18 year old adult, sexually abuses a child under 14 years of age, that person should get life in prison or the death penalty, no exceptions for any reason.
For cases that do not fit that exact circumstance, we must have some lesser levels of punishment in order for our laws to be fair and reasonably applied.
Teenagers that are dating and just happen to have one too many birthdays in age difference and the relationship consensually becomes sexually active is just not the same crime.
In such cases, when the person that is a little older is convicted as a sexual predator, this is a total misapplication of laws intended to prevent violent crimes against children.
From my own experience, I had sex the first time when I was 14 years old with a friend that even though we were about the same height, he was 17 years old.
I didn't know or care at the time but it was perfectly legal as peer group sex in the state where we lived. This relationship went on for almost a year before he went away to college but in March of that year he had a birthday that put him over 18 years old and what had been legal, suddenly became illegal for him.
I never considered myself to be a victim, he never forced me to do anything, and I have absolutely no regrets.
I'm now 22 and he is 25 and even though we are in school in different states, we get together when we can and have actually had some serious talk of marriage.
It is a terrible injustice to consider such relationships to be illegal and predatory.
Not if he's 19 and she's 15.
Nah I have a basement we can torture them there!
No, they should only be transfered to another parish :)
i would say they get killed on the spot our world is goign to easy on punishment theses days its just not right
Yes all Sexual abuser sould go to prison..After getting there thing cut off...
Or killed.
what causes paedophilia?
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Thanks for your answer Firebrand.
by doodlethenoodle on January 29th, 2008
Can I help? I am very creative.
by Arisztid on January 29th, 2008
Firebrand: It's easy to hate a crime itself, and even to automatically hate any person - theoretically - who commits that crime; but if you knew the human being behind the cell number, maybe you wouldn't be so quick to condemn.
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[I don't mean to devalue your opinion...I just think many people are much too quick to make unbending judgments]
by ACCOUNT CLOSED on January 31st, 2008
I am glad you are not devaluing the life of my 5 year old son Uberhuman. I consider his death is a very good reason for my unbending opinion. One day his killer will be free to stalk other womens children. These people can and will never change.
by Firebrand on January 31st, 2008
I'm really sorry, I didn't know of your loss. I just believe vengeance is never the answer - but I guess you certainly have the right to feel how you feel.
by ACCOUNT CLOSED on January 31st, 2008
Thank you :)
by Firebrand on January 31st, 2008
Firebrand,
I agree with you, they never change. I know they are sick and yes I know some of them have had it perpetrated on them, but it doesn't matter! We can not ever let them out to harm again.
Please accept my deepest sympathy,
Denise
by Cognition aka Cog on February 29th, 2008
Thank you very much for your kindness and understanding :)
by Firebrand on February 29th, 2008
I would spare the money for the chemicals and use a rusty butter knife for the Castration. Otherwise I am with you. +6
by Vampyre Bat on April 12th, 2008
that's a pretty harsh response, they need to get some help, such as counseling....
by Im BACK on June 4th, 2008
Counseling does not work for these people. No medical study has shown that there is an effective treatment for this. There is none. I stand by what I said and I will not apologize for it in any way. A dead pedophile will not rape children again. That is a fact.
by Vampyre Bat on June 4th, 2008
do they really need to die for chid abusing? after all, they are only human.....nobody is completely perfect...i still believe that some counseling could help them resolve their problems.
by Im BACK on June 4th, 2008
I have spoken to experts on this issue whose job it is to treat and lock up these individuals. There is nothing that counseling can do for these people. Once they are hard-wired into sexualizing children that mental wiring can't be reprogrammed. In my opinion, this is a mercy killing. In my opinion the sexual abuse of a child is grounds for execution. I hold my opinion with no remorse. A child victimized by this type of predator carries emotional and physical baggage that is permanent and often amounts to a living death in it's own right. To me, I have no remorse and I personally would pull the switch or inject a lethal injection into an individual guilty of this crime. I will sleep quite well the night after also.
by Vampyre Bat on June 5th, 2008
"A dead pedophile will not rape children again. That is a fact" - That sounds like something Mao, or Stalin, or a Roman Emperor might say. It may be true, but that sort of unbelievable ruthless thinking belongs in the ancient past.
by ACCOUNT CLOSED on June 5th, 2008
...Disregard the "Roman Emperor" part - I'm sure Romans, like Greeks, probably accepted pedophilia.
by ACCOUNT CLOSED on June 5th, 2008
With all due respect, as I said, I don't care what anyone's opinion of mine is. These people should receive the mercy they give their victims ...NONE...I could care less about Mao, Stalin, Jesus or The Dali Lama. Not all of humanity's changes have been for the better. Sometimes the wheel of progress moves in reverse. I think every victim or parent of a victim should have the right to execute whatever measure of justice they desire in this instance. I am I think in all things but this a reasonable man. But, on this issue I will show no mercy for the guilty.
by Vampyre Bat on June 5th, 2008
agreed, a molester is different from a robber, or thug, mercy will not make them better people.
by Wise Latina on June 10th, 2008
Do you keep tabs on literally every single former molester in the world? Is it really so hard to fathom that the justice/rehabilitation system can do it's job at least some of the time?
by ACCOUNT CLOSED on June 10th, 2008
As an attorney that has seen a lot. Yes it is too hard to fathom. I've seen too many get loose or disappear and end up killing a victim that screamed to loud or whatever. Better to keep them locked away than take the chance. An honest molestor with genuine remorse will tell you that he can't stop. He/she admits this and accepts their time in jail and possible an indeterminate admission to a mental health facility so that they keep themselves away from children because they unlike the "experts" realize that they can't be cured.
by Vampyre Bat on June 10th, 2008
Even as an attorney who has seen countless cases - that's still a huge generalization. I agree that they should stay at a mental health/rehab facility for as long as they are a threat...But before you said that, you were going on about handing execution power to the parents or castrating and killing them personally...that's quite a leap.
by ACCOUNT CLOSED on June 10th, 2008
Anti-Semantic that is for the rest of their lives. A Peodophile cannot change their sexual deviation no matter how much counselling they get. Rehab. is I am afraid a joke. That is why I tend my five year olds grave because too many people think counselling will cure. It cannot and will not and no matter how many people DR my opinion I would imagine I have reasonably good first hand knowledge, better than most lefty liberal people with too much social conscience and not enough knowledge.
by Firebrand on July 6th, 2008
You cannot presume to know what may potentially be in the mind of every pedophile in history, and in the future. People are unique - the fact that you may know an extremely stubborn, remorseless one, no more justifies that assessment, than the assessment by racists that all people of a certain colour may be criminals or terrorists.
by ACCOUNT CLOSED on July 6th, 2008
I will not argue a point that is known as a Scientific fact. NO peodophile is EVER cured. It has nothing to do with race sex or creed just plain old sexual deviation which CANNOT be cured. Do the research it is not just my opinion because my son was killed by a sick pervert. It is the opinion of 99% of psychiatrists.
by Firebrand on July 6th, 2008
Even if that was true, wouldn't that be all the more reason for trying to find ways to rehabilitate them? Imprisoning them for a disorder that cannot be cured is like imprisoning those who are insane. And keep in mind, most things which are "incurable", are usually just "incurable by modern means"...200 years ago, psychosis was "incurable".
by ACCOUNT CLOSED on July 6th, 2008
It is true,
Sorry you have not done your research.I am not willing to debate this issue with a person that feels they can find excuses for those that abuse and kill babies and small children. Have a nice evening.
by Firebrand on July 6th, 2008
You haven't been debating at all. You're clearly beyond even considering that you don't know everything you think you know.
by ACCOUNT CLOSED on July 6th, 2008
YOu obviously know even less than myself. I have now unsubscribed it is not a point I wish to argue.
by Firebrand on July 7th, 2008
Yes, because if no one does anything about it, they'll just keep abusing children.
by May on August 6th, 2008
Seriously? IMO not even Hitler deserved to die.
by I Are Yogi Bear on August 22nd, 2008
I agree with Firebrand 100%!!!!!!!! If anyone molested my innocent babies, I would lose all sanity and I couldn't promise what would happen or not happen to that person! I am so sorry for your loss Firebrand!
by JustinANDianiel on September 6th, 2008
Thank you very much JustinANDianiel :)
by Firebrand on September 6th, 2008
When a mind has been hard wired to a sexual orientation towards children, adults, the same sex, whatever, it can't be undone. The only known cure is death. Since society is unwilling to execute the only really effective deterrent, then they need to lock them away for good, either that or live with the consequences of being soft on these animals. I will reiterate my previous comment; The only good child molester is a dead one.
by Vampyre Bat on September 6th, 2008
I agree with you 100% Judge. on every point.There is not enough protection for children afforded by the law.
by Firebrand on September 6th, 2008
I'm with Firebrand And HanginJudge..I know such a case where the victim screamed to loud,and he cut her throat..then tryed to burn her...(4 year old mind you)....I say pull the switch! Them are some of my tax dollars feeding the puck..why he sits there and does nothing...but try to get appeals NO they don't Change!!!
My heart goes out to you Firebrand...Hang Tough..What goes around...comes all the way back Around!
by Anonymous on September 21st, 2008
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by ACCOUNT CLOSED on October 27th, 2008
We have so many downraters on Child Abuse questions I wonder if we have our own group of them on here.
by Firebrand on December 18th, 2008
Aye, we probably do. :(
by doodlethenoodle on December 18th, 2008
Hi Doodle how are you doing ?:)
by Firebrand on December 19th, 2008
I'm getting by, brandy. and yourself?
by doodlethenoodle on December 19th, 2008
Same, Doodle thank you getting by, not the best time of year for me but I will get through it Thank you :)
by Firebrand on December 19th, 2008
*Hugs* It's the same here. It's not much, but I'm here if you need anything. :)
by doodlethenoodle on December 19th, 2008
Thank you my friend :)
by Firebrand on December 19th, 2008
AT: +5
by Michael on February 12th, 2009
Execute the sick sons of bitches!
by psychotikid on February 19th, 2009
Anyone who preys on an innocent child deserves no mercy! anyone who defends or tries to soften the pure evil of their crime by sympathizing with them,are probably themselves pedophiles and can join them on that gurney with a needle in their arm. my sincerest sympathies Firebrand.
by psychotikid on February 19th, 2009
firebrand my heart goes out to you,
you make my situation seem barly any reason for me to be as angry as i am due to the fact of what has happened to my five year old and i thank my lucky stars that she opened up to me and i listened to her before it got anymore serious im fighting myself to make sure the person who did what they have to her gets everything i can thrown at them, but it seems to me like an upward struggle as they seem to be protecting him more than they are her, it is a sick world we live in today and we need to make a stand and protect our children im very sorry for your loss xxxx
by xxxx claire xxxx on February 19th, 2009
I totally agree here
by tab on February 20th, 2009
same here...harming a child in any way is simply not acceptable behavior for any society...and they say there is no healing for these....so , they should not be allowed to live in society...
by thatsJustme on March 3rd, 2009
Amen to that firebrand, I swear those are my exact words when I am asked this question.
by LilBleu on March 5th, 2009
I know I'll get heaps of flak from people who are totally focused on punishment, BUT, child abuse of all kinds is what produces these monsters in the first place, so why isn't anyone doing anything about stopping all kinds of child abuse, not just sexual abuse?
We as citizens are being put under all kinds of pressure, some of us cope better than others, and in far too many cases, when people fail to cope, it builds up a frustration, which far too often, many take out on children, in all forms of abuse.
Society as a whole, including the huge Corporations, have to all change their ways, or victims of abuse will continue to produce victims of abuse, with the end result, we'll just have more and more victims.
Ask yourselves who the real abusers are?
Then you'll know what the real cause of this behaviour is?
WHAT ABOUT THE VICTIMS, no point in beating up Pedos if we don't do something about what's creating them, otherwise were as guilty as them.
It starts with us.
by 123elementary on March 14th, 2009
Elementary, your comment, which i tend to agree with, reminds me of a quote from Les Miserables. "If the soul is left in darkness, sins will be committed. The guilty one is not he who commits the sin, but he causes the darkness."
Just thought I'd throw that in there.
by doodlethenoodle on March 15th, 2009
These words sing decades of truthful notes to me...The children fall victim to our ignorance or fetishist desires only because some care not what others feel. Our world is falling apart at a rate that seems next to impossible to rebuild to a manageable degree of trial and error... and all the world can seem to think of is how to get that next big fix, a way to hit that next quick lick, and "who the hell gonna suck my dick" or or play with my fanny, and so on you all get my point... instead of fixing the human anatomical surface that will only suffice for a hot second and then it's on to something new for preview and delight, can we all focus on what really needs fixing OUR MINDS, HEARTS, AND SOULS! LET'S ALL BRING OUR SHARE IN CREATING A BETTER LIVING FOR OUR FUTURE "THE CHILDREN!"
by imtalkn2u on June 1st, 2009
P.S
All those who are caught in the action of harming a poor little defenseless child, should have all their sexual organs (penises, tongues, hands and eyes) surgically removed and left with nothing but butt holes, then throw them in prison forever (whiles they are healing from the surgery) and leave them in the pin as a a living blow up doll for all the inmates who it... to play with...$}(evilgrin)and no they don't need to eat...
by imtalkn2u on June 1st, 2009
HELL YA !!!
by 63strole on June 5th, 2009
So sorry what happened to your son!
+4
by Caitlin on October 2nd, 2009
Thank you Caitlin :)
by Firebrand on October 3rd, 2009