I did it. i told him goodbye. i cant take the lies and the cheating anymore. so why do i feel like i wish i were dead?why cant i stop crying?why does it feel like no one understands?i have called all my friends and everyone is busy.no one cares about me.
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mermaid baby
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If no one cared about you than you'd have no one to call at all. Settle down, have some ice cream, read a book, and calm down. In a couple hours you'll feel fine.
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Good for you. It will be awhile before you stop crying, but you will. Don't think about wanting to die, you should be proud of yourself for finally making the decision to get out of that relationship. I've been there myself, so I know what you are going through. I'm sorry your friends are all too busy to talk to you. Concentrate on all the good things you can do for yourself now, instead of dwelling on him and what he did to you.
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You feel like you wish you were dead because a part of you has died when he walked out. You just have to remember that part of you is the sad, insecure little girl who you USED to be...not who you are now. You can't stop crying for all the pain you have been thru, but most of all your crying for all the failed promises and dreams you had going into this relationship. I feels like no one understands because you are not talking to the right people. It's not that your friends don't care about you, it's just that they have their own issues going on and truly don't undertand the severity of your emotions at this moment. When it feels like no one cares about you, care about yourself. Because in the end what you think is all that matters and remember...you still got us 24-7!! Chin up!!
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Please be strong, MB. I know it hurts a lot but you did the right thing. In time when you are feeling better try to reflect and think back on what you have learned from this experience and grow from it. Life has its ways of throwing at us experiences just so that we learn its lessons. No matter how negative you may feel this situation was to you try to be objective and extract from it whatever positive that you can. Try hard to shift your attention, energy, and awareness to all the good things that you have and be thankful for them. For one, be thankful that someone else took the trash out of your life and into hers (I guess she is up for some life lessons of her own)!!! I hope that you feel better soon.
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You did the right thing and should be proud of yourself, I know it hurts now but in time you will feel so much better and so glad you did it. Just cry when you need to and give yourself time to grieve..Hugs for you and stay strong.
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What you've done took courage and conviction. It was the right thing to do. Knowing that intellectually does not ease the pain of the loss of even a bad relationship. Your heart still hurts.
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Its called heartbroken. Even when you break up with Mr Wrong, it still hurts. And thats ok. If it didnt hurt you wouldnt be being real. But it does get better with time, I promise. And good for you for doing it! You wouldnt ever be able find Mr Right with Mr Wrong in the way. So you are on the right track. You were strong and true to yourself. Stay that way and your life will get better. Just give it time...
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I am so sorry you are hurt and heartbroken. I could give you the 'you're so much better off' talk but it's probably not something you want to hear at the moment, so I'll just send you some ((((luv'n'hugs))))and hope that you will not cry too much, for too long.
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Well I see this was asked over 18 months ago. I hope by now you have moved on and realized you are so much better off without him in your life. As for those so called friends I hope you found yourself some new ones. Ones you could depend upon to be there for you when your heart is aching and you just need a friend to talk to. I wish I was your friend at that time I would have been there for you to listen and help you through it. I am very blessed to have a real friend. She's a co worker of mine who has never judged me for some of the things I have done and when my girlfriend passed away a few months ago after a brief battle with cancer she was there for me. She would call every night to be sure I was ok and to see if I needed anything. She greeted me every morning with a warm hug and an I love you. Was there to listen to me when I just needed to vent about what I was feeling. I couldn't ask for a better friend.
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