What do you think of the premise that a couple should have separate bedrooms? Not separate lives, just separate bedrooms to retreat to when they wanted to perhaps rejuvenate or wait for a sexy knock on the door?
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shammers avoiding the holidays
ANSWERS: 19
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If they're both okay with it, then why not? Heck... If you're both okay with whipped cream, bananas, and tight gorilla suits, be my guest. A good pro would be, though, if you got into a fight, no one would need that lumpy couch the dog sleeps on
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I guess that's fine. As long as both are fine with it and there's no other agenda behind it.
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Katherine Hepburn took it even one step further by suggesting that men & women should have houses next door to each other, but I think she wasn't considering couples with kids at home!
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It might work for some; mystery is great! I couldn't do it though; I can't sleep without being cuddled up to the wife and she's the same way. We've done this so long though that it's just what we are used to.
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I think it might work for some people. I'm thinking my husband might be all for it right now. Apparently, I've been keeping him awake makeing weird breathing noises recently.
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i think it might be good for some people and it does keep a bit of mystery in the relationship, but its not for me i like to be able to reach over and pounce on my man lol
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not good for ALL couples but some. Some people have very different sleeping habits and having separate rooms might solve that issue. I got in a fight with my b/f the other week and i didn't want to be in the same room so i went in our spare room and watched a movie while we both cooled off. it was nice to get away for a few hours and take a nap. ALONE. :)
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My husband's grandparents haven't shared a bedroom since World War II. Grampa came back from the War a snoring, thrashing fool, and Gramma just couldn't take it anymore. They've had separate bedrooms ever since. And four children.
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I think that could lead to other types of separation. We don't like it for our relationship. It's a slippery slope. Whatever floats your boat.
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this reminds me of how my partner once suggested this to me. I was like cool.. but inside.." WHAAAAT.different rooms? But i want to hold you.." heh don't blame. She's love.
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I couldnt do it, i can barely stand my lover in iraq and looking forward to cuddling in the same bed for R&R. Plus we dont have another bed. So hes stuck in my room and i dont mind that at all ^_^
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for me that is a big Hell No. lol I want to snuggle and cuddle and be with my partner. I just have to get one now. lol
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Could be good every now and then but every night? I couldn't do it. I gotta have snuggle. :)
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If it works for both people, great. Some people have issues with snoring, flailing bodies or bedhogs. Its not like it is the only place you are going to be intimate. I wonder how you decide who's bed you are going to be intimate in.
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Maybe each of them can't stand it and who will be the first one to knock on each other door..
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i couldnt do it we snuggle all night my aunt and uncle sleep in seperate beds and are happy he nores and passes very smelly wind so they converted there house and made it bigger and put an extra bedroom downstairs she sleeps there he sleeps upstairs
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I think that it should be there own rooms but they sleep together. Nothing like being able to fall asleep in your loves arms every night. I say two rooms because everyone needs space and a personal room can give them a place to go when they need to with out having to leave and not have a chance to fix the problem.
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I think that being a 'couple' with someone, in a lasting relationship, means being intimate and spending time with each other, and not just about being sexy occasionally and having sex. It's about touching each other casually and being quiet in the dark, talking about things, sharing intimacies (and I'm not talking sex here) just being close. Lying with each other in the same bed is a wonderful opportunity for that to happen. The sexy stuff can always happen, be arranged or whatever, but the quiet times together are harder to 'stage' and better if they just happen. I can't imagine giving up the accidental touchings while sleeping, the last hugs before sleep, falling to sleep in his arms after a late night conversation. Those are gifts for any marriage.
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How do you know he doesn't have somebody else in there with him while you're in there alone?
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