If a man is overly feminine, do you consider him gay?
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overeasy240
ANSWERS: 22
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I would consider him camp and only assume he's gay. I knew a really camp guy everyone thought was gay but he actually had more than his fair share of women.
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Let's just say it crosses my mind . . . I know several extremely feminine men who profess to be straight. Some are even married. So there isn't a 100% correlation here. The only way to be sure whether or not a man is gay is to ask them - and you better have a pretty good reason for doing so, not just idle curiousity. Anything else is just an assumption - and you know what happens when you "assume". . . . lol :O)
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Not any more than I would for a female with a chili stain on her t shirt walking around in her underwear scratching her ass burping and asking everyone to pull their finger
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As a gay man, I am more attracted to men who don't act overly feminine, and I have met plenty of gay men who are not whiney bitchy drama queens. So if there are gay men who act masculine, then there must be straight men who act feminine.
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No. It might cross my mind but in the end a lot of them are just metrosexuals
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For me, this tends to fall into one of two scenarios: 1) I don't even notice 2) I notice, I wonder for a bit, then I forget about it. Since I am not gay, whether or not men I meet are gay is of almost no consequence to me. Furthermore, with the popularity of "metrosexuality" and "bling culture", the lines between masculine and feminine behavior in our society have been severely blurred.
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Of course not. Not all gays are effeminate, not all effeminate men are gays. It would just be stupid to assume one way or the other.
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nope...i sure dont. If he has a boyfriend then i consider him gay.
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Not it happens when he was brought up in a place where he was surrounded by females only...this can also effect his behaviour or the way he talks..so it cud be that he is not gay
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Yes, because he is acting gay. If a guy acts feminine he isn't gay but he is acting gay.
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Yes because you said 'overly' not slightly
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NO. A man is gay when he loves & sleeps with men, am I wrong gay men on here?
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No having feminine characteristics does not mean a man is gay. It is his sexual orientation that says if he is gay or not .
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My boyfriend is kinda of feminine more then most guys but im possitive he is NOT gay lol. He likes to cook and he likes bubble baths its cute :P
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No, I consider him cleaaaner than the averrrrage male! :P
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No, I know some guys who are overly feminine and I don't question their sexuality one bit.
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No, I don't. The stereotypes just do not hold true.
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No, only his sexuality determines if he is gay or not.
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Nope but I'd think he aint man enough for me.
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That would be a normal assumption but I can say it's not always true because I'm a 35 year old straight man that LOVES WOMEN ONLY but acts like a woman. I walk like one, and when I'm standing up I will start to jiggle, shake, or switch like a woman without trying. It got really bad for me at age 23. I wish I could find a woman that will accept me like this.
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no, i don't know what you mean by overly feminine.
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It would cross my mind but I wouldn't make any assumptions
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