My girlfriend has never seen a porn video before and wants me to watch one with her. Should I be worried?

No, you should be really freakin' exited! Man, do you know what I would give to be in your position? I don't even care about all that lesbian stuff, I'd be so into that. Take this. Don't look a gift horse in the mouth. Not too many girls would be that open with a guy, so consider yourself lucky.

Worry usually doesn't accomplish much. So I would say, no, don't worry. Besides, it isn't clear to me from your question what you're worried about. I'd worry that she doesn't pick a good title -- there are 10's of 1000's of titles out there -- not all of them will hold your interest.

As a start, you might search imdb: http://www.imdb.com/Sections/Genres/Adult/ -- you'll see that out of 20,000+ adult films -- only 5 are worthy of their "top" list -- of those, I'd pick Baise-moi (France, 2000) -- the moral of that story is: be careful with your sex life -- it could kill you!!! I wouldn't even call it porn, because it makes a statement -- but it crosses so many lines in making it statement that I guess somebody decided it's porn.

Missing from IMDB's list is "Behind the Green Door" a cult classic.

Enjoy!/p

Only if there is another guy in the room and she's jacking him off.

it could be a wrong thing to do. Whatever you do dont show her the extra bits that you enjoy just by yourself but dont think of imposing to her, cause she might get that idea. For example: when I watch porn I specialy like doggy style, but when with my girl its not my favourite pose at all. Try to think what she would like to see.

Buy some lubricant, some wine, and some reverse magnification glasses for her where everything will look smaller, and go for it!

not at all.

N. enjoy it with her. have fun. it;s not so serious. smile. laugh.

Worried? That she might start making comparisons??!

No I'd think it was a good thing to share. :)

no watch them with her !

No, they all look the same, she will tire if it

Not at all. she's all yours.

Hell No .That will put some spark in your sex life and you both might find out to like to watch and get some ideas for your love making

no not at all ... go for it and enjoy ...let her pick one that she likes (or might like)... you'll both have a great time ...just enjoy it for what it is ..another tool in you pleasure chest !!

You should be excited. By watching porn together, I'm pretty sure it will only enhance your relationship sexually...

No not neccessarily...

If she starts talking about 3 sums or group sex, gangbangs etc... THEN GET WORRIED...

If she just wants to watch people cum no worries...

I totally agree with BitchyinPink on this. Try to find out what she likes or is curious about beforehand. There are so many categories of porn out there that you could very easily freak her out. The title you pick for her first time will definetly have an important impact on her view on porn.

Personally, I've had good success with a movie called Zazel (http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0157204/). It is just gorgeously filmed. And the cast is hot!.

I remember when my current gf and I watched it together. I had setup blankets on the floor with a lot of pillows. She was leaning against me as we sat on the floor. As the movie progressed I massaged her slowly from behind and eventually my hands found her...spot. Needless to stay we never saw the ending!

Ah...the memories!

Since, we've watched quite a few. I must admit its a part of our intimacy. Strangely through porn, we actually got to know each other a lot better sexually. She still manages to surprise me as she mimics different roles we've seen together. Sometimes not so classy lol

Hmm... I think I'm going to go visit her at work tomorrow :)

PS.I recommend any movies by Andrew Blake. Generally very tasteful adult movies. Sets the mood right if she's into that stuff. Very arousing ;)

I dont think you should be all that worried... if its something youd think she'd enjoy then go ahead but you may want to start with something not to hardcore at first but if she seems ok with it then go for it !!!

My girlfriend and I share my porn collection... I think it's wonderful and special that she wants to watch her first porn video with you. Why would you be worried if you're girlfriend wants to share that with you? Unless you don't like porn...

Worried about what?

Only if you bring home a video with gay men.

No... u should not b worried bcuz shes tryin to get aroused... which u should b more than happy about.... bcuz she is tryin an u obviously are not...

Not at all, get condoms with you, eat some honey and hazelnuts 2 hrs before meeting, because cases as the one you ask for, most of the times, move to a nice evening.

I have recently wanted to start looking at porn. But I didn't want to just watch it by myself I want to watch it with somebody else. So maybe your girl just want you by her side. I mean wouldn't you want to be there just in case your girl gets turned on. My boyfriend always wants me after watching porn so maybe it'll be the same for her, maybe she wants you there just in case she gets turned on. Just some food for thought.

I'm a girl, but defiantly not. YOu should be greatful that you actually found a girl whom wants to watch it with you. Most men wish their girlfriends would watch it with them.

No but you would be a fool not to take her up on her offer. You both will have a great time, and you may want to try some of the positions in the porno

consider yourself lucky. Sounds like she's sexually adventurous. Give her a prono show, then ask her what she's seen that she'd like to try.

Well all i can say its that would you rather have you,a porn or another guy teach your girlfriend them things.You may want to watch porn with her or you are in some trouble..lmao

That's nothing to worry about. She has a curious mind. Before my current boyfriend of 3 years, I had never been to a strip club, so I asked him to take me. And it doesn't mean anything, I just wanted to see what the fuss was about. Personally, I think the food was better and hotter than some of the chicks.

I wouldn't be! I'd be glad that she wants to watch it with you and not somebody else! LOL You two will probably have fun! :D

No, why worry about it. I asked my man to watch one with me but he won't do it, he pefares to watch them alone. That worries me.

Don't worry, be happy.

But do be careful. Pick something designed to appeal to women (meaning the sex is erotic and plausibly within the plot of the film...and yes, there should be a plot-- i.e. no hardcore porn). Do whatever you can to make it a comfortable experience for her and you will not regret it.

I would be worried in particular if you have an average or below average sized penis.

The men in porn will all have very big dicks. This may be attractive to your girlfriend.

If she does not have a lot of experiences seeing and touching other penises she may start wondering about other guys and may want to experience what attracted her (the big dick in the porn).

No need to be worried, go for it. It could be a fun and exciting experience for you.

Nope, though you might want to read some porn video reviews and pick out something more along the lines of "normal sex". You'll want to avoid the more extreme varieties of sex since she has never seen a porn video before.

Obviously it will not be "normal" sex, but if you can get something fairly close to the real thing it won't be a traumatic experience for her. If you get the right video she might even consider acting out some of the scenes, if only to see if it possible to "rotate around like that."

No not neccessarily...

If she starts talking about 3 sums or group sex, gangbangs etc... THEN GET WORRIED...

If she just wants to watch people cum no worries...

no i wouldnt be, the first time i asked my fiance to watch one with me she was soo excited, and it was something that we got to share together and it made things a little more exciting

No, you should not. Be selective as to what the two of you should watch. Be sure that the movie has a point to it, for some are quite cheesy and have no plot at all and that they are quite boring. Be sure that it is not hard core, that will be a complete turn off. Be sure that you make the experience a quite enjoyable and comfortable experience for the two of you.

yeah worried that maybe you can;t keep up with her or can't get it up..

Here's the thing, Anonymous...

There are several things that could be going through your head, so there's really several different possible answers.

If you are worried that it might "gross her out"... Make sure you don't pick one with "over the top" features - like 6 guys stroking for distance on some poor ladies head.

If you are worried that you don't have a "stunt di@k" like the ones they cast in these movies, just remember that most women don't like to be bludgeoned half to death by a sausage the size of a 1 liter Pepsi.

If you are worried that you dont last as long as they do in the movies, remember that 90% of good lovin' happens well before the little scudder even gets pulled out of your trousers. You need to be stimulating her brain long before you touch her privately.

I used to be intimidated because I didn't have a 12' meat plow with ribs like a rabbit and a bad attitude.

But having learned a thing or two, I'll go up against a stunt di@k any day of the week.

Just take it slow and enjoy it. Tease her, and don't let her touch you privately while you are watching.

worried?!

jeez dude. go get some toys.

No, have fun with it. It's just a video. At least it's not another person!

yeah worried that maybe you can;t keep up with her or can't get it up..

i dont think so some of my friends asked me to and they said its so they didnt feel so inexperieced and it totally gets the mood on no matter who you are...

Heck no, but do encourage her, "Let's play copy the actors honey". ;0)

NO NO NO!!! Getting a women to watch porn is liking pulling teeth. Don't miss this opportunity.

Why should you be worried? Women will watch porn these days with their man..Ive done it.

No! Be happy, BE VERY HAPPY!