If you are a guy who had a vasectomy and you date this really hot woman and she starts talking about her dreams of being a mom, do you tell her that it won't be by you or do you just keep quiet?
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I think it would be beneficial to be honest up front. If you wait too late to tell her, it could cause a lot of heartache down the road.
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I'd be upfront with her. I don't hide anything from someone that I am in love with. We could discuss adoption or if she truly wants a child...I hear vasectomy's are reversible. If it meant that much to her...I'd forego that kind of surgery.
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you tell her straight up ...no use in letting her think your the one and then her finding out your not at a later date ...its the right and only thing to do
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I think it would be so devastating to find out when you are really in love with the guy that he hadn't told you later when you could have stopped the relationship if having your own child is so important to you or to build the relationship up knowing or thinking of alternatives. It's a bad hurtful way to make that foundation and doesn't speak well of the guy not being honest and lacking in integrity.
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Vasectomies are reversible. It's not 100% success but I would tell her.
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Tell her or you'll be in big trouble later on when she insist on getting you both tested because you can't get her pregnant. And they are reversible, not always successfully but you could at least try, and she might be open to adopting so it wouldn't be a problem. Just don't hide it.
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