ANSWERS: 63
  • I think that there a true bisexuals.
  • Ya know, I truly have no idea, and I don't consider it my business. Another person's sexuality is very personal unless they choose to share it, and who they share it with is also very personal. I don't have any scientific data with which to determine whether someone is born bisexual and quite honestly it doesn't matter to me. Each person is free to be whoever they want to be, as long as the sex is with other consenting adults.
  • I know there are true bisexual people out there...I have been one for over 40 years and over that time I have met many of them both as friends and sexual partners and we out number both gays and lesbians if the truth be known...lol
  • Masters & Johnsons research shows that most people lie somewhere along a line that ranges from totally straight to totally gay. And, some may still be in the process of determining their sexual identity/orientation.
  • I think that there are actual bisexuals with sexual attraction to both genders.
  • I think there are true bisexuals. I'm one of them.
  • There are no true uni-sexuals.
  • I think there are because I am one. I have had female and male relationships, and I like them both the same.
  • Yeah, there are actually people who swing both ways. People who could give less than a shit about gender. People who are either very happy or very stressed all the time, because everyone turns them on.
  • Most who are very heterosexual are proudly so.... and sure of it, some even cannot understand anything beyond that. Most who are very homosexual are sure of it, and are attracted to thier own sex exclusiveky and perhaps do not understand the attraction to the opposite gender. Everything in between is everything in between.... it is most of us though we may identify as one extreme or the other. Some women think looking at another woman naked is very gross, while others see beauty in it, the artistic nature of the female form, even if they are not sexually attracted to it. Some men think looking at another man naked is very gross, while others don't have a problem with it and may even appreciate the male form, even if they are not sexually drawn to it. ( I call them "secure") I think "some" bisexuals are people experimenting and some people keeping "one foot in the closet" (possibly even for fear of persecution.) **** I think they are better classified as "bi-curious" **** note:There are people who marry the opposite sex or date the opposite sex just because they are afraid of bieng gay because people have pushed it off on them. I do not consider these poor souls bicurious... or bisexual.... I consider them "scared". (My aunt was married for a couple of years to a guy who wouldn't touch her.... he left her for a man and finally had to tell her he wasn't attracted to women, he never had been and begged her not to hate him.... I feel sorry for such people. Society does wrong by them.)****** However there are also "true" bi-sexuals.... those who'd love the company of a man just as well as that of a woman. Those who really like both equally. This is a long answer but yes some are and yes there are true ones as well.... lol. I should know, I am truly bisexual!
  • i think there are definitely bisexual people out there. that doesn't mean that there isn't going to be some people who are unsure or experimental with their sexuality though. just something to keep in mind...
  • I do believe there are true bisexuals...but some have problems with the environment around then...such as their town...it can look down on those that do marry/date/flirt/etc. with someone of the same sex...such as my town... So I see it as a closet bisexual.
  • I truly believe that I am full blown Bi-sexual. I love both men and women. For me I was attracted to both sexes at a young age. I denied my bi-sexuality for 38 years. While I have been with women whom later came out for them that was the case. So for me and my experience I am bi-sexual.
  • Bisexuals exist. I am one. Problem is, there ARE plenty of people like those you describe- gay people (usually men) saying "I'm bi!" because it doesn't sound as 'bad' as saying "gay", and straight people (usually women) who say "I'm bi!" because it makes their sig. others randy. Frankly those people annoy the living daylights out of me because they make the rest of us look bad, or at least confused. I know a lot of gay people who won't date bi people because of that.
  • Yes there are true bi-sexual people. Some people find both sexes equally desirable. Some prefer to have a relationship with either one of the other, but find both sexes attractive.
  • I'm bisexual, and I'm offended when others see me as 'wishy-washy' or 'bi-curious.' "Labels? Okay, fine. I'm bisensual. Heteroflexible. And life-curious. That about covers it." ~Morgan Torva "Bisexuality is a blessing and a curse, but viewing it as a schizophrenia will make you insane. If I try to live my life on only one side of the river, I'm torn asunder by thoughts of the opposite shore. Yes, being bisexual can rip one's soul apart. But if it's done right, with an open heart and honest life, I find my peace living in the river, quenched by the water which touches both sides, one drop indistinguishable and inseparable from the next. I am not a whole person with split desires: I am a whole person with desire. As everyone is, regardless." ~Agavé Powers My two favorite quotes on the subject, which pretty much sum up my feelings about it.
  • I think some of us! We like the best of both worlds!. lol (we know how we are).lol As long as it's done in love ..... who's to say it's right or rong. love xoxox
  • I think they are just really horny :)
  • I like to have sex with women, I love to have sex, make love,and fuck my husband... So I dont know what you would call me. I guess just verysexual
  • I think sexuality is a joke, and we belive that heterosexual relationships are the morally right ones simply because of the physical parts that seem to mesh together. Even though majority of the population is heterosexual, if they hadn't been taught at a young age that it was "the more correct sexual stance" homosexual relationships would be much more prevalent. By the way, I don't consider myself a bisexual, a lesbian, or a straight person.
  • I think there is straight and gay and and infinite number of points in between. I imagine very few of us would ever be on the same point at a given time. And if you look at it as a statistic, I guess most people could fall inside the area in between. It a matter of degree. Some people are fully gay, and that's great for them. Some are completely straight, and good luck to them too. But many of us fall into the interesting area in between. The negatives are that the super gay and super straight people find our "indecision" difficult to deal with, like we're not "really" anything, and we are not accepted by either. The positives are that we can flow with the tide and there are no restrictions on us. We might like both sexes but have a leaning towards one direction or another at a given time, it makes it really interesting. And if ever we are adventurous to get into a group situation, well we are certainly qualified to make the best of that!
  • It is hard to define TRUE. Because I believe that there are bi-sexuals, who will be bi for life, and be sexually active with both sexes. the question is, could you have a serious and happy relationship with either? Will you always be craving the other sex? I just got out of a 2 year relationship with a woman, and am now so not into women, and just want a man...but I'm afraid if I settle down with a man, I'll want to be with a women! I'm not selfish...I won't cheat...I just like both equally, and can't be satisfied with just one sexual organ. It sad...how do I figure it out? I was so in love with this girl though, so I know its not "when you meet the right person...", cause after 2 years, we just didn't work anymore...
  • There are true bi-sexual people. I struggle with it everyday.
  • I am actually a bisexual woman, and i know that I am truely bisexual. People ask me all the time how you can like both, but its just plain old attraction. Nothing i can do about it. i think the frustrating thing is all the girls (and guys too i suppose) who pretend to be bisexual because people think it's 'hot'. i believe thats why some people don't take bisexuality serriously
  • i used to think they were one or the other but now I think that there actually are people who prefer BOTH!
  • I do think there are true bi-sexual people. what is wrong with enjoying the company of either sex. I am straight but I am very interested in having an experience with the same sex (female) and what I don not see anything wrong with it.
  • Meh, doesn't matter to me. People can do whatever they want. Doesn't bother me any. =)
  • I am bisexual, through and through (har har). It's not a point of indecision, I really do like both men and women, equally. I look for the quality of the person, and don't really care what's in their pants. So yes, I believe in bisexuality, although there are some women who seem to think it's fashionable to call themselves bisexual because they think guys think it's hot. Those are the ones that make people not believe that it's really possible to be bisexual.
  • Human sexuality is not an either/or proposition. The spectrum is broad and runs from strictly heterosexual all the way to strictly homosexual and all points in between.
  • Yes,there are bisexual people.
  • Yes there are bisexual people, it makes more sense to be open to everyone. But I also think theres swingers, whores, sluts, and curious folk.
  • I consider myself to be bisexual. I've had numerous same-sex and polyamorous relationships, but am most comfortable in a hetero/monogamous relationship. I don't believe this makes me gay-but-keeping-one-foot-in-the-closet, nor do I think it makes me "confused". I simply find both genders to be sexually appealing; I think it's important to seek happiness in life, and for some people that doesn't have to be limited by gender.
  • I am bisexual. I like both guys and girls; I've had relationships with both genders, and I can enjoy sex with both genders. So no, I'm not experimenting or trying to hide being lesbian.
  • I am one, so yes, I think there are. I am genuinely attracted to both males and females. I'm open to change, open to most things, so if I were to 'become' fully gay, then that's fine by me. I am attracted to a person individually, gender doesn't matter to me.
  • THERE IS SUCH THNG AS BEING BISEXUAL. I AM. I have had feelings for both men and women. but i prefer men over women.
  • Nope...don't think there are "true" bi-sexuals...or even "true" gays. So, I guess I would lean toward it being straights experimenting and gays being even more confused that they already are... :P
  • Most people are Bi.
  • Neither, they're really animal-lovers in denial, who pretend to love people.
  • Who knows. Maybe they are all different.
  • There are definitely Bi-sexual people in this world. My BFF is Bi and has had two major loves in her life, one a man and one a woman. Both were long term committed relationships. In regards to ones comment that some gay men find it easier to say they are bi than gay, I don't agree. Society openly accept gay and Bi women easier than a gay or Bi man. Personally I don't think it really matters what ones sexuality is, I was always raised to base a person on nothing more than how they treat others. Not their religious beliefs, not their race and not their sexuality. These things have nothing to do with how a person will treat you or others, it doesn't measure a persons personality.
  • I'm NOT straight, gay..or bi...BUT..I AM faithful and committed to my partner... whether it be male or female at the time...I AM IN LOVE WITH THEIR SPIRIT...not the physical form they are burdened with... or how they perform the act of sex...SO WHY WHY IS IT GOOD TO BE STRAIGHT AND BAD TO BE GAY/LES BUT EVEN WORSE TO BE BI???...BUT OK TO HAVE A THREESOME Why can't it be... 'I AM, WHAT I AM, WHEN I AM' I happen to be...ME
  • Yes, there are true bisexual people.
  • I think we are all bi. If my girlfriend were a guy, but looked and acted the same way, I would still be with her.
  • Of course there are "true" bisexual. Human sexuality isn't categorical, it is a spectrum with everybody lying at a point on it. And it probably can vary a little bit throughout life. But yes, there are people who are sexually and emotionally attracted to people of both sexes.
  • Imagine walking around having to look at EVERYONES ass? That would be alot of work! But it happens.No biggie.
  • Gay people like people with the same sex, straight people like people with the opposite sex, bi-sexual people don't care about the same they just see the person and they fall in love with the personality of someone, they are open to everything.
  • I don't believe in being bisexual. if you like penis, your gay. If you like it up your ass, your gay. It's either straight, or gay. Pick one.
  • The experimenting ones are bi-curious. If there are people calling themselves bi-sexual instead of gay, surely that would only cause more confusion for themselves and people who know them. But as always, if someone tells me they are gay/straight/bi, then that's what they want me to believe, whether its true or not. Its not my place to judge and shouldn't bother me, unless there are romantic interests involved.
  • I think bisexuality developes and both gay and straights can develope those feelings at any time in their life depending on who they meet and the sexual desires they crave...many people are just bi-curious and is simply a phase people go through but doesnt mean they are bi.
  • I'm a Bisexual b/c I am attracted to not all girls but also not all guys, but definitely some of both.
  • Well me being straight(male) for 19 years then all of a sudden finding an attraction (not sexual i dont think) to guys too is just random. I call myself bi-curious now cuz i guess thats me by definition unless i really am bi. but i do believe they exist. i could definatly be one in the future.
  • No people can definatly be bisexutal. I'm married to a wonderful man I truly love but still have strong feelings and sexual attraction to other women.
  • I am the wrong person to ask
  • I live with a young man who is truly bisexual and has no,problem with himself.
  • Some people will do anything with a heartbeat...some don't even need the heartbeat. To each their own, I suppose.
  • There are real bi-sexual people. I have a very god friend who truly enjoy not only the sexual aspect of both men and women but also the close emotional parts of each.
  • i belive they are true bis i'm one of them
  • I agree with the idea that sexuality is on a spectrum. I think that there are very few people who are "strictly straight" with no attraction whatsoever to the same sex. There is one theory that has been tossed around that humans at one point were able to choose their gender, like clams. This could possibly be why the range of sexuality in people is so large--because some people were, in some aspects, maybe better suited to be the opposite gender to what they are. I have no idea if this theory is true or if it has any evidence to back it up, but it's interesting nonetheless, and it makes sense. Anyways, the hardest part with such a spectrum is figuring out at which "well known point" you fall closest to, and if you are going to consider yourself straight, gay, or bisexual (we kind of have to refer to ourselves as Something... it's only helpful for those around us). I'm struggling myself right now with figuring out whether I'm "closer" to being bisexual or straight.
  • I have altered my opinion on this subject quite a bit, among my many opinions concerning sexuality, and this is what I think: Human sexuality is a complex and vast realm of possibilities. To take it and place any one individual's sexuality into a box and call it heterosexual, homosexual or even bisexual really confines the human being. With that being said, the short answer to your question is "yes", but that is a brief explanation at best... Just my opinion...
  • I'm bi, so yeah, I believe we're out here! I find both men and women attractive, and can see myself in a relationship with either.
  • they are just straight people experimenting. or confused strait people.
  • The definition of bisexual is simply being attracted to men and attracted to men. Regardless if that attraction is ever acted on. So obviously, there are true bisexual people. In fact I think there are probably more bisexual people than straight people, if they were being completely honest with themselves.
  • I think more of us are bi than str8 or gay. I certainly fall somewhere in the middle, very close to the str8 but still with enough curiosity and interest in men to not be 100% straight. Never done anything with a man and probably never will, but I can't say I don't have bi thoughts.....

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