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  What do I do when my ex girlfriend doesn't want a relationship anymore because she wants me to focus on my studies, but she wants to focus on her studies too. And she currently doesn't want anything that does with me being in love with her. So what do I do??Oh she also said it will be fine even though i wouldn't love her anymore. She also said we will be together one day if we were meant to be.
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  2 days ago I met Gril that her friend has a crush on me. I walked with her to that.girl and she didnt look any way sympatied about me she just facepalmed and get a bit shy when she saw me.Next day she asked me about my name I decided to tell it. When i came back from school I looked on facebook and they in fact invited me. Today I decided to ask for real whats going on she still says that her friend has crush on me stuff. But still the girl that she was talking about doesnt show any kind of feeling to me.They are propobly 1 year younger than me (Im 17) . So my question is are they just joking or theres something more that I dont noticing. Sorry for my english but its not my native laungage
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  My boyfriend still lives with his wife and kids. He is not with his wife anymore but still sleeps there and is there a lot.I ended up prgnamt and am now thre month's. He will not finalize the divorce or sell the house and I feel second to all of this. He knows it has been the reason for many arguements but will not budge! He says it is bcuz of bills and his kids. He told me he would move with me if he ever got me pregnant and obviously that did not happen. This baby is still a secret to all hos family and her as well! Any advice? Is this acceptable coming from a man who says he loves you? he has toyally pulled back since we found out Im pregnant and has left me alone to move and find housing . I am ending up gavig to live with my mom and her jerk bf in the country..
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  My dad crossed the united states illegally about 19 years ago. He met my mother after being here for a couple of months. She is an american citizen. He and my mother had 3 children. I am almost 18 and my brother and sister are under 18. He payed taxes and he never got in trouble with police. He went back to mexico around 6 years ago. I was wondering if he has a chance coming over to the U.S.A but legally. If he can, how can we help him.
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  My boyfriend still lives with his wife and kids. He is not with his wife anymore but still sleeps there and is there a lot.I ended up prgnamt and am now thre month's. He will not finalize the divorce or sell the house and I feel second to all of this. He knows it has been the reason for many arguements but will not budge! He says it is bcuz of bills and his kids. He told me he would move with me if he ever got me pregnant and obviously that did not happen. This baby is still a secret to all hos family and her as well! Any advice? Is this acceptable coming from a man who says he loves you? he has toyally pulled back since we found out Im pregnant and has left me alone to move and find housing . I am ending up gavig to live with my mom and her jerk bf in the country..