Been dating a woman for two years now. She seems successful and has her own business. My net worth is about $2mil. We never discuss money. Should I tell her what I'm worth. I feel like I'm hiding something, even though it's not an issue..Yet.
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Well, if she's reading this the secrets out. Anyways if its such a big secret why would you tell all of AB that you have you say 2 mil. I mean you might as well have said 100 mil. The point is maybe you need to expand your range of conversation with this gal and who knows maybe she has 4 mil in her mattress.
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Yes tell her because if she is successful in her own right then it's highly unlikely she is the gold digger type. You're probably going to get a lot of friend requests from women on here...lol.
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Money is a sensitive topic. I would hold off on this information just yet. Maybe a good timing is when she decides to talk about money and reveal her net worth, you can reveal yours also? That way, you know she's ready to talk about money. It's not like you're hiding something like bankruptcy or debt that may affect her negatively if you two are to marry in the future.
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I am worth 2 million dollars also if you carve me up and sell my organs to people who need transplants.
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no, you NEVER tell her you're net worth. It doesn't matter if you've been married 50 years, do not tell her how much you own! Doing that is asking to get robbed blind in a divorce later on.
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Do not tell your partner, ever, what your worth or if they're in your will etc... First off you will always know their motives for being with you are not money related no matter what comes up. Nor will you get killed/divorced/manipulated out of your assets. If your partner gets frustrated for not knowing if their in your will or not then their either not mature enough/don't have the perspective/life experience to understand and you can either overlook this and continue the relationship or go in search of someone more on your level or will respect your decisions regardless if they agree or understand your motives. Hope this helps. congrats on being together for 2+ years
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No, don't tell her unless it comes up. Now days, a person will stay with someone just because they have money, even if they themselves are successful.
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My opinion: Unless you are going to get married, or decide to be in a committed relationship, it does not need to be revealed.
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do not tell her networth, none of her business at this stage. Before you get committed, get a good, fair prenup.
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She probably already ran a check on you fro finances and criminal background. I did for every punk my daughters dated. ( not that you are just a reference)
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