Are you haunted by the guilt of mistakes you have made which have hurt other people?
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denise
ANSWERS: 10
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yes all the time but I cannot tell you why
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yes all the time but I cannot tell you why
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yes and i certainly believe in karma! what goes around definately comes back to bite you in the arse!
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Some go back as far as 32 years ago..i cant shake them loose..even though I have apologized i can't forgive me for hurting them.
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Yes, I am. And no matter how hard I try can't shake the guilt even after apologizing and doing what ever I can to make up. And the mistakes I made towards Jay will never go away because ashes can't talk back and tell me "It's okay, you didn't do anything wrong. It wasd my choice to go to work. And you couldn't know I would die on the way home."
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I was in the gulf war and instead of saving a group of civillians which had many children in it I chose to run with the rest of my men. The next day i saw the outcome of the incident on a suadi news channel. Iraqi soldiers had executed them because they were Shia
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No,I have never done anything to harm any individual but,I am being haunted by the ghosts of past when others had hurt me every now and then.
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Everyone says dumb things now and then and I've had my share. I'm mortified when something comes out sounding tactless and I didn't intend it to. And I tend to still remember it decades later. I'm much better at forgiving others than I am at forgiving myself.
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I think this is a very good question. No, I am not haunted by this. I try very hard to minimize any hurt that I cause to others, and while I might regret any unintentional hurt, it certainly doesn't haunt me. I would think it would be very difficult living under the stress of massive guilt.
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no does that mean i haven't hurt people? no, because like all of us here, i have. how do i deal with guilt? if i can, i make it right, apologize to the one i hurt. if there's nothing i can do to fix it, i just remind myself,'i'm not THAT person anymore'. and i think of the people who've hurt me and try to forgive them.
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